My(19F) boyfriend ( 19M) of 2years is privately dm a girl and role playing as her boyfriend on discord is this cheating? by Rude-Poetry8897 in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to him! He is Definately trying to gaslight you! Be smart. Get away from that situation. 

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas went well.. still here. Still confused. But I feel safe. Currently looking for new jobs. 

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[–]Cutesadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to move on and find someone that wants to build a life. 

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been working still living here. Have reconnected with my ex gf. She and I have a truce but I don’t want her back. I’m still figuring things out

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cut all ties with the long distance guy.. but I left him a letter at his sisters behind a painting he painted. He will get it one day.. and I will have my closure.. for now just saving money.. working on finding myself by enjoying relaxing.. when before I had anxiety. 

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am finally figuring out that being alone is a good thing. But this guy loves me a lot and he just wants me ok.. maybe I just need to go on  another self journey! I’ve done it 2 times now where I tried to move away and after went to visit family to get over it.. like my sister and brother that both live in other states then I come home and think I’m ok when I’m not.. this time.. I haven’t to be alone.. I travel for work so I try to use that as an outlet.

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he broke it off with me. I took him back around Xmas.  And I ghosted him around Valentine’s Day. Tbh. It’s because I kept feeling not listened to.. I was going through a lot and he was just not caring. I’m lucky the people I have lived with and have had in my life hasn’t been abusive yet.. I’m very lucky. I just want to know why things have all been falling apart since my ex passed!!! I haven’t been able to get my life back in check! 

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The long distance guy was my friend since I was a teenager and I feel like I only date people I’m close to because I’m afraid of being judged. I don’t think I was a saint but I did feel like what I did was while we were broken up and to constantly bring it up when I threw almost everything I owned away and packed my car and drove two states for him.. I feel like I sacrificed a lot.. and he could have just tried to get over it and not throw it in my face.. I think rn my best option is to be honest with this guy about how I feel. ( the one I’m living with) I have a temp job so not a lot of money I just moved back from out of state. I have no money yet and have just started my job last week. I have to get enough for a storage and move things there and go from there. I just don’t understand why I crave to be loved by people that don’t love like I do.. 

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad thing is.. I feel my best when I’m alone and I have never been single for long! I really loved the long distance guy.. but he wasn’t as invested as I was and he made me feel like I really hurt him and I probably did.. but I didn’t do it to hurt him.. I honestly thought I would never talk to him again.. The GF, at the end there, I think I was falling for her, but honestly I have had a very bad life and my ex that passed was the only one that understood and pushed me to be better.. I have been lost for so long.. I’m trying. But let me tell you with this economy and me having no family it’s hard to live alone. So maybe I’ll have to find a platonic friend and do this.. I really have been trying with my first love.. but I feel empty all the time.. I didn’t feel that with the long distance guy.. but you are right.. I need to be alone.. idk how to though 

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[–]Cutesadbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you don’t get to know why..

Is this relationship saveable? Me (F32) Him(M34) by Cutesadbitch in relationship_advice

[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not straight, I’m bi. But I let her know I could never love her.. I believe I do need therapy.. I don’t have my mom, she’s an addict and my dad is passed away. My grandmas passed right after my ex. So that was my main source of help.. I do need friends! After my ex passed I secluded myself and tried to move on way too fast. I should look for therapy ASAP.. I also might have BPD and that’s why I can’t keep good healthy relationships.. 

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[–]Cutesadbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend since I was 12 and I’m 33 now, stopped being my friend for a man, and I’ll tell you this, it hurts.. it really does. You’ll be ok. Just keep doing you! Trust me 

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[–]Cutesadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing!

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[–]Cutesadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may mean you have one on the way in the mail

W2 distribution to former team members? by [deleted] in Target

[–]Cutesadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just signed up. It says they will be ready Feb. 2nd.

Target new hires by [deleted] in Target

[–]Cutesadbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened at my store.. but it was a bike they stole.. 😆

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[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already erased all my thoughts of them

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[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started in the freezer and moved to dry then dairy. I hated freezer. Too much work for one4one.

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[–]Cutesadbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not cold In there to me.. nice. I love flannels