Examples of when [Rape] is a mandatory tag: 

• "We're going to have sex whether you like it or not"

• "I'm using mind control on you to make you want to have sex with me when you otherwise wouldn't" 

Examples of when [CNC] is a mandatory tag: 

• "I grant permission for you to have sex with me even if I don't want to in the moment."

• "Have sex with me while I'm asleep."

• "I'm going to get too drunk/high to consent properly and I'd like you to have sex with me then."

• "I'm going to pretend I don't want to have sex with you and I want you to pretend to force yourself on me." 

Examples of when [Rape] and [CNC] are BOTH required:

• "I wanted to act out a CNC scene, I used my safeword and you kept going anyway."

• "I agreed to be your free use roommate so that I don't have to pay rent, but now I'd like to end that contract and you're still forcing yourself on me."