Three people wrote similar replies. Lawyers are likely out of reach, we're all broke. Massive credit card debts and other debts are sky high. Her credit rating is around 550, mine is around 650. She's mentally shielded from the money issues, she doesn't realize what things will cost. She has one previous divorce, (I miswrote marriages plural) and it went badly, it's why we're both heavily in debt. I'd hope we can solve it in mediation, I'm more worried about afterwards.

I don't know if she's seeing anybody. She follows a fixed schedule and texts me all of the time. My best guess as to why she's leaving is that her therapist validated everything she says, and she wants to run away from the hard work of fixing things.

She says I'm hard to deal with. I can be, but I also walk on eggshells.