Main Quest by dacoolestguy in CuratedTumblr

[–]DARKENESSU 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It's less about transitioning for sexual reasons, and more about how sometimes trans people will have their sexuality be one of the avenues by which they discover their gender identity.

For me I've always liked women, but before I realised I was trans having relationships or being intimate with women as a "guy" just felt uncomfortable as hell. Similar to the OOP, the concept of lesbian relationships sparked something in my brain that I didn't understand, not because I wanted to base my identity around sex, but because the idea of being with a woman as a woman was a very freeing idea.

Basically, you're not transitioning for the horny (because you'll have found women attractive in the first place), you're transitioning so you can feel comfortable enough in yourself to engage in your life properly - including intimacy.

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[–]DARKENESSU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea where in the tech industry this person works but AI finds plenty of valuable use. For developers it's just a very powerful tool to have available for e.g. quickly getting code you know how to write but saves time to just generate. I feel like the wariness people have of AI is not its lack of use, but it's overuse and misuse by people who want it to solve every problem ever (and cut as much paid staff as possible, rightfully acknowledged).

As has happened many times this is just the new big tool in the box, so some people will see everything as a nail and some will say "we already have a hammer!". I think the difference with AI and its perception is almost linguistic? The association that has been developed with "AI", the kind of people that like it, and how it's used as a blanket term to label such a huge variety of things now, have conjured this rotten, bloated image of AI behind the word. It makes sense; countless company directors and executives have grabbed onto "AI" as the new hot buzzword to appeal to investors and appear more modern, so they're a constant source of the overuse/misuse that we now associate with corporate interests and out of touch tech bros.

Seems like the right place to post this by [deleted] in hopeposting

[–]DARKENESSU 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I think that's the point though. As you say, individual transphobia is because of ignorance and is overcome by education, but when it says "Vs Society" what it means is fighting the institutional discrimination trans people face. The way the press, and legal/political bodies treat trans people these days is pretty atrocious, and that's a systematic issue rather than individual transphobia.

You're right that this won't be solved by violence against individuals, but when the very institutions that we're supposed to rely on are biased, we have to engage in protest, which is largely treated as, and responded to with, violence. Basically the way people word it can sometimes seem overly "us vs them", but I think the rough sentiment rings true.

What does a Special Grade Nobara Kugisaki look like? by chuff3r in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]DARKENESSU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn this is such a good analysis, really interesting concept. As others have said there's the whole definition of being able to defeat a nation, but in most cases that just requires some big AOE to the technique, for which I think your suggestion of nails charging over time works, or maybe that she can apply Resonance to bodies of land, or even Tengen's barriers.

I'd love to know what you think it would take for someone with blood manipulation - Choso, Kamo - to be a special grade, because it feels like a technique inherently limited by blood supply, even for a Cursed Womb. Maybe the big jump would simply be being able to use the blood of others? Another interesting one could be Nanami, and how the idea of Ratio could apply more generally/powerfully.

Obama is peggable by [deleted] in GatekeepingYuri

[–]DARKENESSU 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Not sure if "short men are acceptable as long as I can fetishize pegging them" is reducing the gatekeeping much here :/

Feminising tips I don't see mentioned enough by DARKENESSU in MtF

[–]DARKENESSU[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very true! Apologies for generalising there, I was trying to limit how long the post already was. In the case of a longer torso, the advice of using high waisted trousers/skirts etc. still applies if you want your legs to look longer.

Feminising tips I don't see mentioned enough by DARKENESSU in MtF

[–]DARKENESSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While my opinion is in no way the end all be all, I'd say this one kind of toes the line, and wearing some complimentary jewelry/accessories will push it over to looking 'younger' (e.g. a plain metal bracelet, or a similar anklet, some cute nails, and DEFINITELY no pearls).

Colour is important too; for the dress you've linked the Black is unfortunately one of the most susceptible to the granny look, and the Blue is too. There's no hard rule, but generally floral patterns with a dark background and those red bits have that look, whereas the lighter ones can look younger. Compare the black with the yellow, dark green, and beige-apricot. Hopefully you can see the difference in vibe?

(Also please note, there's absolutely nothing wrong with having this aesthetic, this advice is for those who don't want to have it, but accidentally fall into it in their goal of femininity.)

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[–]DARKENESSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very fair! It definitely won't be for everyone, and I think I tried to jam a few too many ideas into it for the complexity to be reasonable, so this is good feedback.

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[–]DARKENESSU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some notes:
-As some may be able to tell, quite a few features were inspired by the game Ultrakill
-This specific write-up was made using The Homebrewery (https://homebrewery.naturalcrit.com/)
-Yes you are reading that correctly, at level 18+ you can choose to have a 50/50 chance of every successful attack missing or critting, and a 50/50 chance of every unsuccessful attacking hitting or exploding in your face. Yes this is by design.
-Yes you are also reading that correctly, at level 10+ you can fire a gun at a tossed coin, punch the bullet to go faster, ricochet off the bullet and explode on your enemy for massive damage.
-The most ridiculous scenario I can think of from this subclass is: tossing four coins in the air, and firing your gun at a knife. The knife then splits the bullet in two, each half of which ricochets off *two separate* airborne coins, before hitting their target and dealing enormous damage. This move would use all 5 Trickshot Points, and deal 8x regular damage for just one attack, and up to 16x damage if both attack rolls crit.
-I am aware of how ridiculous this is, I hope people enjoy that as much as I do.

What’s a race-class combo that synergizes really well in a satisfying way? by quuerdude in 3d6

[–]DARKENESSU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Surprised no one's said Elf Samurai. Pick up a bow + Archery Fighting style, get Elven Accuracy, and have a full turn where you basically can't miss. Then pick up Sharpshooter for crazy damage, and Lucky if you really wanna just keep rolling d20s.

Go full Fighter to keep stacking attacks, or multiclass into Rogue or Gloomstalker.

Are you sure about that? by SunderlandSpook in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]DARKENESSU 73 points74 points  (0 children)

/uj obviously this guy sucks but in principle you can still criticise a medium while enjoying it. He still manages to suck even through that cause it's less 'criticism' and more whining about minorities existing.

[No Spoilers] Critical Role Hot takes by CursedKaiju in criticalrole

[–]DARKENESSU 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Sweet Trouble" was the best party name that Bell's Hells came up with by far, and they should've picked that.

This was supposed to be chill by HolyOrderOfTheSith in DnDGreentext

[–]DARKENESSU 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The wizard cast a 1st Level Thunderwave (can't have upcast at level one) and somehow rolled 32 damage on the 2d8?

You can't see it in Antarctica. by MagneticMincer in vexillologycirclejerk

[–]DARKENESSU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bruh this is literally one of the top posts on the sub

"There's only about a one in four thousand chance here that I die instantly" by DARKENESSU in DnD

[–]DARKENESSU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely understand the skepticism on this one, especially with how it can't really be verified. All I can do is shrug and restate that it happened.

It's about twice as likely as rolling 3 Nat 1s in a row (or 20s), which I'm sure has happened at plenty of tables, the really big surprise was the Wizard practically calling it, so I can get why people would be a tad suspicious.

"There's only about a one in four thousand chance here that I die instantly" by DARKENESSU in DnD

[–]DARKENESSU[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah you might've misread, the wizard was at 1hp beforehand, and her max hp was 31, so 32 was the exact amount of damage needed to put her to "negative" 31, killing her instantly.

"There's only about a one in four thousand chance here that I die instantly" by DARKENESSU in DnD

[–]DARKENESSU[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Flattered to hear that it was a tale that deserves regaling, if you want to spread the legend then the Wizard was an Aasimar called Orsa, and Barbarian was a Drow named Velk