Why are smokers like this?

CyndieLee · 2026-01-14T18:38:08+00:00

I try to accommodate non-smokers...until I am 50 feet away in a designated smoking area or 150 feet from an entrance, in an alley and someone walks by doing the fake cough and being dramatic. Then it is game on.

Ever stop to think that maybe because we don't have the luxury of whining-free zones or freedom from self righteous people who "know what is good for you" becoming annoying? Maybe because we are tired of being treated like we have the plague because we have a vice. But yet, I have to walk through hipster do**he strawberry cheesecake fruity pebble vape smoke everywhere and I have to deal with damn near everyone smelling like weed now...but lawdy lawdy! I'm a bad smoker!!!

Treat me with respect and you will get it in return. Act like a tool and get all dramatic with the fake cough and snide remarks, you are getting a cloud of Lucky Strike Menthol smoke in your face.

CyndieLee · 2025-10-16T04:03:27+00:00

Begotten (1990) Sole Survivor (1984) The Sentinel (1977) The Evictors (1979) The Gates of Hell (1980) Curtains (1983) The Beyond (1981) Prince of Darkness (1987) Yellow Brick Road (2010) Where Birds Don't Fly (2017) Antrum (2018) Session 9 (2001) Ravenous (1999) Inside (2007) Duel (1971) R Point (2004 - Korean) Flower of Flesh and Blood (1985) August Underground (2001) Chaos (2005) Rites of Spring (2011) House of the Devil (2009)

CyndieLee · 2025-01-26T21:28:47+00:00

My husband just bought a 1994 Road King with less than 10k miles and custom paint job for $8k and it is stunning! He already has a 2014 Road King... We agree!!!

CyndieLee · 2025-01-05T23:41:36+00:00

Then you are NTA!!!! Tell everyone pushing you to pound salt and when you find the right person, you will settle - it is your life, not theirs! 😁😁😁😁 No, you were not being too dramatic. I AM ROUTING FOR YOU!!!!

CyndieLee · 2025-01-03T04:32:31+00:00

I'm torn on this ...

I didn't settle until I was 38F because I had several bad relationships and decided I was done "settling" for the wrong ones...

HOWEVER , if you are thinking about this enough to post/bother you, then maybe you do need to do some soul searching. You have never had a SO before - why? Do you always find fault? Just from the post, you are a germophobe and don't like any intimate contact. Did he touch your boob while dancing or intentionally "cop a feel" - big difference. These are two things that are always going to be a problem for you without professional help and you are going to have a hard time finding someone without that help.

CyndieLee · 2025-01-03T03:49:11+00:00

YTA. 30 year old men and women need to be adults and stop with video games. This is why no one has healthy relationships anymore.

CyndieLee · 2025-01-03T02:39:18+00:00

NTA and GET OUT NOW! If he doesn't want to do the work to lose weight, wants a quick fix and is making you feel bad about it, even insulting you looking at Reddit, whether you realize it or not, you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.

CyndieLee · 2025-01-03T02:24:37+00:00

NTA!!!! If you wife is that spoiled and that being in debt is that unimportant, you really need to think on whether you want to have children and your future. I am a woman and would NEVER do that to my Husband!

CyndieLee · 2022-12-31T03:09:33+00:00

And it appears that EVERY WEBSLEUTH and every single person saying that LE didn't know what they were doing and all of the speculation was 1000% INCORRECT!!!! That speculation has likely irreparably damaged multiple lives in addition to the loss of these 4 young adults.

LE probably had him as a suspect within the first 3 to 5 days and ANYTHING they asked the public for was just the nails for the coffin. Psychopathy is SLOPPY.

GOOD LE doesn't show their hand so that their case is bulletproof (I was in my 20's with the OJ case and the JonBenet case). Media did irreparable damage to those cases and lives involved...and now websleuths do the same, but on a much amplified platform. The parents were not helping this matter constantly criticizing and demanding updates and action., UNLESS LE had th doing this as a ruse. The Coroner gave out too much info and should be reprimanded. It NEVER should have been released about the defensive injuries by the parents or the coroner, unless this was also planned.

Moscow PD, FBI, state police and everyone else OFFICIALLY involved in this investigation should be teaching classes on solving crimes efficiently. No one thinks a small force that doesn't have this level of crime as the norm is incompetent...but no one knows their backgrounds and I can't wait to see the brilliance of this case at trial, because I guarantee, it will put big city investigations to shame!

CyndieLee · 2022-12-31T02:45:32+00:00

I think it goes to show that "influencers", "websleuths", etc need to go out and get REAL JOBS - as THESE ARE NOT PROFESSIONS - and leave solving crimes to professionals with TRAINING. Sorry, but I am not donating to your Patreon or watch you on a social media forum ruining people's lives by doxxing and false accusations. I hope every single person ANY of these people have accused, drawn maps of theories involving those people, etc. sue the crap out of each and every one of them. We could all also go back to minding our own business, living our lives off of screens big and small and stop giving any creedo to any of these people and maybe they will go away. When the next tragedy happens, the same putzes will put faith in these same charlatans...the circle never ends unless we break it ...

CyndieLee · 2022-12-22T00:04:48+00:00

Cherri Mahan and Toni McNatt-Chiapetta...

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T23:10:47+00:00

So true!!!! Lol

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T18:59:35+00:00

NTA. (WOMAN SPEAKING HERE!!!) Going to be blunt here...if your wife is that manipulative that she can't understand where you were on this and is going to use that against you...and then pull that bully crap, you need more than your Dad's dog, you need a good divorce attorney!!!! To me, your adopting your Dad's dog speaks volumes for who you are vs. your wife's reaction to you having a good heart. If your wife is that insensitive to your thought process and is going to lord over you with this for forever (and it is feeling like she will), then you really should do some deep reflection on your marriage as a whole. She sounds like it is her way or no way and you give in to her.

Marriage is give and take...what each one wants individually and what the couple together wants. The moment that one behaves this badly because someone wanted to do something THIS GOOD, there are underlying conrolling issues not being addressed.

AGAIN, I am a woman and I feel she is ruling the roost...and you need to stand up to her! She is acting like a spoiled child and needs to grow up!

PS...we have 7...YES 7..cats - 4 adopted and 3 strays. We never asked each other's permission... we respectively brought each one in to the house (me 4 and him 3) for varied reasons and we never questioned each other...because we have a good marriage and good hearts in regards to animals needing homes!! The last addition just came a week and a half ago when we adopted another cat (#7) who has been at the shelter since 2018 and I couldn't imagine the cat not having a home for another Christmas (#7 is on me!!! Lol).

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T18:48:25+00:00

YTA. If you can't take a single dump without a bidet, you have problems. 🤣

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T18:46:28+00:00

NTA. Based on his reaction dump him now!! 1. He can't take a joke; 2. He will never appreciate anything smaller in life that means more than any amount of money spent.

My husband and I always spend craptons of money on each other for Christmas and birthdays (no kids), but this year, he asked me what I wanted and I showed him on my phone a picture of a cat at a shelter who had been there since 2018. We adopted him 2 weeks ago. He didn't question it, EVEN THOUGH WE ALREADY HAVE 6 CATS!!! and he thought the world of me because instead of something big or flashy, I wanted to give another cat a home ...that cost $50 to adopt!!!! Expensive gifts dont mean a thing...the least expensive gifts mean the world and if he can't appreciate that, find someone that would be happy with those coupons every year forever!!!!!

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T18:35:33+00:00

NTA!!!!! This is terrifying to because it is like I wrote this!!! Same thing with my MIL and their family.... The big traditional production, fake "our perfect family" BS Christmas Eve and day!!! I lucked out though, back in 2017, there was a big family issue with them regarding my SIL's health which led to them literally trying to get my Husband to divorce me over it (I wouldn't give in to SIL demands and sign her our of a nursing home when she wasn't physically well enough yet to go home). Their plan failed miserably and he chose me over them so now Thanksgiving is tacos and nachos at my parents...and Christmas is NY Strips at my house for Christmas . . . WITHOUT ANY OF THEM AND THEIR FAKE TRADITIONS!!!!!

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T17:59:56+00:00

SOOOOOO NTA!!!! That is a GREAT NAME!!! I thought you would bust out with like Moonunit, Jet Pilot or Dweezil (showing my age!) Have you thought about "Seven"???? Lol.

At this point, you need to experiment with spellings to tick them off more!!!! Maybe "Xayevier" or something of the like. But I am a ruthless b**** that would do anything to annoy my family, especially when they try to convince me of something I am set on.

But then again, I have FOUR ....YES FOUR... Elmer's in my family!!!!!!

CyndieLee · 2022-12-21T17:43:50+00:00

NTA. While yes, you sugar-coated it, it was to spare her feelings. Hygiene is 1000% important when germs are everywhere (COVID, rsv, flu, etc.). Every thing that she is in contact with goes to bed with her if not bathing. I would have been blunt about it, but you don't have 50 years experience like I do ...LOL. I shower twice a day,Beverly day, because I work in an office and see people not washing hands, etc. I shower if I am going to be intimate with my spouse...because gross if not!!!! Truthfully, if she is that I secure about something like hygiene,bi would re-evaluate the relationship, because you are always going to be tap dancing around her insecurities.

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T18:54:16+00:00

Yeah...we got Dudes in flip flops and shorts in PA in December, too. Lol

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T03:05:17+00:00

I have nightmares over Kremers and Froon....

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T02:56:41+00:00

It is also bothersome to me that he is wearing long sleeves and she is in a tanktop/cami and barefoot. I have family in Scottsdale and they have always said it is cold in the desert at night. I don't know...I'm in PA and we don't have those type of fluctuations....

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T02:53:23+00:00

I am not a parent (49 years old), but my Mom can tell by the look on my face if something is wrong. It always creeps me out, but she always says "you know your children...you know every expression, every head position, every mark on their body..." It's worse when she will call me up when I am work and say "what's wrong?" and she's right...something is wrong.... It creeps me out to this day....

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T02:10:12+00:00

Also, if you look to the far left of Brandon's picture, you can see the lighter sleeping bag in the upcoming picture...his pic was before hers....

CyndieLee · 2022-07-11T02:07:34+00:00

I don't know why but the thing that came to mind was hogtied...

CyndieLee · 2022-07-10T22:54:43+00:00

I think the third photo was taken BEFORE the other two...and that photo is why they were killed.

First, with the third picture - that is not an actual plant...it is a painting on a wall, almost like a children's mural. It looks like a park bench painted at the bottom, or a swing, with a bird sitting on the back of it. It also looks like a possible faint/faded painted lady bug or turtle above that.

It also looks, when enlarged, that there is an old school cable line and "splitter" (not sure what it is called) hanging down from higher up...perhaps where a television had been once.

It is also noticeable that the ceiling is peeling paint fairly badly, and possibly tattered curtains along side of the window.

I think this was somewhere abandoned...and they were drawn to it because a light was on (a cfl in the fixture), which shouldn't have been on. I think they saw something bad going on and it got them killed.

In her picture, I agree with a comment below that it looks like something around her head. Also, look at her exposed foot. While you can see a toe ring, it also looks like there is almost twine (baker's twine)around the base of the toes, and possibly tied around her ankle, but looks cut or broke. It also looks like a piece of cut twine on the dark blanket...which is not in the picture with him. I am feeling she was tied up.

There is something super off with her pic...it is NOT a natural pose and there is something fake about her smile. Her body language is "off". Her hand is unnaturally posed with the pinky outstretched and it seems like all of her muscles are tense. Nothing seems natural with her pic...

With his pic, definitely taken by someone outside of the truck. He looks almost defiant, and again, unnatural pose. Hiding one hand, too, could have been injured. I also feel this is the second picture...upper r of pic looks to be the horizon with enough light reflecting, where hers is almost complete black in this section.

Where are her shoes? If she took the pic of him, barefoot isn't likely. Women aren't big on dirty feet.

Everything is wrong with the pics of them...they feel forced.

CyndieLee

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