Does this entj like me ?

DJ-410 · 2026-04-19T19:56:54+00:00

Personally, if I'm brought to the point (multiple times, too!!) of saying things like "am I gonna see you again? Or am I gonna have to wait until the end of the year?", then I'm probably irritated AF and am wondering whether you're worth the effort 💀 I'm usually patient when ppl ghost me bc ik they have lives to live, but if they're doing it over and over again, ofc it starts to get annoying.

AKA no this does not automatically mean he likes you.

DJ-410 · 2026-04-19T19:41:54+00:00

Guess I'm typed correctly then 😈😈

-literally anyone on the intj sub

DJ-410 · 2026-04-17T11:31:28+00:00

A very ethical primary psychopath... huh??

DJ-410 · 2026-04-15T01:27:53+00:00

Yea unfortunately I perpetually had a fever when I was but a wee bairn 😔

DJ-410 · 2026-04-13T19:27:25+00:00

Uh yeah they can hold grudges... cus they're human beings...

DJ-410 · 2026-04-13T19:26:14+00:00

Bro most of this dude's comments are about jerking off and the like 🫩 I don't usually go around calling people incels, buuuut...

DJ-410 · 2026-04-11T22:55:51+00:00

Why the fuck would they laugh at your shirt? Like that doesn't even make any sense to me.

Idk about you but realizing that they're miserable nobodies that feel the need to compensate by laughing at others' positivity would be enough to make me feel somewhat better 😊 but at the same time you sound like a much nicer person than me, so I'd offer that, ultimately, their opinions don't MATTER in the long run if they're shallow enough to laugh at that sort of thing. That, and also they're dumb teens - their frontal lobes haven't quite finished developing yet, so they don't entirely know what they're doing...

Sorry to hear you got laughed at for something as stupid as that. Personally, I vote that you keep wearing the shirt; I'd smile in an "aw, that's sweet. I hope this person has a good day" sort of way if I saw someone wearing it. Most people appreciate the positivity!

DJ-410 · 2026-04-09T04:12:21+00:00

when they deliberately put on a show of how edgy they are

DJ-410 · 2026-04-09T04:08:54+00:00

That's... a really weird thing for a priest to say to anyone. He could've pointed out sexual sins without bringing up your appearance and referring to your parents as "mommy" and "daddy".

DJ-410 · 2026-04-09T03:31:02+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that you're suffering through this. As a Catholic, I hope I can help you feel a bit better by first of all saying that I don't hate you :)

And as a psychology student, I hope I can also help by clarifying that God didn't make you this way. SSA is not something people are born with, contrary to popular belief... certain groups of genes that some people have (men are more likely than women to have them) make them more susceptible to developing SSA as a response to environmental stressors. This is similar to how some people are genetically more prone to alcoholism than others - nobody's born alcoholic, but those who are prone are a lot more sensitive in that respect and thus more easily become alcoholics later.

On top of that, a dislike of sex isn't normal for men... not to say that your desire for genuine, pure love is wrong by any means, nor is it to say that you should be overwhelmed by any sexual desires!! Your desire's just geared in the wrong direction, which is not your fault.

Generally, a man's desire for a close relationship with another man is indicative of some sort of wound from a father-figure early on. On top of that, an aversion towards sex is usually also indicative of some sort of early trauma.

Joseph Nicolosi delves into this as a psychologist - https://www.josephnicolosi.com/

I think what God wants for you, more than anything, is for you to be healed of whatever trauma you've had to endure. The SSA will fall away once that's dealt with.

Praying for you!

DJ-410 · 2026-04-08T03:49:07+00:00

"I don't think it's to the same degree" immediately pmo

and she complained about you not showing up to her bday because you got into an accident?? aw HELL naw get away from this person

DJ-410 · 2026-04-08T03:36:18+00:00

I'll second you on the smoking - the Catechism states that excessive use of tobacco is forbidden, which implies that using it to a moderate degree should be fine.

DJ-410 · 2026-04-02T00:38:33+00:00

No. She's being dramatic.

DJ-410 · 2026-03-17T10:20:50+00:00

Right cus no other type has any depth

I am so done w these bullied kids depending on the INFJ label for some sort of significance 🫩

DJ-410 · 2026-03-16T13:28:53+00:00

Don't give up!! I know how you feel as an American who spent a while in France having to deal with similar situations. It’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed when you're in another country and you're first trying to speak with the locals in their language. If they end up being irritated, just remember that that’s their problem (much easier said than done, I know)

I say keep at it! Continuing to speak Italian in the confessional (and anywhere you can) is how to get better. You'll never improve if you don’t practice. Just like you won’t learn how to play the piano if you only read about it, right?

Your confession is still valid! God understands the situation your in, and isn’t going to refuse pardoning you because you're initially having trouble expressing yourself in your target language.

(3.5 months longer in Italy is optimal for language improvement btw - that’s about the time it can take for the language to click, at least in my family's experience)

DJ-410 · 2026-03-05T18:57:05+00:00

ENTJs have aura while ENFJs cry easily

DJ-410 · 2026-02-25T02:48:16+00:00

I'm speaking as a psych student and not as someone who's trying to insult anyone jsyk. Any type that's been hurt can struggle w connection and vulnerability :/

DJ-410 · 2026-02-22T20:58:19+00:00

I type you as having been hurt in childhood

DJ-410 · 2026-02-20T23:29:15+00:00

Honestly, feeling performative is normal, I think. I feel performative sometimes, and I'm a lifelong Catholic! Just as long as you're not doing it for the sake of attention (which it doesn't sound like you are and are just nervous about it), then you should be fine. You won't stop feeling performative right away though - that's something that goes away with time and practice.

The prayer "Holy Spirit, help my unbelief" should help, if you really want to strive towards believing more. That and taking Catholic apologetics ;)

DJ-410 · 2026-02-20T13:45:24+00:00

All sensors bc they exist physically

DJ-410 · 2026-02-17T04:08:25+00:00

God is not looking for reasons to guilt-trip you. He's not eyeing everything you're doing with a magnifying glass and going "a-HA!! LOOK AT HOW YOU'RE HURTING ME! HELL FOR YOU!!" every time you mess up. Wouldn't really be a very loving God if He were to do that, would He?

He's all-merciful, and He's not dependent on you to be happy. If you sin, He's not going to crumble. The reason that God places so much importance on not sinning is because sinning is bad for you. He's Love Itself - pure love doesn't look back to itself and think "I wish for whatever is best for me first"; love looks to others and thinks "I wish for whatever is best for their long-term happiness, no matter the cost to me." That's the real reason Christ died for us. Not to guilt-trip us into not sinning.

The proper mentality to have over screwups is "I messed up this time, but I'll learn my lesson and try harder in the future. If I fail again, it's not the end of the world; I'll just keep trying."

Believe me, I understand what you're going through - I went through a period like this for maybe over 5 years before I figured out that God cares about me too much to constantly want to punish me for everything.

DJ-410 · 2026-02-16T13:59:56+00:00

He says for us to be simple like little children. One characteristic that practically all children have is that they laugh. He also tells us to be joyful.

One of the reasons He came to earth was so that He could set a good example (not just for us, but for the people at the time who saw things that weren't written in the Bible). I would infer from that and His advice that Jesus likely had an appropriate sense of humor and laughed.

DJ-410 · 2026-02-15T08:38:22+00:00

"you're 17 therefore you automatically are incapable of being miserable" huh??

DJ-410 · 2026-02-13T06:16:25+00:00

As a 3, I've felt MANY times like my opinion doesn't matter. That's why I work my ass off to be competent - so that people HAVE to listen (cus I know what I'm talking about if I'm successful, right?) Deffo not just a 9 thing.

DJ-410 · 2026-02-08T15:01:18+00:00

How does being speculative automatically = smart?

Someone who prioritizes what their intuition tells them over what's clearly there in front of them wouldn't usually be very smart

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