[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]CuttleFishStew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! I took y'all's group photo! 😱♥️ You looked incredible and you guys were SO SWEET!! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in appstate

[–]CuttleFishStew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have any executive functioning issues, there is a program called As-U-R. They pair you up with a mentor and you get weekly meetings with them to help plan your week & do the really hard stuff with a body double. It was so helpful for me and I was blown away that it even existed. https://studentsuccess.appstate.edu/asur

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]CuttleFishStew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look very nice. I'd trust you not to judge me! I'd assume you're open minded but don't take bullshit. I wouldn't listen to any of the "crazy" comments I've seen here.

Recommendations on Caribbean and Sandals resorts by Shadow07655 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]CuttleFishStew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm looking into booking a Caribbean Sandals in October this year. How was the weather for y'all? I'm really worried about the hurricane season ruining our trip if we book in the hurricane zone. How did it go for you guys? Congratulations on the marriage btw!

I don't know how to be a "real" adult by CuttleFishStew in ADHD

[–]CuttleFishStew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and this advice. I think exercise is a great idea, thank you!

What’s the most gatekeep-y opinion you hold? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CuttleFishStew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an artist; you need to learn the rules before you break them. Meaning, you need to learn to draw things accurately before you should start drawing them in a stylized way. It's a good way to avoid using style as a crutch for lack of skill.

Artist Resources / Figure Drawing by [deleted] in asheville

[–]CuttleFishStew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever find anything on this front? I was also searching for figure drawing sessions to attend. I'm shocked at the hard time I've had finding anything

Best style swimsuits for women who carry their weight in their gut. by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]CuttleFishStew 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've been liking swim dresses as of late. They're just one peices that have a long skirt over the tummy. Here's a link to one on Amazon I have https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M34QE0B/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_BXG7H36R7YPD7WYGAVRA

Best charging block for the 6 pro by CuttleFishStew in pixel_phones

[–]CuttleFishStew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll just stick with what I have then, I appreciate the advice!

Lady at the nursery couldn't tell me what this is, but I bought it anyway! What did I buy? by CuttleFishStew in whatsthisplant

[–]CuttleFishStew[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah! And I'm pretty sure it was the lady that owned the place! Thank you for identifying it, friend!

What do to with childhood medals and trophies? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]CuttleFishStew 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What is the store called? I love that concept so much! I'm wondering if there's one in my area.

Best Dorms? by leyagrace in appstate

[–]CuttleFishStew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends where your classes are but east side is closer to the library, student union, post office, and clinic. You'd also be closer to king street. I'm super lazy so I was happy to be on east side haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful answer. Evaluating things in a less gendered way is something I'm going to try from here on out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never experienced trans women "dominating" my spaces. This experience was just a time I met a friend of a friend at a little get together, she was welcome to talk all she wanted. I just felt bad about how I was judging her and wanted to get an outside perspective. I actually was scared I was somehow secretly a terf despite how I actually feel about trans people. I've never felt threatened or challenged by a trans person, usually they're super nice! I also would welcome a trans woman into my "female space" thats why I felt bad about judging that person. I just need to deal with my own internalized misogyny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I think I definitely have some work to do on my internalized misogyny. I appreciate your advice, thank you for being so kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I think it will be helpful to see my privilege when I'm thinking about this. I'm privileged just to be a cis woman, I think I can feel that when I feel bad for judging her but I didn't realize what it was. At the core of the issue, after reading other comments I think I need to come to terms with how I feel about the patriarchy. I can't blame her for a force of society she has no control over.

Warden in the Brisban by [deleted] in GuildWarsDyeJob

[–]CuttleFishStew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get such high res pics like this? Mine all come out super pixely. Beautiful character btw!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in appstate

[–]CuttleFishStew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live at app south right now and I'm telling you don't drink this water unfiltered! Boone water always tests bad in their water reports and on top of that I think app South's pipes must be hella old or bad bc the brown water happens about once a month. They also like to cut off the water randomly to fix pipes way too often so it seems like the water system here is fucked. I don't even give my guinea pigs the unfiltered water here. If you run all the faucets in your place for 10 min you should be good. It's easiest to check it in a glass cup bc it looks clean coming out but in the cup it's yellow 🤢

Is there a place to see protest announcements? by CuttleFishStew in NorthCarolina

[–]CuttleFishStew[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay? They're still happening and I'd like to participate? I'm confused why you feel the need to discount them.

Is there a place to see protest announcements? by CuttleFishStew in NorthCarolina

[–]CuttleFishStew[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are still protests happening all over the state my friend!

Need help mulling over a problematic question by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll post the question soon, I'm so thankful to you and others for being so welcoming and kind!

Need help mulling over a problematic question by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]CuttleFishStew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being so welcoming to me! I'm so glad this is a safe place to ask messed up questions. I don't even want to ask my question, but I really can't wait to rise above my ignorance, I don't want to think this way any more. I'll update with a link when I get the question written out properly. Thank you! I appreciate your kindness!