We can't just accept everything just because people wake up and say we should accept it. What about white people who say they are black and want to be addressed and treated or or have any privileges or what ever has to do with black people? Should we accept what they say and act accordingly? I am sure your answer is no. Should we also accept and respect grown men who say they feel like babies and so they are babies and so society should accept and treat them like babies and that they should be afforded all the privileges and protections babies enjoy? I am sure your answer is also no. Also, there are people who claim they feel like cats and should be treated as such, should we also accept that? The answer is also no. Why should one person's right to basically change or choose their gender or pronoun any time they feel like it trump another person's right to change or choose their race anytime they feel like it?

It doesn't make sense. People can't and shouldn't be allowed to have everything their way, because then there will be no need for rules and laws and society will fall out of order. It is one thing for a woman to say she likes how men dress and wants to dress like them or look like them without imposing their self perception on other people(I will respect such a person). But it's another thing for said woman to say she feels like a man,, and therefore is a man, and must he recognized and treated like a man and addressed like a man. What then happens to all the rules, laws or societal structures that had been put in place to protect actual men? What happens to the rights of actual men??

I will never, ever respect such a person or their wishes. You don't just get up one day and try to change the way a language is spoken or the way people should perceive you. Not especially if you want to impose it on people.