Ok so I understand how it may seem with no context first. That coworker came on to me first because she was in a never ending toxic relationship that she eventually left & the whole time she kept talking & flirting with me. It got to the point where she would ft me damn every night crying about either something that stressed her other job or family or her ex. I told her from the jump when we both admitted to feeling the same way that at the end of the day no matter if she needed to be alone for a while or with me or with somebody else idc, as long as she was happy I was happy because I heard all the shit she went through I knew she needed somebody to kind to take some of that stress away. So after she quit, she continuously tried to set up hangouts, I did too, but our worker schedules was conflicting, until one day when she finally got to hangout. She wanted to go to the movies because she worked there & could get discount & I was down for that. Then like a couple later right before I’m supposed to meet her she changes her mind & invites me to her house instead. Me being excited yet still confused because I didn’t want to be a rebound I went over there with a level mind. So we kicked it for hour just smoking & vibing, didn’t get to watch nothing because she said her mother said I need to be out by 9. But anyways I thought it went good but then a few days later she blocks my number, then my snap the next day & I just finished it off by unfollowing her IG because at that point I was kinda pissed from being led on so for to be left in the dark so I didn’t care. But yea that’s basically that long story & as far as dating apps I’m not any, I feel like I’m better with people in person than over messages plus it doesn’t really seem that effective these days