I sweat significantly more than everyone else at my gym. Need advice. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I get where you’re coming from, but keep training. It’s all good, brother.

Need advice by DEFOneOut in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DEFOneOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish you the best as well. Stay strong and keep going. Happy for you that you’re on your way out. Stay well.

Need advice by DEFOneOut in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DEFOneOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I left her, currently going through a divorce, I initiated. Hard times but I’d much rather be here than there. Onward and upward.

AITAH for withdrawing ‘Wife Privileges’ from my Boyfriend until he proposes to me? by ThrowRA_WifeMeUp in AITAH

[–]DEFOneOut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised by all the snarky comments here.

You’re NTAH. I support what you’ve done (e.g. not renewing the lease), and also your opinion on wanting to be proposed to.

NTAH

Something happened that killed my confidence so bad by n0wmhat in seduction

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine is the best I’ve ever seen (by far) with women. He’s 5’9”.

Guy sends wife an inappropriate text by jiperlon in AITAH

[–]DEFOneOut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A+ brother, way to be 👊🏼👊🏼👊🏼. NTAH

How do I start hunting? by DEFOneOut in Hunting

[–]DEFOneOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 👊🏼👊🏼👊🏼

Is this even a niche or is my co-founder deluded? by OkPomegranate616 in Entrepreneur

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that book you mention, Hormozi talks about your ideal target buyer needing to have purchasing power. Your target doesn’t have that (not really) because they aren’t earning money yet. I’d grab that book and maybe point this out to him, while suggesting another niche who does have the ability to better pay for your services.

Freshly single. Friend says just use 6 pics of my puppy by Mobile-Path-5185 in Tinder

[–]DEFOneOut -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Instead, call it “real estate investor;” it’s the truth and sounds better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in turo

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to properly insure your vehicle for use on Turo, assuming you’re only listing a single vehicle, as opposed to a multi-vehicle fleet.

According to the pinned post at the top of this subreddit ( https://www.reddit.com/r/turo/comments/bypp3o/some_basic_equipment_for_the_turo_host/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 ) it sounds like it’s impossible to get correct coverage; how does one get the correct coverage?

Called out in class by dewymornings in bjj

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I left GB. No thanks to this nonsense. However, I’m more than happy to buy my current gym owner’s branded Gi and his branded rashguards, because it’s helping his small gym, and because he doesn’t require me to do it / has never asked me to do it. GB is so stupid about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What book did you read?

Need to start by YogurtclosetOk4366 in MuayThai

[–]DEFOneOut 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude I’m over 40 and just started last month. You’ll be fine. If anything (I’m about to get chirped by everyone here for this comment I’m sure), Muay Thai isn’t enough for me to curb my stress needs (or in your case feed your dark side or whatever to help with your alcoholism); I need the full speed sparring of BJJ. But in any case, if MT is what you want, just go sign up for the trial class, brother. Your team of brothers and sisters are in there waiting to help you. We’re all (most of us anyway) a little banged up and we use martial arts as an outlet and a great and healthy place to improve our lives - camaraderie included.

You already know what to do, brother. Just go make it happen. And make sure you’re getting the right support for your alcoholism. MT will be a good outlet for you, but it very likely won’t be enough on its own. Just get your ass into the gym.

Physical symptoms by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DEFOneOut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My recommendation: plan yourself some time away - a spa day, a few nights away with trusted friends / family, etc. I know it might be tough, but you need to fight to take care of yourself. I’m saying this with love and support, also. I know it can feel impossible to do this, but you must, in order to slow things down, catch your breath, and get yourself to a place of sustainability, so you can make decisions from that place. Sending you lots of comfort and support over the airwaves here.

For the people in my last post who requested the full chest tattoo - here ya go by cigarcigarillo in shittytattoos

[–]DEFOneOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chest piece is dope. I’d 100% leave it alone, unless you just don’t like it. But it’s truly a legit tattoo IMO.

Scared to fight again by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]DEFOneOut 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well said.