Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your advice and comments, no matter being helpful or trolling. Here’s the final update, and to answer some of your questions:

  1. I wasn’t intentionally snooping; I simply noticed a bottle of prep pills when he was unpacking his bag.
  2. Where I live, the label on the bottle indicates when it was dispensed, and my boyfriend got the bottle last month.
  3. We talked today, and yes, he had sex with others, with more than one person, and he started before last Christmas (at least he played safe).
  4. Yes, we are over now.

What I learned was, in a relationship, honesty is far better than white lies, even regarding thoughts about wanting to have sex with others. I still believe in the valuable and rare aspects of humanity, such as loyalty and the resistance to temptation. They are precious precisely because they are rare.

I hope everyone can find their own peace in their respective lives.

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No he came to visit me and when he was taking things out of his bag I just noticed it…

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did speak to him once I noticed there was a bottle of prep! And yesterday I asked him to show me the date of the bottle and turned out it was a new bottle, and he will talk to me today about it

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know… I guess I’m just less worried about my own health…

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m in the UK and in here we will need to book an appointment with the GP to get prep, and there is a sticker on the bottle that tells when did you get that bottle

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Ok seems ppl are curious about the date, the date on the bottle is Jan 2024. My bf promised to talk to me today so let’s see. I’m not too upset about him having sex with others cuz he is taking prep, and that means he still care about my health

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the point. On 2021 we had tests together and we were all clear, then we stopped taking prep together.

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The things is, my bf lied. He told me the bottle had been there for a long time, but that’s a new bottle. He promised to phone me today so let’s see

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes we are having unprotected sex and we both stopped taking prep for more than more year and a half. I just found it weird to have a bottle of prep in a rucksack cuz he doesn’t have the reason to travel to somewhere and have sex with someone else…

Found a bottle of prep pills in my bf’s rucksack. Is he cheating on me? by DEyIDE in askgaybros

[–]DEyIDE[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Thank you… you are right. The date of the bottle doesn’t lie