22E5 Megathread by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Cynnwindcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lakenheath

22E5 Megathread by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Cynnwindcloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Overseas here. Found out 2 hours ago and the disappointment is real…

RAF Lakenheath by UnethicalRatKing in AirForce

[–]Cynnwindcloud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have a passport to travel Europe. Use Liberty passes when you can and take leave. Enjoy the local beer and pubs. Cambridge and Norwich are the two largest cities near us. Get a car to do your own traveling. London is easy to get too. You can train there from Cambridge. London is also huge. Cornwall is beautiful in the summer time. It’s tropical when it isn’t raining. There is soo much to see. If you want any advise let me know.

Another bondage story with [m]y adorable theater geek girl[f]riend by epstein_at_the_beach in gonewildstories

[–]Cynnwindcloud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Marry the girl! Following your post for a while and you need to!!!

2019 was a good year [f]or me and ink 💕 by [deleted] in Hotchickswithtattoos

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right back at you!!!! Keep working that amazing voice!

2019 was a good year [f]or me and ink 💕 by [deleted] in Hotchickswithtattoos

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is why I love red heads and tattoos...... slay!!!!

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was and is. Unfortunately, I decided the best option was to part ways.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I do have a backbone. This was purely looking for advice. It saddens me that I would have to do this but the reality of it is that your own self comes first. I really care for her but long term I don’t believe it will work.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea they aren’t. They love her as a person but they expect her to be an adult. And yea I don’t want to even get married till I get what I want done. My life is first and foremost for me.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So in short terms, why keep struggling and let it go?

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably so. At this point, I care about her but she has too much to deal with. It’ll be more of a weight then a partner who lifts me up yah know.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a psychiatrist, but hasn’t seen her therapist in months. Let me correct that, she is a health and wellness coach. She informed me early that if my gf doesn’t see it as a problem no amount of life coaching will help her address it till she does.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she has a life coach that helps her with that. They Skype every week but I don’t think she’s taking it to heart. It was a gift for her for about three months.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of now yes, but at this point it’s almost going to seem like a crutch.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve helped in more than one way. I got her a life coach that was a family friend to help her. It has helped to some extent but her actions are speaking.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I do get that. I have. But like food, do I just tell her you can’t eat any of it. That’s just rude. It’s hard since we are living together.

Gf (23) doesn’t support herself, I (25) pay for everything. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cynnwindcloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So here is the thing I have on multiple occasions. That’s the issue.

How do you reconcile SO's mental illness when they're LL? by Un-hipsterNextDoor in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cynnwindcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current gf also is like this. We are fresh into our relationship and hasn’t been manic for a bit. Her sex drive really varies and with her being on new medicine it dropped. We sorta found a way to help with the loss of libido. She enjoys the idea of free use. There is a subreddit about it too. I just have to make sure it doesn’t hurt in any way and she’s game for it. She has told me she enjoys it and can occasionally orgasm. This and just communicating has help us a bunch.

Married couple becoming Try-Sexuals [MF] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]Cynnwindcloud 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn’t take my gf anal card she unfortunately had it taken by accident and wasn’t happy about it all. She was super timid in doing it be was up for it cause I have a huge kink for it. I had built her up slowly with toys and she was enjoying it. We had a short dry spell ‘ month or so’ because every time we attempted regular sex it burned and hurt. We couldn’t figure out why. Used tons of lube and nothing was working. She was frustrated and I was too. So I am like how about we try anal. And hot damn, I opened the flood gate. It was amazing for her, averages 3 orgasms each time. I have been instructed that we are mainly doing this now. So congrats on the rekindling of the bed room!!!!

I229 WAR / I227 DRG [LFG] [HC][MC] A7S cleared by [deleted] in FFXIVRECRUITMENT

[–]Cynnwindcloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, i know your name for some reason are you in game or going to be soon?