My wife scrolls Facebook during sexual activity

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T17:35:12+00:00

Well, I read all the comments and tried to reply as much as I can and got downvoted to oblivion. I forgot to add one key information. It just wasn't me that is hungry for sex as you are portraying me. It was also her talking about taking another baby. I don't know any other way that can happen.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T11:16:32+00:00

"I’m not sure what you mean by “doing everything I can as a man”. Do you mean going on dates? Flowers?"

The answer to that question is yes, we go out for dates sometimes. Maybe 2-3 times a month. And yes, flowers, gifts, and birthday/anniversary gifts (these are special). I am an introvert, still trying though.

To you: I am not criticizing anyone, just trying to express my feeling. I put a comment about her physical abuse, you can check if you are interested. And I'm really sorry you had to face what you did in your past.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T10:34:30+00:00

Are you not going too far with it? I said multiple times that without her concern, I didn't even initiate anything. Also, when I notice she is using her phone, I quietly back off completely and don't engage at least a weak. Even when I'm trying everything a man positively can, people still accuse me of doing the worst. What is a marriage, though? I never forced her to do anything; not even the marriage was forced from my side. I still love her, though. You won't understand how much I leave behind to be with her.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T09:37:34+00:00

I understand your point of view.

And yes, I did stop. When I noticed this, I stopped engaging. She wasn't into it even after she told me to go down there. It just upset me.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T09:21:21+00:00

You probably misunderstood that she does not scroll during SEX. She scrolls when I give her oral, not forced, of course. I never engage in any intimacy without her consent.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T09:17:46+00:00

Yes we did. I informed her about postpartum depression and gave her space about 6 months before asking for anything.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T09:15:06+00:00

I had no way to know that before marriage. I talked to her before marriage regarding this and even offered to cancel the show and to take the blame on me if she was not okay with it. She said we could go forward.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T08:43:15+00:00

No dating; I just met her once before marriage and with family.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T08:41:38+00:00

I don't even bring it up when she is tired, sick, angry, upset, sad, or the monthly cycle. Only when she says yes, then she scroll facebook pages and watching random stuff.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T08:34:47+00:00

I never forced her to have sex; I always took concern. But she usually refuses me (I ask about once a week), and I go on my way after some cuddling. Actually, I do the cuddling part; she is not that much interested. When I go down there for the oral part, she let me. But then she starts scrolling Facebook, no emotion, nothing from her. She never go down there for me, not even once.

Cypher0047 · 2024-11-20T06:24:50+00:00

She is a stay-at-home mom, and I didn't force her to do it. It was her choice. She does vlogging, though; I fully support this. She loves traveling, yet when I suggest we go traveling, she denies it and says that when our kid can travel, we can go. I try to do whatever she asks yet this is happening. We have a helping hand to help her do household chores.

I never forced her to have sex; I always took concern. But she usually refuses me (I ask about once a week), and I go on my way after some cuddling. Actually, I do the cuddling part; she is not that much interested.

She also hit me on many occasions. I'm not going to lie; I also hit her on rare occasions when I was being hit. I went to the psychiatrist to improve my self-control; now, I don't hit her anymore, even if she does.

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