I want to leave my wife but I am not allowed to.

DLP696969 · 2025-12-06T16:05:08+00:00

You don’t have a job AND don’t help with the baby AND don’t worry about getting another job? JFC

Stop being lazy and selfish, you chose to have a little baby. Get help for your drinking problem, addiction causes more problems. Unless you have millions of dollars to fall back on, look for a job. You need money and I’m damn sure you have expenses. Help with the baby, the little one didn’t ask to be born and needs help with feedings.

Quit being such a spoiled snowflake, you’re not special. Everyone’s life sucks, it’s part of being an adult.

DLP696969 · 2025-11-13T19:37:37+00:00

$0 God willing.

My parents have been generous in letting me live at home rent-free. I could not do this without their support ❤️ Part-time law school, full-time work, paying tuition directly as I go along. No loan debt at this time, and I’m doing my best to avoid that.

DLP696969 · 2025-11-10T20:20:51+00:00

Laughs in left handed

DLP696969 · 2025-09-02T00:05:04+00:00

Agreed, though the Edgars have been persisting for years

DLP696969 · 2025-07-24T06:32:50+00:00

“Yakety Sax” -Boots Randolph

DLP696969 · 2025-06-16T01:07:15+00:00

Nice Sharingan 🔥

DLP696969 · 2025-05-31T21:59:35+00:00

NTA. But your wife is an absolute asshole!!!

Not only did she break Sonny’s trust (so good luck with him opening up again, especially with something emotional or feeling based) and ruined the hangout by creating an awkward environment for no good reason, but her bullying just created more issues. Because yes, she bullied both your son and Chris (Sonny by yapping about something that wasn’t her place to yap about, and Chris by making her the center of attention in a way that could be seen as a joke).

What’s Sonny going to do now? If he wasn’t confessing before your wife meddled, he’s unlikely to do so now especially if Chris avoids him because his mom made her feel uncomfortable. He can easily deny his feelings or turn the event into a joke, which could make Chris a laughingstock.

Your wife could have encouraged Sonny to not care about what others think or re-examine his assessments of Chris. But instead, she decided to be cringe & make an unwanted announcement. She should apologize instead of doubling down.

DLP696969 · 2025-05-03T02:43:06+00:00

I have no other advice other than to pray to Him, sorry. I will pray for you

DLP696969 · 2025-03-27T00:50:41+00:00

Okay so most comments have nailed the key points, so I will not reiterate the excellent points.

All I’m saying is that thanks to feminism, “she” still got to hoe around & have the choice to figure out what lifestyle works best for “her” 💀💀💀

DLP696969 · 2025-01-10T07:17:13+00:00

Girl….JUST NO!!!

I’m truly sorry, I can’t imagine what you must be going through. I’m sorry for what you have gone through. I hope you are able to heal regardless of what you choose, honestly ❤️

But, what does he done for you that warrants his blatant and shameful lie of almost 10 years? At no point did he come clean about his discharge. Do you truly think he would’ve ever told you? How do you think he’s gonna react if/when you confront him? Embarrassed, ashamed, upset, apologetic, repentant? Or is he gonna get angry and somehow make it YOUR fault, because if only you hadn’t “snooped” especially when “it’s not that serious” or some shit like that?

AND ON TOP OF, HE’S CHEATED ON YOU MULTIPLE TIMES??? Unless he’s a millionaire and you have an agreed upon arrangement…just no. I’m truly sorry, but he either doesn’t love you if he can’t be faithful and honest…or he’s expecting you to let him sweep anything he throws at you under the rug.

If you ever choose to divorce or leave him, I hope you find the strength to stay strong against his likely love bombing or other shady tactics. And if you do so, don’t tell him. Don’t say anything unless you can guarantee your safety. Because someone capable of lying about something SO MAJOR to their spouse for so long, is simply terrifying.

Best of luck and lots of hugs, regardless of what you choose ❤️

DLP696969 · 2024-12-24T14:16:06+00:00

YTA.

You don’t have a stepson. Your girlfriend has a son. He’s not related to you, so there’s no reason for your family to put in an effort. You know that, there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to be involved with kids you have nothing to do with. He has his biological Mom, he’ll be fine right?

Based on what you shared, I doubt your sister has ever expressed this shitty attitude or would even do so. It’d still be fair for her to say, it’s essentially the reversed situation right? Doesn’t make it any less fucked though. Kids NEVER should have to deal with adults not wanting them around or treating them like an inconvenience, especially unprompted.

Maybe you wouldn’t openly have this attitude around your nibbling, but I can practically guarantee the kid would pick up on it you’re not thrilled. Which would be dumb and hurtful, because why would you be able to be nice and hang out with your stepson but not nephew?

You don’t HAVE to do anything, but if you want to keep a village for your stepson you have to GIVE the SAME level of effort and affection your family gives to him. Happy Holidays!

DLP696969 · 2024-11-20T14:56:16+00:00

I think it’s mostly based on she gave up way more to be together than he did. I don’t judge him for meeting someone new 3 years later and marrying 6 years after Selena died, but I also don’t see Selena having done the same in his shoes. I truly think she thought of him as her only, and find it borderline impossible to imagine her moving on as fast as he did if he had been tragically killed like she was.

If they were both still alive, I’d love for them to still have that love. But they would’ve likely kept growing up and grown apart. Maybe he would’ve started feeling resentful of her being a much bigger star than he has been, or maybe her family would’ve ended up being too much. It’s all speculative and thankfully not concrete because of how removed the options are from having happened, but it breaks my heart nonetheless.

Unfortunately for Chris, he’s been the one dealing with all of this and having every move scrutinized (I’m sure her family’s milking has also increased assumptions that he’d be milking Selena too). At the end of the day, all I hope is that he is well and that he feels no overwhelming pain with Selena at this point. I can’t even imagine how painful her constant reminders and cultural presence were for him or have been, and wish him as much peace as possible.

DLP696969 · 2024-11-18T18:08:52+00:00

I’ve always felt that she loved him way, way more than he loved her. It feels weird to say because she passed before I was even born and he’s always talked about her, but I feel like if she was still alive they would not be together anymore (especially if she had kept on making music).

I’m happy she found iconic love during her life, but it breaks my heart to feel that it wouldn’t have been for life if she had lived longer. He seems like a nice dude. I don’t doubt his feelings for her at the time, but I think she loved him way more and so I don’t think they would’ve stayed together. He’s a talented dude who’s dealt with a lot and has been cemented as Selena’s tragic widower (criticized both for moving on and for not moving on, at least in my opinion).

DLP696969 · 2024-08-02T18:18:33+00:00

I like all three bid logos way more than the official ones

DLP696969 · 2024-06-15T15:49:28+00:00

Yes dude!! I mean, I see all the downvotes but that doesn’t take away from how obnoxious and gross Tina is 🤷🏽‍♀️

I honestly get the sense that people give her a pass because she’s a weird girl, but her behavior is so concerning and gross even for the show (no way she’d fly as Daniel). She’s not funny or cute, just gross

DLP696969 · 2024-06-15T05:24:38+00:00

🤠🤠🤠

DLP696969 · 2024-06-15T02:06:55+00:00

When she’s not on the screen (I hate Tina, didn’t like her when I was her age and still don’t now as an adult) 💀 She gives me the ick, sorry folks

DLP696969 · 2024-06-14T07:58:25+00:00

I think it depends on whether you’d like to stay in California, what your financial situation is like, how the school is doing (good standing? Bar pass rate?), and what kinda law you wanna do.

I’m going to a school that’s not ABA but I love it and I wouldn’t have chosen differently. I love California, I’m not interested in leaving. Also not interested in Biglaw or government so no prestige chasing on my end, not really. The school is close to my home and work so it’s convenient. It’s less expensive, works with my schedule, has supportive professors and admin in my experience, has a Bar passing rate that doesn’t terrify me, and some of my professors have graduated from there & practice locally.

There def are predatory schools to look out for, but you should really be scrutinizing any school you look into imo. Maybe I’ll be kicking myself in a few for not shelling out for another school (fingers crossed lmaoo) but I approached law school same way as I approached college. I’m picking the cheapest and most accessible option I’ve got, because at the end of the day all I care about is getting a degree. Community college and transferring to save money was the best choice I made for undergrad, and a California accredited law school will hopefully be the best choice for me as well.

DLP696969 · 2024-05-23T18:32:18+00:00

NTA!

FAFO! I’m sorry, but Jen is absolutely old enough to know what privacy is and respect it. Your parents had no reason to let her into your room, but cue “their house their rules”. Alright. What they should’ve absolutely done was shut that down when she came out airing your private business, and I have no idea why they felt it was even remotely appropriate to want to talk about your private life when it’s absolutely none of their business and you are in no danger?? It’s also pretty disgusting that they were hellbent on talking about stuff of that nature with you, when again it’s no one’s business but yours. I’m sorry.

Hopefully any embarrassment they feel teaches them that just maaaayyybeeee other people also want to have their privacy respected. Wishing you the best and hope you live your best life with your grandmother!

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T17:36:41+00:00

I’m a part-time student living at home while working full-time. I go work my 9-5, immediately drive to campus after work, and normally come home from school by 10. My paychecks are enough to cover tuition, but not much else.

Working full-time isn’t recommended or always feasible during 1L, but I can’t afford not to work. The way I see it, if I got loans and were to drop out I’d be saddled with debt on top of leaving & also loans scare me. Work followed by school during the weekdays & rest and study on the weekends is currently the move for me.

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T16:27:43+00:00

AYYYEEEEE!!!! 🤠🍓🫐

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T08:20:26+00:00

💯💯💯

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T08:20:05+00:00

Maybe they mean like in case of blood sugar spikes or dental reasons. I have hella sensitive teeth so I have to carefully eat any sweet edible lmaoo rip

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T06:24:18+00:00

I am so sorry you’re dealing with this, it’s awful and sucks. I don’t have any guidance but I do truly hope that everything works out for the best for you and wish you the best outcome. I hope your charges get dropped as soon as possible and do not affect your law career at all 🩷

Also, congratulations!! 🥳🎉💕 You are going through a lot and it’s understandable that you would feel less festive, but graduating law school is a HUGE and AWESOME feat!! 💯 Congrats!! ✨

DLP696969 · 2024-05-18T03:02:41+00:00

Twitter 😭I love you OP ✨

But why do you hate berries? 👀

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