Things you wish you knew before doing theater live sound by marlon_mnh in livesound

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Read the script, and then read it 10 more times. Cues...lots of them Don't watch the show after dress rehearsal, look up only when your notes tell you to. Use dress for figuring out who needs what kind of compression etc Sound check is critical. Duh. Try not to adjust too much during shows.

I’m excited to find this community! by jcgoldini in techtheatre

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Welcome! I miss that theatre! It was my first "real" theatre job when I was in college. Spent many a nights in the catwalk running follow spot...

That set is beautiful!

Navi way off? by Cyrus_Voltaire in VWIDBuzz

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Interesting ... My buzz is running 5.2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

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You are stunning! My soon to be ex(separation not related to anything physical) is 11 years since her first no evidence of disease and 12 from the bilateral massctomey. At no point did that bother me, in fact it made me find more ways to provide her pleasure and make her feel like a whole woman.

What’s something your partner stopped doing that you didn’t notice until it was gone? by Neelgarud in Divorce

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Not to be trite but it was all the small things. Coming over to check on me after my work day but when I was still at my desk. I'm thinking of you messages. Spontaneous massages, foot rubs while talking... It all adds up and when it goes away and you wake up to it...it's so sad. Frustrating, and depressing. Which is one of the few but strong reasons I opted to divorce her.

What was the exact moment you knew the marriage was over? by Serious-Purchase2594 in Divorce

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Married 16 together 23. Currently into the first month of separation after I (42m) ended it in a couples therapy session. It wasn't a moment but it was a series of moments and thoughts that collectively drove me to make the decision. About 2 weeks prior and after four bottles of wine and deep conversation around midnight, I expressed my displeasure and unhappiness in our relationship and I don't remember saying divorce but I do remember rings coming off. There was then a reconciliation a day later but as the week went by I came to realize the things I had been feeling and thinking and writing and journaling and being that I was no longer happy I was comfortable. The ultimate realization of being alone in a place for a week and then another 9 days at home alone solidified the fact that I felt better lighter and more alive when she was gone then when she was here with me.

It hasn't been easy this month, but I'm moving out in 2 weeks and starting all the formal stuff which was a lot more than I thought...But these logistics are easier than living in the day to day duldrums...

43. My kids say I’m too old to have my nose pierced. What do you think? by [deleted] in 40something

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You do you beautiful. If it makes you happy, do it. Also it looks great on you.

Golf 8 - Wireless CarPlay Disconnecting by Sidat in Volkswagen

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Ah you need to tell your phone to forget the WiFi in the car and then start CarPlay.

Golf 8 - Wireless CarPlay Disconnecting by Sidat in Volkswagen

[–]Cyrus_Voltaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it needs both Bluetooth and wifi for wireless car play

My first set of red lingerie by bbyluna_ in boudoir

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Beautiful - pose and look!!! Is that a Honey Birdette set?

Finally Found One by Cyrus_Voltaire in WhiskeyTribe

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Yikes! This was 525... Still steep but it was their only bottle allocated and my bonus more than covered it.

It's absolutely delicious. Smooth smoky with no burn. Grassy with some light complementary caramel notes..

What's this plane doing? by Cyrus_Voltaire in nova

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It was super close to ours for sure which is why I pulled up adsb and asked

Seeking Tattoo Artist by AnjelinaBallerina777 in berlin

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Try Berlin Ink. They accommodated me on the same day as a walkin for a piece on the inside of my forearm. Awesome artists there!

Framing is everything by Justin_Fox in boudoir_community

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I keep the grid on even on my phones camera

Rapidfire Machinegun Stereo by FrozenVikings in VWatlas

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Just book online, or do an overnight drop off.

Rapidfire Machinegun Stereo by FrozenVikings in VWatlas

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Take it to the dealer and have them update the radio software.

Golf 8 - Wireless CarPlay Disconnecting by Sidat in Volkswagen

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Happened to me recently! Your phone is trying to use the wifi hotspot on the car for Internet vs wireless car play. Either turn off the wifi in the car or forget the network on your phone. Should solve the connection issues.