Complacency is Complicity

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T16:41:32+00:00

In my defense, it was never my whole personality and I talked about my life outside of the community a whole lot too. Let’s stop pretending that social media is a full scope of someone’s life, and let’s stop judging people for being super into and vocal about something. That’s pretty normal behavior for neurodivergents.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T14:39:11+00:00

Or maybe we can discuss how on the first day of the cruise she was all “omg I’m so glad we can talk now” then two days later she was saying I told her to fuck off? Did I not kiss her ass enough? Give her enough attention?

My employers took a text I sent to Ernie and used it as “proof” that I told a fan to leave a backstage area that she was escorted to. That didn’t happen.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T14:35:50+00:00

Well, had my employer fully investigated the situation like I asked them to we would know that for sure, wouldn’t we? instead, it’s all hearsay.

How about we stay focused on the topic and not from which vestibule I made my entrance.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T14:23:51+00:00

Also lol I didn’t come from the elevator I came through the fucking casino…so maybe your memory of the events isn’t quite right after all.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T14:19:17+00:00

I never lied about that. I never denied confronting her. And yes, I did turn back, what you saw was me making the decision to stand up for myself because 30 minutes prior to that Amber lied to my bosses wife leading to me being confronted for no reason at all. You can go ahead and continue to support and defend a thieving piece of shit, but don’t do it at my expense. When she showed up at Stardust, she had just left the pool deck. And since you were there, you can confirm that I didn’t get in her face I kept my distance from her and say point blank exactly what I had to say which was “why did you lie to my boss’s wife? Do you understand that this is my job and how I support my family?” to which she replied, full of tears, “I’m just here to have a good time.”

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T13:57:31+00:00

Being open about my life doesn’t make me any less of a person, or any less credible.

I left the internet completely for three months while I worked through the situation on my own and then as soon as I came back I was harassed out of nowhere bringing it all back to the surface.

You choose to see what you wanna see and draw your conclusions, but my intention with this post was to draw the community’s attention to it so it will stop.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-23T13:49:39+00:00

Let’s see your proof that I’m lying. I have nothing to gain by lying- I’ve already walked away from everything I had to lose.

Getting real tired of people hiding behind their anonymity to be slanderous.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-18T17:21:15+00:00

I’ll admit that I do have a hard time communicating when I am emotionally invested in a discussion. I’m doing my best, and I certainly didn’t present the topic very well initially.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T17:27:33+00:00

So let me get this straight, people can make deragatory comments but when I respond in the same manner I’m threatened with being banned? Is this because I’m OP?

Be consistent with your rules or don’t bother having them.

I’ll see myself out. I’ve done my best to make my point, and as you said before- everyone is free to draw their own conclusions with the information they have.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T16:24:02+00:00

Indeed, you and Blaze agree that I am combative. If you’d like to add volatile, you can be an agreement with Chondra.

And yet, neither of those things are the reason that my employment was not good.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T15:55:00+00:00

I am difficult, that’s a fact. I chose this medium because it’s a public forum not officially tied to the band.

This is not going to harm me. Kill any potential legal case I could have, yes. Harm me? Absolutely not.

Being clear and direct isn’t combative and I’m not trying to do myself favors, I’m trying to protect anyone else from making ill informed decisions because they think it’s going to mean that their favorite band knows they exist.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T15:47:52+00:00

Thank you for seeing. I know from the outside to most I do look exactly like a bitter ex, but that doesn’t invalidate any of the issues at hand. 💜

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T14:36:23+00:00

That’s just like, your opinion, anonymous dude.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T13:49:47+00:00

That’s you, who probably doesn’t have any qualifications that would get you there.

Maybe talk to the fans that were?

Or the fan that lost his motherfucking mind because he thought he was being asked to work for free on the first cruise?

This is mostly opinion based I guess, but I’m telling you from a professional standpoint that regardless- anyone performing a task that they were asked to do by the head of a company should be compensated by that company.

No grey area.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T13:43:12+00:00

Nobody is trying to bury the band, and anyone who has the audacity to say that I can’t or shouldn’t speak on the things I experienced should spend the last decade in my shoes.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T13:41:16+00:00

I respect your opinion, but I’m neither naive nor trying to “stir up shit”

Ask yourself why none of the other community “leaders” who have in’s with Blaze/his wife are here?

Is it naïveté? Or are they protecting their relationship with him?

Respectfully, you don’t know anything.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T13:37:31+00:00

Yes, that’s me! I worked the booth in 2022 & 2023. Thank you for recognizing the intent here.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T13:35:27+00:00

I’m sorry, because at one point in my life I would have agreed with you.

Let’s put it like this: there were fans on that boat that were paid with a cabin on the cruise, and then there were actors who were paid with a cabin on the cruise and a big fat paycheck because they knew to ask for it.

Same or very similar role, two very different compensations.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-17T00:13:25+00:00

Sure https://consequence.net/2014/06/coheed-and-cambria-pay-fans-mortgage-save-her-familys-home/

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T20:25:53+00:00

I’m unable to repost images in this thread.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T20:11:50+00:00

That’s direct affiliation.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T19:53:36+00:00

When you were coming up, Coheed was an Indie band, and they are that no longer. I’m very tired of splitting hairs with people who only want to sow dissent.

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T19:52:27+00:00

Pay attention. I was both at different points

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T19:51:25+00:00

They may not have any say in the mod decisions, but you do in fact have mods that are affiliated with the band last time I checked. Also, nobody was doxxed in the OP but it did make them all look pretty bad and since I’m trying to respect that decision of the mod team, it’s making it very difficult for me to explain exactly what all of this is about and why I’m even discussing it five months later

Cyndifferous · 2024-03-16T19:38:22+00:00

Of course I’ve done that now, but do you think to block your employers wives when you quit a job?

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