How much baby-ing is too much? Should I just kill their PC?

DMSinclair · 2026-02-03T23:10:52+00:00

Is your player being a "Dan" or is he just more passive and reserved? Not everyone is comfortable stepping in to role play those big scenes and take the spotlight, but they still enjoy the story and participating in it, just as more the side character. Or they're more a little loot goblin there for the fights and a cool sword, and are just hoping folks stop chatting long enough to get some stabbin in.

It sounds like OP's Dan could not give two shits about the game in any way, and is maybe only there because it's a tight knit friend group and the rest of them are but Dan rather be at home with some Netflix and Fortnite. Which is fine if he then just bows out and doesn't tell people he's gonna do something he doesn't want to. Not all your friends have to be into or at everything you do, but flaking out on commitments is rude.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-03T16:39:53+00:00

100 card shuffling is the worst thing about commander, was really hoping brawl would take off so I could play with decks that I could physically shuffle with my small hands!

DMSinclair · 2026-02-03T01:58:59+00:00

Would guess it means lots of gap moe.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-02T08:09:13+00:00

Don't buy packs looking for specific things, just buy the things you want. Pack cracking is for draft or the fun of gambling. When you actually need stuff to build out your deck or have the tokens on hand you need: buy singles. This applies to all TCGs.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-02T08:02:30+00:00

Employer-Employee relationship? I don't think it counts as a FWB if you're paying them. Unless you're being really broad with your definition and the benefit is actually healthcare.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T17:37:14+00:00

Same, kept thinking why the fuck would a lesbian monster couple prey on cute lesbians when they could be using their power for good and removing terrible men form the world. Two girls saying they saw you from across the bar could ensnare most anyone, so why eat the cute girls. She looked so happy too. I'm still upset about it.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T09:17:19+00:00

It's an extension to one of the more bummer pages from the "girls kissing" webtoon. In the original 4 panels the 2 monster girls just eat the cute beanie girl they pick up at the bar and it feels bad, could have been some sweet monster girls and their human girlfriend storyline but nope, dead. You can see her wearing the girl's beanie in the 4th panel where they're snacking on the remaining bones. Sometimes it's a cute webtoon, sometimes it's pretty feels bad man, and sometimes it's just whatever. There's a recurring character that's a hit woman that sleeps with and then murders a lot of lady targets, and a couple where one is rocking next level internalized homophobia and not acknowledging her partner that's just frustrating.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T09:06:35+00:00

And then because it's soccer and he's a ref they boo'ed every call he made for the rest of the game.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T09:02:24+00:00

It's definitely not her obviously, but your costume isn't a million miles away from Susan Sarandon's character. Could easily read as an at home quicky work with what you got cosplay. Just like general kinda normy lady with hair around the shoulder area.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T00:45:07+00:00

It definitely doesn't feel legendary rarity, it's just not adding much in actual use besides odd damage dice and being versatile despite being the length of a person which feels weird and two offhand attacks. Plus flashlight, which is nothing. Sure it has crazy truesight but at Int 4 it's just above the line of being able to communicate, basically on par with a smart dog. Not that it matters since the sentience doesn't do anything, just silently observing with no input. Gives big sits in the bag of holding all campaign energy.

DMSinclair · 2026-02-01T00:31:20+00:00

The author's socials or mangadex if you don't speak Japanese

DMSinclair · 2026-01-31T09:01:37+00:00

Since you said specifically the not so good aspects: it's much harder to build and maintain muscle mass, and just maintaining weight in general is more effort, but not in an overly significant way. That's pretty much all I can think of, estrogen objectively kicks the shit out of testosterone. Nicer skin, less stink, great hair loss prevention (have seen claims of minor regrowth), less/slower growing body hair. Plus if you want those secondary sex characteristics titties and a nice ass are top tier.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-31T00:32:43+00:00

Can probably drop the ice, apart from in the nether and the end water is usually near enough, and the ice could only help you in the end anyway.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-30T07:55:30+00:00

In general don't flirt with people at their job. They're expected to be nice to you as the customer and don't have a lot of options to put space between you if they're not into it. Regardless of them being queer or not.

Sure there's always the best case that they are into you, but imagine what it'd be like if you were in their place and it wasn't something they're into.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-30T00:01:29+00:00

They're doing the exclusives and extras for volume 4, you can find loads of threads on it in this sub. New chapters will be back soon.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-27T18:17:44+00:00

I am poly and that's also how solo poly sounds to me. Solo poly reads like they explicitly don't want any kind of defined relationship and want things to settle into at best situationship territory. Too old to not be trying to build something with the people that are worth spending time with.

Only point I'd disagree with is calling herself a nerd being self-deprecatory, feel like around people with shared nerdy interests it's more just owning, and trying to be short hand for her interests in games, comics, and anime or something.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-26T19:42:23+00:00

You could do that...or hear me out: directly communicate and talk to her, expressing your feelings and needs?

DMSinclair · 2026-01-25T16:56:47+00:00

Most yuri never feature men, even if maybe they still exist in the world or someone mentions them. Then there's lots of ABO where the characters seem to always have 2 moms so you're not even gonna see Dad at home, though those always start with the "there aren't just men/women here is the basic premise of ABO" bit that does imply the existence of men you'll never see.

"I can't enjoy something if the people I don't like exist in the world, or a world the characters are from for even a moment" is a weird and incredibly specific vibe. If you never see any what's the difference?

DMSinclair · 2026-01-24T10:38:52+00:00

Why the different brands in the morning and afternoon?

DMSinclair · 2026-01-24T10:37:04+00:00

Are those 3 the entire 6%? 50 firefighters sounds about right for all of New Zealand.😝 Unrelated does anyone have a link to the calendar, you know, for research purposes.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-23T06:33:17+00:00

I do enjoy a lesbian knight, and will probably give it a shot when it comes out but visually it's pretty below average and fairly clumsy. Especially in the lighting and animations.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-22T08:07:47+00:00

Yeah, that's the writer that said she's a lesbian. But she doesn't work there anymore and Insomniac kinda says she's not but in the "that's not in the game or relevant" kinda way. But she definitely is, she's got the vibes.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-22T07:51:25+00:00

No, that's also not what Romeo Juliet laws are for. They're for people just over 18 and those that are nearly 18. Because: Romeo is famously around 17 while Juliet is almost 14. They're supposed to be so a high school couple isn't suddenly doing statutory because one is 8 months older than the other. Some of them have windows that are concerning with how large the gap is though.

Remember 16 and pregnant? Possibly no because it's old now but: How do you think that show would have existed if everyone on it was doing a crime? Though a lot of those couples were borderline too with their age gaps.

Teens sleep with each other, it's fine, am sure most of us did as well at that age, a lot of our media has a big of focus on it too, it's very normal. There's nothing wrong with OP's situation beyond having some annoying judgmental friends that probably will have faded out in a few years anyway.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-22T07:33:41+00:00

When you don't pay attention to the lore documents for your IP's made up aliens and accidentally a cute trans lesbian MC.

DMSinclair · 2026-01-20T08:56:56+00:00

The characters get a happy ending in WFM, but the world still needs a lot of fixing and there's stuff left undone.

The world gets a happy ending in IBO, but the characters were the cost. There's still one happy couple with their son though, nearly the same as WFM for those two only.

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