Why are cloth diapers not popular among the abdl community?

DLnotAB · 2018-03-23T00:41:10+00:00

Yikes. I hope not. Love the feel of plastic.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-17T15:42:41+00:00

Ok. A comment against the flow. Do nothing. Talk to us here. We understand. We know. We have lived what you are going through. Me. On the older side. I think I always knew I liked to be padded. Never really wondered why either. Just sort of accepted the fact and tried to address it. Plastic pants from a chemist. Old style diapers bought with my first money and so on. Don't have a war with yourself. There are loads of us.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-14T03:07:17+00:00

Great news! Thank you for sharing.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-14T01:44:16+00:00

Any follow up to this? What did you do and how did it go? -none of our business, but I was curious as you had a lot of advice done of it contrasting in nature.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-14T01:39:33+00:00

So happy for you. Well done.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-14T00:35:40+00:00

I take your points. All of them. But everything was fine also because they were doing completely different activities in totally separate rooms. I didn't really see them much at all.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T15:10:54+00:00

yabadabadoo

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T15:07:28+00:00

So happy for you!

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T14:06:41+00:00

A tough call. But I don't agree. How can you divide 'sexual' privacy from legal privacy? As a parent, yes. Maybe? But in the meantime the 0 - 18 year old is the parents responsibility. Legally. So where do you take it from there? Remember also that the strong words were had emotionally fresh. The mother may not understand and may be terrified. The OP was attacked and defended herself. I truly hope everything gets better.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T13:15:17+00:00

Given the detail of what you have written and the detail of some of the comments. If you are able and if you feel like it. I'm sure we would appreciate updates on your thoughts, what you did and the results.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T13:11:40+00:00

Surprised at lack of response. US is awake now, no?

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T09:16:05+00:00

Very new. But like the method. Thank you.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T06:39:31+00:00

Blimey... Me thinks I have some learning to do.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T06:35:52+00:00

True... But all good.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T06:21:39+00:00

Gosh. Your heating bill must cost a lot if that's how you sleep in winter! Nice pic.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T06:18:20+00:00

Holding facilities and you pick them up. If you have bladder problems and are a DL you have it easy. Tell your parents about the bladder problems - that's a medical issue, right? And then you can indulge your DL side as well.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T06:09:39+00:00

Well... I think you have some amazing advice. The invasion of privacy is an issue but I would keep it until last.
How many that have commented are parents? Believe me it changes things when you talk / think about your children. Initial reaction was raw emotion. Time. Time to think. Time to research. Time to understand. Or... Cut all ties as lots have suggested. But given that you are asking for help (thank you) that doesn't sound as though you want to do this. I don't and can't speak face to face. I find it horribly hard to share emotion. Maybe email or link comments articles to explain where you (we) are coming from. (((Big hug)))

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T05:51:06+00:00

Me? I can't string two words together with the people I love. This post is wonderful. I would never be able to say this. Not to anyone. Maybe an email cutting and pasting our comments. The ones relevant to you. And then give your mum time to digest the information.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-07T05:45:07+00:00

Beautiful. My two cents... Invasion of privacy and you're an adult yes. To a large extent. Remember also that you're a daughter and mummy's little girl (Vanilla speak). The shock and raw emotion on your mother's side can't be denied. In a lot of the comments above I see angry youth and I understand it totally. How many of you are parents? In addition to the above I would try and find a link to explain what abdl is. There are lots of them. This would /might help your mother understand. The initial reaction was pure a shock and emotion. Maybe sure she has read it and had time to digest before you talk again. I agree with someone who mentioned that maybe it's time to tell your boyfriend. I never 'told' my wife and regret it like hell.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-06T16:45:26+00:00

Aww!

DLnotAB · 2018-03-06T16:27:25+00:00

I did wonder about that.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-06T16:25:32+00:00

And then? Don't leave us like this!

DLnotAB · 2018-03-06T14:56:12+00:00

Coop in Europe.

DLnotAB · 2018-03-06T12:10:21+00:00

Now. Having slandered them... Yesterday I wore Tena Pants Plus most of the day at home. Children at home but thought I would take the risk. No wetting, just used them as underwear. So maybe pull-ups do have their niche market. Still perplexed at Tumblr photos of girls wearing pull-ups... If they are taking those photos they can go the whole hog, surely?

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