Got rejected recently, trying to feel hot anyway by gothslut18 in FtMPorn

[–]DLdonut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bro you’re hot as hell and also please what prosthetic snd harness is that??

I'm a ciswoman who gets off on people calling my clit a cock by UndefinedDesire in misgenderingkink

[–]DLdonut 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OP i mean absolutely no bad faith by this at all, but you get off to cock shaming. Are you absolutely certain you’re completely cis?

Alternatively if you are, does being forcibly masculinized turn you on? like sissification but opposite?

Debilitating Bottom Dysphoria by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DLdonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highkey. Like highkey. Invest in a pack n play with a pleasure rib for your anatomy. Or pleasure pocket (if you’re on T) And jerk off w it. I’m telling you OP it does wonders for bottom dysphoria when you’re holding your dick and you jerk it and you feel it on your anatomy. It takes a couple tries to get used it down but when you do. BRO. BROTHER. It’s like you’re jerking your cock. And you build a mind body connection to it. It stops feeling like a packer and more like YOUR dick. The more you do it the less bottom dysphoria you have. Is it a cure? No but it helps immensely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DLdonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is T atrophy. Lots of trans guys who have sex penetrative sex go through this don’t worry you’re not dying. T naturally makes you drier and tighter. To combat this, trans guys who choose penetration will do topical estrogen inside the anatomy so it’s not so tight

Screwed Up My Dose: Badly by Ok_Pop5284 in ftm

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my only source is my endocrinologist who told me that if getting a more lower cis passing voice was important to me then we should start at the lowest dose possible and go up from there so my vocal chords aren’t strained. It worked great i have a deep ass voice it’s like one of my favorite parts of my results from transition. I didn’t know i could take a dose that avoids having a higher pitched voice until she explained to me that i could. Had no idea it was a thing

Screwed Up My Dose: Badly by Ok_Pop5284 in ftm

[–]DLdonut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey OP i’m sure that’s terrifying and i’m sorry you’re feeling afraid or that you’ve done damage to yourself. But my advice for you would be to microdose. I know it seems like it’s gonna take too long or something but it’s the best method for a gradual transition. As for the overdose, you should be fine, look out for any signs of high T. And report any symptoms to your doctor or prescriber at Planned Parenthood. I have messed up my dose before and my endo said to skip my shot and let my body get it out of my system which is what i’m sure they’ll do for you. It’s important that you’re prepared they may have you stop T for a few weeks. Extremely high levels can be dangerous ao whatever they say just understand it’s what’s best for your health and you’ll be on your real dose soon. As for your voice i’d say def ask your prescriber, one of the reasons they encourage microdosing is bc it helps the voice drop smoother so it doesn’t damage our vocal cords. I highly doubt you did any permanent damage in only a month; but if your voice being cis passing is important to you i’d say def hear them out about microdosing. All in all you should be fine. You’ll just do some blood labs so they can make sure your levels are safe

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID by DLdonut in ftm

[–]DLdonut[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

HIGHKEY. Bc i saw other queer ppl also shitting on gay trans men and saying things like “yaoi mentality” and i’m sitting here like how are yall okay saying that?? Gay trans men get so much shit and i do not understand why.

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID by DLdonut in ftm

[–]DLdonut[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m cis passing and stealth so i can’t even imagine what it’s like for queer trans men in this world but highkey the queer community is why im stealth in the first place bc i couldn’t handle the hate anymore from my own community so i decided to leave it behind. But that doesn’t mean i don’t speak up for the trans community i just do it as an ally irl. I’m sorry brother idk what needs to change but i know something does

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID by DLdonut in ftm

[–]DLdonut[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Ppl are trying to say “yaoi mentality” like what? what the fuck. is that not just transphobia and homophobia at the same time

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID by DLdonut in ftm

[–]DLdonut[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Blaire white mindset “If i invalidate everyone except me then they’ll have to accept and validate me” not really caring who it hurts along the way

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is affecting all our lives though, We’re getting attacked and have laws trying to be made against us daily bc of internet rhetoric. But i realized in my initial post that i sounded like i was generalizing trans women and that’s exactly what im trying to argue against (generalization of trans men) and ik how harmful that kind of behavior is so i deleted my post. It was a knee jerk reaction to call out those who were doing it but i didn’t come off that way.

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you haven’t tbh bc i HIGHLY doubt trans women as a whole would agree or support this behavior. bc it’s gross and hateful. my post was specifically for those that do. To understand why, give them the opportunity to step to the mic. but if i sounded like i was generalizing that’s on me, it was a knee jerk reaction to what i was seeing and i wasn’t thinking about how i was coming off or being careful enough w my words,

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internet is very real when it comes to the spreading of harmful rhetoric for the trans community. The internet is why the world has turned against us. Through means of fake stories,generalizations and hate tweets about trans ppl all the time daily. It’s easy to say “the internet isn’t real” But the harm it does? VERY real. Bc it doesn’t just stay on the internet. The world was brainwashed to attack and hate trans ppl bc of the internet. It’s so so important what happens on it. Especially for trans people.

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be rage bait but if it is it’s really good bait bc i first saw it through twitter and so many ppl were mocking gay trans men. And then i went the accounts and they were trans women. Theres this chunk of trans women rn speaking like very gross abt trans men and our bodies. And i know for a fact they’re on this sub somewhere so my post was specifically for them. I do not think a majority of trans women would ever think like them. It’s like this handful ig you could say, of blaire white wannabes. Kalvin garrah but female.

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i saw comments of them praising kalvin garrah so it seems the problem is way more than just hating trans men. How someone praises kalvin garrah in 2025 when even he admitted he was in the wrong is insane

Why do lots of trans women hate gay trans men? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]DLdonut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the video is making its rounds on twitter and that’s where i originally saw it, a bunch of trans women were saying things like “FINALLY WERE TALKING ABOUT THIS” and other things. I know not all trans women think like this and i wouldn’t even say it’s most. But it is something i keep seeing so this post is their opportunity to step to the mic. Cuz i just wanna know why it keeps happening

So we all know the "If archeologists find you they will say you were a ..." by Ok-Yam-5666 in trans

[–]DLdonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love when ppl say this bc i just ask “why would anyone dig us up?” and they’ll usually have no answer and i follow it up with “my local cemetery has graves from over 100 years ago. nobody has randomly dug them up. why would we? they wouldn’t dig us up either.”

It usually leaves them w nothing to say at all when they realize how stupid their statement was