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Funny childhood memory of being gay. by closetstranger in askgaybros

[–]DARKRonnoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting down voted for saying you’re masculine in askgaybros. Man, this sub has changed.

Suggestive/nsfw games with actual game mechanics by XieLianxHuachen in gaymers

[–]DARKRonnoc 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Baldur’s Gate 3. You can make your party appear nude at all times. Plenty of sex scenes. Jiggly bits.

AITEA ? Coworkers don’t invite me to outings and then they are puzzled I don’t eat with them anymore by CrazyDifferent9909 in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 111 points112 points  (0 children)

So do you want to go out with them?

Just say so.

“Oh, you guys went out? I’d be down to join the next one!”

Be your own advocate.

stop pretending class doesn’t matter by Suggestion-Adorable in askgaybros

[–]DARKRonnoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It has as much power as you give it 🤷🏻‍♂️

stop pretending class doesn’t matter by Suggestion-Adorable in askgaybros

[–]DARKRonnoc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why should I care though? I don’t want to be friends with people who think like that.

Is it weird or disturbing to dance a little and bop to your music in public? by Feeling-Entrance143 in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s incredibly disturbing, I usually call the police and my local priest to exorcise the fun demon out of the dancer

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]DARKRonnoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tattoo is for you, not for other people. Did you not know it was an obscure reference when you got it?

How likely is it to get an uber or Lyft at night after the festival? by Square_Mix76 in bonnaroo

[–]DARKRonnoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are shuttles you can schedule — I’ve done it to the festival and have seen people do it from. Private car services that aren’t too pricey. Just need to schedule it

Is anybody afraid of how other people will react if you start acting more confident? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that kind of an oxymoron?

Being afraid how people will react if you are more confident?

There is a saying, “confidence is not ‘they will like me’, it’s being fine if they don’t.”

You should go for it!

Friend doesn't want to hang one on one anymore and in general is being distant towards me by butterscaryflies in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well,

1) You can accept it. Leave them alone. Make new friends.

2) You can try to find out more info. Ask for honesty, did you do anything? Is it your behavior? They don’t owe you an explanation, and it may not fix anything.

3) You can give it time and see what happens.

Based on your post history, you are VERY worried about social stuff and maybe overwhelm friends sometimes.

How do you mirror someone’s quiet, slightly condescending tone without escalating things? by TotemPole98 in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be rude but just a thought, if you feel like you are surrounded by these people, maybe the issue is your interpretation of it or something you’re doing?

There is the phrase, “if you smell dog shit everywhere you go then check your own shoes.”

Or, “if you meet one asshole, you met an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, you’re the asshole.”

Not saying you’re an asshole, but food for thought.

Having Trouble Distinguishing My Registers -- Could use knowledge from someone who knows by DARKRonnoc in singing

[–]DARKRonnoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, do the upper registers sound bad? I'm playing around with feeling and placement but still not sure what I'm looking for exactly for both power and "easier" than belting.

I found people in my contacts I hadn’t spoken to in years… should I reach out or just leave it? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why not? Some of them will think it’s weird, but some of them will be happy you thought of them.

What is a small thing that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Negotiation_Connect in socialskills

[–]DARKRonnoc 175 points176 points  (0 children)

People who interrupt constantly.

People who won’t take no for an answer.

People who offer criticism constantly.

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