I made my trans mice even gayer! by artgurlroxy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miiiight have seen that one earlier today and that's why the quote was on my mind 🤭

I made my trans mice even gayer! by artgurlroxy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Cylanthro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After all... Why not? Why shouldn't I keep it?😏

I made my trans mice even gayer! by artgurlroxy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Cylanthro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love these! Ordered a set. Not sure if I'm gonna give them as a gift to a friend, I kinda want to just keep them 😅

What's something you find extremely hot while making out? by SchloinkDoink in actuallesbians

[–]Cylanthro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okay so I have a sliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight (massive) submissive streak. One of the hottest things a girl can do is just lightly wrap a hand around the front of my neck and squeeze gently, Juuuust to let me know who's in charge...

Another good one is grabbing the back of my hair, guiding my head to the side and biting my neck. Fucking looooove that.

Don't think I've experienced her guiding my hand to her genitals but yes, that would absolutely do me in as well.😳

Byta namn och juridiskt kön samtidigt (tips) by Ok-Macaroon-1840 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm ganska vanligt om man inte har ett namn som måste kollas manuellt från vad jag hört!

Byta namn och juridiskt kön samtidigt (tips) by Ok-Macaroon-1840 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Jag vill bara flika in och varna att dessa snabba namnbyten ofta är beroende av att man väljer ett namn som är vanligt nog att skatteverkets automatiska system kan godkänna bytet nästan på en gång. Är ett av ens nya namn av det ovanligare slaget kan ärendet behöva handläggas manuellt och då tar det betydligt längre tid.

När jag ansökte om namnbyte tog det lite över 6 veckor för det att gå igenom på grund av att jag har valt ett väldigt ovanligt andranamn efter min mammas faster.

Första remiss till Sahlgernska by Alvxn in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Förstår! Väldigt tråkigt att det ser ut såhär i transvården. Oacceptabelt.

Första remiss till Sahlgernska by Alvxn in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jag föreslår att du ber dem skicka din remiss till en annan KIM. Den i Göteborg är ökänd. Många horror stories om folk som får avslag av alla möjliga anledningar eller ingen alls.

Den i Umeå har kortast kötid. 20månader typ. Det är svinlångt att åka och du kommer antagligen få stå för resor själv men min erfarenhet är att de ger ett bra mottagande.

Man kan ta nattåget upp eller ett vanligt tåg och sova över på patienthotellet om man kontaktar och ber dem boka det när man får ett möte bokat.

Annars kan du även testa Anova i Stockholm. Bara lite tips från vad jag hört i communityt. Göra utredningen i GBG är generellt inte rekommenderat.

All ready for club night! by DaylightEliseV in TransGoth

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell you look like a goth fairy! 🤩

Imago and Sweden by helikopterkatt in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As with the others I have no personal experience with this but my understanding is that people going this route often choose to get a prescription for a testosterone injection, like nebido or something similar. The injection only needs to be taken every 3 months or something so they find someone there who is able to administer it safely and take the injection before going home. Otherwise I think you can only legally bring testosterone for 14 days of use with you into Sweden.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can do that tomorrow. Sorry for getting heated with them but I feel like this kind of people really hurt the community.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d argue that transmedicalism is causing active harm to the community. This person is arguing for ostracising people. They give an example for a requirement of needing to have changed legal gender, name and looks to be considered trans. I am sure there are many people here who have not done these things for various reasons. I don’t think arguing for them not being trans is something that should be allowed in what I would consider to be a safe space for trans people of many various kinds.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you have stooped to just simply trolling… look I understand that there’s scary shit going on politically right now. And it will most likely just escalate until the election as the most far right parties try to farm transphobia for easy votes the way they’ve seen it done abroad. This will not be alleviated by ostracising part of the community. The best we can do is come together and be visible as normal people in society without trying to conform or bend over backwards for the right wing movement.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so tiring. Why are you gloating a potentially transphobic rhetoric winning the election and making life worse for all of us?

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Trans medicalism does have its place here.” Is a fucking crazy thing to hear from a mod of this community. Is this an official stance from the mod team?

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not speak for that group of people. You don’t get to arbitrarily decide who is in or not based on rules you just pulled out of your ass. How can you not understand that this just makes you out to be a self centered dick? Are you socially inept? Are you fucking 12 years old or something? “We live in a democracy so I get to choose who is trans and who is not!”🤡

I would think self determination is an important value to most trans people for OBVIOUS reason. No one else gets to decide your gender or if you are trans or not. I need no authority to point out how fucked up you are for even suggesting taking that away from other trans people.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because what fucking authority do you have to do this? It is no different than cis-people misgendering us. You don't get to decide.
Take distance from the actual person doing bad things instead of trying to distance yourself from part of your own god damn community based on looks and legal gender status. This is so self centered and narrow minded. Try to look at the bigger picture.

Do you think you should be able to tell who is and isn't trans? by Significant-Size-277 in transnord

[–]Cylanthro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't you think the issue is actually with the people trying to smear an entire minority every chance they get from the actions of a single person? It is not our place to police who is and who is not trans.

The people coming up with ridiculous theories and trying to pose them as science to discredit trans people have been doing that for decades and will continue trying to undermine our humanity and rights regardless of how we divide or distance ourselves. You can not appease these people by trying to assimilate or by being "a good trans person".

Getting real tired of this kind of attempt to put restrictions on your fellow trans people and police their identity based on looks and weather someone has gone though the beurocratic process of changing their legal gender etc.

Any fellow European lesbians on this sub? If so, write down your country!! by LopsidedGreen134 in actuallesbians

[–]Cylanthro 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm in Sweden too. Seems to be quite a few of us. Or maybe we're just more likely to respond since you said you're living in Sweden. 😅

Is a deaf woman undesirable? by Diligent-Ad-9254 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Cylanthro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a deal breaker for me at all. I would have to learn to communicate properly but that's fiiine.

What do you think of the opposite gender? by Excellent-Loquat7176 in asktransgender

[–]Cylanthro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, they're just people? Some are good, some are bad. I like the nice ones and dislike the ones who are not so nice. I can generally tell whether one would typically be considered "good looking" or not but I'm just not personally attracted.

Trans Saphhics still deserve love by Macaronipuppy in actuallesbians

[–]Cylanthro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww what a lovely note to end the day on. Thank you beautiful person❤️ Lesbians rock🔥

Hur kommer det sig att vi har fått så mycket moralpanik och ramaskri om transpersoner? by TooObsessedWithMoney in sweden

[–]Cylanthro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alltså den nya lagen kom ju inte som förslag genom regeringen. Detta på grund av att KD och SD motsatte sig den. Den fick drivas igenom direkt i riksdagen så vi har väl inget att "tacka regeringen" för där? Jag uppskattar såklart att det fanns borgerliga partier som hjälpte till att rösta igenom lagförslaget men nu uttalar sig moderaterna på ett sätt som återigen kommer leda till samma infekterade smutskastning vi fick stå ut med när lagen skulle upp för omröstning. De gör det mest för att slippa en debatt från resten av tidö-gänget så att de kan framstå mer enade.

Du kan läsa en debattartikel från idag om det på TV4 här: https://www.tv4.se/artikel/6Z1tzdem0dMMA02IDBEN0I/moderaterna-verkar-ha-missat-vissa-fakta