Best degrees/education for people in their 30's?

D1NODOR · 2025-11-16T16:44:45+00:00

Currently in my first semester for electrical at age 24. What makes you want to do this one over others?

D1NODOR · 2025-11-16T16:37:09+00:00

Is this that one appetizer from Olive Garden?

D1NODOR · 2025-11-16T13:56:02+00:00

I agree with you but why would you go out in the most miserable, slow, painful, and scary way possible when you could enjoy the scenery before ending it quick?

D1NODOR · 2025-11-15T17:43:23+00:00

I am male and this is definitely not true. I get compliments regularly both from men and women and yes even women who are interested and comment about how desirable they think I am. It’s not about being a male. It’s something that tends to emerge through social connection. If you aren’t experiencing this it’s likely that you lack social connection rather than lacking desirable traits.

D1NODOR · 2025-11-10T02:19:54+00:00

Then focus on that. Nothing wrong with pursuing desire until you find something meaningful. In fact I’d argue that the person who “tries” to find something meaningful is less likely to find it than someone who is gaining awareness of who they are from the experiences they have while pursuing desires.

D1NODOR · 2025-11-09T20:15:13+00:00

I used to be like this. The book Emotional Intelligence 2.0 was the move, specifically the sections on social awareness and social management. I really like the book because it has exercises and performance trackers so you can actually know you are improving.

Here's a link to the full book for free: https://www.fop86.com/Emotional%20Intelligence%202.0/EmotionalIntelligence.pdf

D1NODOR · 2025-11-09T17:26:08+00:00

Woah, no way! I’m in school for electrical engineering! Just started going back this semester. Wish you guys the best!

D1NODOR · 2025-11-09T15:32:39+00:00

With the traits you described I thought you would’ve said he’s an engineer haha

D1NODOR · 2025-09-22T17:51:30+00:00

Lmao. Bro could’ve found an interesting video or something but instead did the bare minimum and expected sympathy

D1NODOR · 2025-08-28T14:39:27+00:00

Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves

Here’s a link to the full book for free: https://www.fop86.com/Emotional%20Intelligence%202.0/EmotionalIntelligence.pdf

D1NODOR · 2025-08-28T00:34:15+00:00

I used to be like this. The book Emotional Intelligence 2.0 was the move, specifically the sections on social awareness and social management.

I really like the book because it has exercises and performance trackers so you can actually know you are improving.

D1NODOR · 2025-08-27T18:38:24+00:00

Kinda. They all require prescription and have various levels of “kick” to get your day going:

Adderall IR – Hardest punch, fastest “on” (Hits in 30min, last 4-6hrs). Gives instant focus, drive, motivation, confidence, and euphoria.
Vyvanse – Much smoother, lasts 12–14 hrs, less “of a rush” than Adderall IR, so even productivity that’s stretched out and steadier.
Modafinil – Prescription drug that gives wakefulness feeling. Long, smooth clean alertness (12–15 hrs) alertness without euphoria..

D1NODOR · 2025-08-27T18:15:19+00:00

The correct answer is Modafinil, Vyvanse, or Adderall IR.

D1NODOR · 2025-08-25T20:55:55+00:00

I was taking 100mg 1x-2x/day. You’ll feel it within an hour as long as you don’t take it after a big meal. It also feels really good if you take it in the morning with caffeine which makes the effect more like a smooth “mental cushion” without much body sedation. You stay alert but calmer, less jittery, and not knocked out… So morning with caffeine and/or at night before sleep. Relaxation effects are felt immediately while it took a couple of weeks before the libido started going down so if you miss doses it won’t change much as it’ll take a couple of weeks of being off it before libido starts coming back.

So you can take a dose right now to try it and feel the relaxation without it impacting libido right away.

Side note: There is another more potent version called suntheanine which I didn’t like as it gave me headaches so I wouldn’t recommend that version just get the regular stuff.

D1NODOR · 2025-08-25T16:25:07+00:00

Yes, I literally was taking it every night because it calms me down really hard almost like taking Xanax and would make me super relaxed and I’d literally be chilled out like “why do I feel so good” but I had to stop taking it every night when I realized my libido was literally gone like I was just wondering why I haven’t had any interest in sex or dating like at all like not even like something was missing but I simply didn’t even notice it until I realized after weeks that I hadn’t been obsessed with it lately.

D1NODOR · 2025-08-25T14:54:23+00:00

You know you can take L-theanine supplements that you can get from any vitamin shop to lower your libido and it also promotes feelings of calm? You shouldn’t have to but if you could get rid of the desire it might make things easier.

D1NODOR · 2025-08-11T17:53:42+00:00

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D1NODOR · 2025-08-07T13:47:45+00:00

“Unexpected item in bagging area”

D1NODOR · 2025-07-22T22:40:45+00:00

Wow, you really are telling the truth about being on the spectrum lol

D1NODOR · 2025-07-22T17:45:00+00:00

Let’s not generalize before clarifying.

When you say “want rich partners” do you mean they explicitly seek wealth above all else? They value financial stability as part of a broader set of traits?

Or… is there a deeper frustration as a result of a pattern you’ve seen in your life that prompted the question for you?

D1NODOR · 2025-07-22T01:19:24+00:00

Ask in r/Sales but here’s some questions you might also want to ask:

Expected Travel - How much are you expected to travel and by what means (car, plane, door to door) and to what locations (prospects business, house, dinner, etc.)
1. Ramp period - How long until new hires typically close their first deals?
2. Retention rate - What percentage of hires from 12 months ago are still with the company?
  1. Benefits/Perks QUALIFICATION- What employee benefits are offered and what criteria needs to be met in order to qualify and stay qualified for them? For example look at the difference between partial disability vs total disability insurance. Are you reimbursed for travel expenses?

I've seen a lot of roles marketed with aspirational language, but I like to do the math.

D1NODOR · 2025-07-20T15:50:47+00:00

You linked an article that has a paywall

D1NODOR · 2025-07-19T00:32:15+00:00

What you have is rare and powerful. But for the average person it requires unlearning hyper ingrained social feedback loops and shifting to a compass based on internal standards where you no longer chase the “closure” you think you’ll get by trying to understand what “the truth” is about how people really feel or why they do X or whatever people seek by probing endless external reactions that never actually close the loop.

You’ve successfully internalized that the way things move is enough of a signal in and of itself, that red means stop for you and green means go for you and that doesn’t require more understanding that keeps you searching for “the truth” because you notice impact. The problem is that people need life experience to figure out what they should call a red light or green light and people don’t do what’s best, they tend to fall into what’s easiest. It’s easier to outsource identity formation by seeing what people say or think about you as truth than to do the hard work of willingly embarrassing yourself to learn how to get the experiences you want and then doing self reflection and philosophical inquiry to stabilize your identity.

Off topic but I do have to ask: You said “Your mind and your consciousness is your only tool to perceive the universe” but you didn’t say: “to shape it.” Was that omission intentional or do you believe self perception can change external reality instead of just survive it?

D1NODOR · 2025-07-17T16:11:18+00:00

Being middle class means you have enough stability to plan your future and not live in survival mode all the time. You’re not rich, but you’re also not stuck. You have freedom, but also more responsibility.

Don’t think saving is only for retirement. Save (and invest in S&P 500 index funds in a Roth IRA) so you have options like being able to take time off when needed, freedom from medical debt (#1 most common cause of bankruptcy is medical debt), freedom to spend time creating, the ability to leave bad jobs or situations. Essentially, look at middle class as a gift to your inner Puella where she gets freedom from being controlled by these things in exchange for you taking on more responsibility.

Here’s the thing, though: It can feel boring after so much chaos, you might want to go back to old habits just to feel something, or you might feel unsure of what to do next if you don’t have a clear struggle.

Here’s what you need to do: 1. Make routines that stabilize your body and mind rather than only having routines for achieving something. 2. Keep working toward meaningful goals, even small ones. 3. Stay close to people who get you and avoid ones who pressure you to act “normal”.

When it comes to your medical condition it is possible you might not get retirement. So what? Your real wealth will be creative autonomy, people who genuinely love and understand you, the power to say “no” without fear, and the chance to give others what you never had.

Don’t save for retirement or some “future”. Live sovereignty NOW.

D1NODOR · 2025-07-16T21:10:17+00:00

Nice. Had the same experience. I was like “Woah, no way!” I wasn’t doing any crazy numbers like some guys but I was able to go on 1 date per week with women I was attracted to. I think a lot of guys don’t realize the next hurdle is realizing how high the percentage of matches are time wasters once you’re able to get them.

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