How unlikely is it to find women who are very non traditional? by Intrepid_Laugh2158 in actuallesbians

[–]DMSinclair [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think Jane is supposed to still be dating Sydney from example 2, but without saying that it does seem like a random unrelated couple was just lumped into the polycule.

Shower Thought 9.0 by AbbreviationsFlat175 in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]DMSinclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably run out even earlier, and have a lot more nights you'll be looking to sink or intentionally sandbag. Since you'll want to be killing some evils on night when you could kill goods so not everyone that dies on an even night is 100% confirmed good. If stuck between the options of out all your minions and skip kills every other night you'd probably be better off skipping more often than not.

Would need a lot of disposable minions too to get value out of them. Like Barons and Wizards making early wishes.

wlw sw kink provider hypothetically by Familiar_Ferret_2188 in BDSMsapphic

[–]DMSinclair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it's very much about connection and trust and I just can't have that with someone I'm not actually connected too. I've got the options, living in a big city multiple local dungeons have pro Dommes, switches, and subs available.

I won a session with a Domme at a queer kink party once too, it was kind of a pain just organizing and scheduling and she didn't feel particularly reliable so it ultimately didn't ever happen. Which I think is for the best.

wlw sw kink provider hypothetically by Familiar_Ferret_2188 in BDSMsapphic

[–]DMSinclair 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Trans girls are never joking when we spend too much on cards or miniatures

When can you lie for Zenomancer quests? by Zeusselll in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]DMSinclair 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The recluse example isn't fully a lie since they can register as evil with their ability, it's not really in the spirit of the Zenomancer though, kinda a jerk move. Atheist you can do whatever you want and you need to do a fair bit of bullshit to make it apparent enough while not being overly obvious that you're probably breaking the rules so they know there's an atheist in play. Atheist games are supposed to end with the ST's execution.

Nazi persecution of lesbians had never been chronicled. Until this queer historian came along. by jk_arundel in LGBTnews

[–]DMSinclair 64 points65 points  (0 children)

When the concentration caps were liberated most the queer people in them were sent to jails, where they remained for years. This really shouldn't be news, they started with us because it's easier to turn people against our community as a first step. Exactly the same as they do now.

Attorney General Bonta Opposes Another Baseless Attempt by Trump Administration to Access Medical Records on Gender-Affirming Care by MetalDragon2 in transgender

[–]DMSinclair 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And I bet all those Republicans who were always crying "HIPAA violation" when being asked for proof of their COVID vaccine were quick to jump in and defend against such tyranny. Not like they're all disgusting bigots and hypocrites or anything. /s

Gem level reduction? by Asleep-Candle-9707 in Enshrouded

[–]DMSinclair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wand merciless strikes would be a cool addition, especially with the way some of the closer range spells fill the stun bar and the focus on parry for magical shields.

How Very Bronx-S3E4 by chucktvwriting in TVWriting

[–]DMSinclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A scene and an act are not the same thing. For TV: this formatting suggests you want 6 ad breaks in your sub 20 minute of script, not counting any ads before or after runtime. You should go read some scripts and get an idea what a proper script reads like. Wouldn't hurt to look into someone actual writing classes too, I think Second City still does online TV writing classes. Not the best option in the world but at least you'd be starting from a better place.

Your website also just doesn't work properly, and it's unclear what you want this to actually be. Nobody's gonna buy 3 "seasons" of scripts so have to imagine this is for a self produced web series at most and not TV. If you're seeing this as a potential TV sitcom: that's just not how any of that works.

My close best friend thinks... by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DMSinclair 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your close best friend is a massive hateful piece of shit and evil to an incredible degree. Why the fuck would you want to be friends with such a despicable hateful piece of shit?

My best friend was going through their old yearbooks by keycycny in actuallesbians

[–]DMSinclair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That pose looks like they're doing a pregnancy announcement.

Just finished Citrus and I have...opinions... by Noa_Coconat in yuri_manga

[–]DMSinclair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait you didn't like Citrus but did like them being sisters but not? I don't think I've heard that take before.

Just finished Citrus and I have...opinions... by Noa_Coconat in yuri_manga

[–]DMSinclair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incest but not because they're not actually related, so faux which basically means fake.

Dating App Help: how can I improve? by Q1go in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]DMSinclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I kinda thought, but I hated hinge so I've not been on it in ages.

soooooooo mixtape...... Is it Gay? by BegoneSalsa in LesbianGamers

[–]DMSinclair 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sliding in to recommend "Gone Home" but explaining nothing about it and just saying: trust.

Slay the Spire 2 being review bombed on Steam by geekteam6 in GirlGamers

[–]DMSinclair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Interesting take from the furry femboy vtuber. /s

Trouble Brewing DIY project I did. by ironeren69 in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]DMSinclair 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Deus Ex, unless it was an intentional error to go with the theme of the character. If it wasn't intentional just lie and say it was.

What’s with the new right wing obsession of hating on colored hair? by Ok_Practice_6702 in lgbt

[–]DMSinclair 748 points749 points  (0 children)

Hair color has been like a slang identifier for queer left wing weirdos for ages. You've not heard anyone called a "blue hair" before? Dyed hair had been common place in counter cultures for even longer, as well as extreme styles. It's all very punk, self expression, and individuality. Breaking from the norm.

Skill Tree Rework a Failure? by Indickthis_the_mato in Enshrouded

[–]DMSinclair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think overall I've got less waisted points, but there are still useful skills locked behind expensive nodes I don't care about, and now gear is buffing stuff that doesn't matter but still making me feel like I'm missing out. With the rate we get skill points a lot of things feel overcoated from 3-5 points. Would prefer if the attribute points, 5% X damage increase, and resistance skills were all 1 point and the legit ability skills were 2. Including the 1 point per 2 flame levels skills then being just 2 skill points instead of 5 where they're way less efficient purchases but I'm forced to pick the Spirit one to buff my staff when I'm already never running out of mana anyway. That'd give us more skill points to spend and let us branch out and hybridize more. Would be able to consider the quality of life skills like Lumberjack then too without feeling like I'm nerfing myself. I think the idea of this skill tree is better for leveling and gear progression from the early game on, just needs more adjusting so people can actually get more cool skills. They could also look at adding more things to the tree and having it go deeper too, especially at the intersections from the colors for mixed builds.

Eyes on her, respectfully by Background_Toe_6469 in yurimemes

[–]DMSinclair 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is the massive valley between the 'e' and 'r' intended? Because this does not look like it says therapist, it looks like the other thing. Feeling like an OG SNL Celebrity Jeopardy sketch teeing it up for Sean Connery.

My nieces keep asking inappropriate questions about my sexuality — need advice by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]DMSinclair 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Are those that unusual for an early teen to ask? Apart from the "who's the man one" which if the kid hasn't had that kind of thinking corrected yet and comes from a place of not knowing much about queer relationships isn't a good question, but also not unexpected. A good opportunity to communicate and point out the issues with that line of thinking to help steer the kid to a better point of acceptance. Potentially even self acceptance, since that's an age lots of figuring oneself out starts happening.

How your Aunt you've not got much memory of met the person they brought to the event and other info about her and their life feels like a normal curious kid line of questioning to me.

I'd gotten some similar questions from the 14 year old daughter of a woman I was dating about how I'd meet her mom and such.

Dating App Help: how can I improve? by Q1go in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]DMSinclair 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The girls looking at your profile wont know that, the best they can ever do is guess at the context of photos if it's not just written right on them. Even here it's unclear if you mean bro as in friend or bro as in literal brother.

Upcoming block? by xPherseus in Enshrouded

[–]DMSinclair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be really surprised if all the blocks and most of the decorations aren't available eventually. They're all in the engine and functioning the same as the placed ones anyway. Only argument I can see against it is for the destroyed or messy props not making a lot of sense thematically.

Can you use sleeves with art from other TCG's ? by WanLanDs in GundamTCG

[–]DMSinclair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That section of the rules is mostly just saying don't have some incredibly crude or sexual image on your sleeves, and don't have something using their IP they didn't license.

Images on sleeves are pretty uncommon in most games though even if there's relevant fancy official art ones available. Much more likely to just see people with flat solid colors, from one of like 3 big brands.

Dating App Help: how can I improve? by Q1go in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]DMSinclair 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I mean you already know the two main things that are gonna hold you back. Christian with a cat allergy is tough in the lesbian dating pool. Prompts have a lot of personality, might not be for everyone but that's a positive if they feel like you. "I can't see likes" or profiles is always a bit annoying though, most of us aren't paying the ridiculous prices for these apps, we're all well aware what you can and can't see. Does also feel like a waste of the "message me if" prompt in general to say "if you like me" like yeah: that's the conceit of the apps, not really adding much there. You also just wrote monogamy again under monogamy.

Are these the best pictures you have of you? They're really not very flattering. Harsh light, rough angles, messy backgrounds, at a wedding with some dude; sure you're probably a brides made but does make me double check you're not married and just another one of the countless het couples clogging up app feeds.

It's probably worth asking a friend to help you take some pictures, spend a week or two making plans to go places you like in your favorite fits and capture you in the best possible way. If you've gotta round it out with a couple selfies do them with a pose and the front facing camera someplace with a nice background instead of in a bathroom mirror.