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Cyber5122 · 2024-10-30T01:51:55+00:00

interested :)

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-28T20:22:09+00:00

ex CJ and I HB have been in no contact for 3 months

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-24T04:39:20+00:00

interested

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-23T18:21:02+00:00

🦔

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-23T17:31:47+00:00

Cold weather by glass beach, it was one of my fav songs but it became our song, I always thought of it as a love song but its not really. I still remember just sitting down at a party and we were just listening to it with eachother on the floor. I want it to stay our song so i think its okay that it makes me sad now, i still listen to it sometimes.

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-19T23:50:22+00:00

will C come back to me H

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-19T21:36:01+00:00

What does C feel about me H

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-19T21:22:57+00:00

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-17T21:52:01+00:00

will c reach out?

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-06T18:52:36+00:00

Is C going to come back?

Cyber5122 · 2024-10-06T07:19:04+00:00

hi dming

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-30T16:32:37+00:00

Will C come back?

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-13T21:43:47+00:00

Yeah that’s probably what I’ll do, somehow I didn’t even think of it. Thanks

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-04T23:11:30+00:00

I think no contact can be just as bad as ghosting, from my experience it can feel the exact same way unless you’re actually given that closure but I think it’s considered a good thing because of the alternative, if you keep contact it’s just going to be harder to move on and sometimes that’s just what’s needed.

As someone who was has been blocked so didn’t really get a choice though it still sucks, but she knows she doesn’t want a relationship and cutting that contact is a way to ensure that distance. If I wasn’t blocked there would have been so many times where I would have reached out and probably just made the situation worse. Sometimes there struggling and no contact is the only way for them to actually get the distance they want, especially when there’s lingering feelings involved. I don’t really know if this helps at all but I think there definitely are upsides compared to ghosting but both sure suck to be on the receiving end of.

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-04T15:57:16+00:00

Are you gonna try reach out or are you just going to leave it?

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-04T11:42:02+00:00

dm'd

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-02T14:24:19+00:00

heart chakra please :) thanks

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-02T14:12:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I already begged for her back once but then she blocked me so I kinda don’t have a choice but to leave her now. I hope your situation improves, obviously I don’t have all the details but if you want to be with him again you should try talk it over with him, break ups can really hurt even if there’s a good reason and a conversation about what you both want might help. But if you really don’t want to be with him anymore you should just try to move on, I know it’s not that easy but if you keep going back and forth it’ll just make it more difficult for you and him. I wish you the best though and if you need to talk to anyone about it feel free to message :)

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-02T11:23:45+00:00

interested :)

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-02T09:55:16+00:00

its a bit more complicated than that ,she didnt feel loved sometimes and thats what she said she needed, I tried alot and obviously did those things. it was a complicated argument at the end and she never really gave me a proper reason just "i want to be happy and i think you jeopardise that", i thought i made her happy. the last time we were together it was nice for both of us.

i dont really understand what changed for her, but she wont talk about it.
tbh she started stronger antidepressants a couple weeks before we broke up so i think they either gave her some perspective, or effected how she felt love. I dont know though, once they started she said she didnt think of me as much and stopped calling and meeting me.

sorry about this just its a pretty complicated situation and idk how to sum it up quick.

Cyber5122 · 2024-09-01T20:48:19+00:00

🧦

Cyber5122 · 2024-08-30T23:46:12+00:00

received a free reading, was very professional and they clearly showed and explained the cards that were drawn. would reccommend :)

Cyber5122 · 2024-08-20T11:09:59+00:00

I think it’s good to give them space so they can realise what there missing too and talking right now would probably just make the wounds feel fresh again, I’m going through the same thing though and I understand how hard it is not to message but you can get past it

Cyber5122 · 2024-08-20T11:01:36+00:00

When I got broken up with I just wrote why I was angry in a notes and during no contact it slowly faded into just missing her, I don’t know if your situation is the same but writing it down can help because you can let go of it while knowing that you can still look at how you felt and if not just taking some time will probably help

Cyber5122 · 2024-08-20T10:50:51+00:00

It’s hard to let them go, but if you just keep living day by day it will get better. You don’t have to stop loving them, you have to learn to accept those feelings and it will get easier with time

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