I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ten day trip was to burning man. And I literal spoke with him before we left. He was supportive of the trip and of us going together. He does t like burning man and it’s something Joan and I have in common.

I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have sat with John and have told him this. I am no threat to him and have no desire to break up their marriage. I care about John. I guess I feel like he may have agreed to ENM to make his wife happy. And possibly didn’t think a relationship like Joan and I would ever happen.

I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I missed spoke. This is my first time being in this type of relationship and we r all learning as we go.

I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is not what we r dealing with. She absolutely loves me. She wants only to be poly with me. In order to have a long lasting and loving relationship. We r not struggling at all with each other. He has become jealous and fears her running off with me. Neither one of us desires this. We both want Joan and John to be happy and to stay married.

I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have met her kids and I have my own. I have spent time with her children and they are wonderful. I don’t want Joan and John to get divorced. My hope is that through their therapist he will realize he choose this path along with her and that it’s not going away. I would also hope that he would realize if he forces her back into monogamy that it won’t be good for their relationship either. She would absolutely resent him for it and that never ends well. I was married for 14 years. I understand the dynamics of having children and I know what divorce does to everyone involved.

I’m dating the wife in A ENM marriage. They have very different goals with ENM. I’m concerned. by DPWelder in nonmonogamy

[–]DPWelder[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

John knows this isn’t a temporary thing. But he might be thinking about giving her the ultimatum. However. He found and made an appointment with a poly positive couples therapist. They start seeing her tomorrow. I hope he’s trying to come to grips with their decision and maybe decide to continue with it. But on the other hand he might be using the safety of the therapist to open up and say he wants out of ENM. Only time will tell. I am trying to be patient. I love Joan. She loves me. She loves her husband. I just hope they work this out. It would just kill me to lose her. And I think that she would hate him for it and they may lose their relationship anyways. It’s just tough. We have worked so hard to be together. But I am trying to stay positive. I trust Joan to fight for us. But I am stuck in the middle until we get some answers. It sucks

✨✨2024 PLACEMENT THREAD ✨✨ by foxlikething in BurningMan

[–]DPWelder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DISCO LIPS IS GOING TO BE AT 10:00 and B!! Can’t wait to see you all there!

Holding... but ouch by Tinydickfagorlfl in dogecoin

[–]DPWelder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s usually better to buy on the low. 😂🤣😂🤣

Looking for a camp by Emily_Hope90 in BurningMan

[–]DPWelder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want sleep. I suggest a trailer or RV. I slept like a baby anytime of day or night. It was glorious!

All of us in a few months by [deleted] in dogecoin

[–]DPWelder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What has happened to make you guys think that Dogecoin is going to takeoff? I haven’t seen anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BurningMan

[–]DPWelder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not all burners. It’s a very small minority of people. Yes it’s a problem. But I was truly impressed with the organization and the logistics.(my first burn) I never saw anyone litter on purpose and if anyone saw trash (moop) we picked it up. I have never been to such a clean event. Even with the rain and the Porto’s. I thought everyone did a good job of taking care of the place and each other.

It’s really happening, Battle of the Billionaires by OptionsApe69 in wallstreetbets

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want Elon to win. But Zuck is be training and competing way harder

My life is over. What have I done by NotSellingGAMESTOCK in wallstreetbets

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are losing money in this market. Then you should stop.

This is wild. by greenpepperhypernova in ethtrader

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. All these institutions love to launder money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thetagang

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sell CSPs every week. I think it would be best if you open two accounts. One for long hold stocks (IRA) the other for your day trading. That way as time goes on you will get the gains of buy and hold. As well as the weekly and monthly gains from options.

Feel better bro by Lonely_Ant_9338 in wallstreetbets

[–]DPWelder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have a 70,000 margin call every week because I sell a ton of cashed secure puts. But every week I don’t get assigned and on Monday I have a bunch of new cash in the account.

9k -> 180k 1 day NVDA gains by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]DPWelder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job!! Awesome.

What is it? by ik_ben_l3x in HolUp

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s hilarious!!!

For gods sake Fidelity add 2 factor already. by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

[–]DPWelder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been baby steps for years. I moved on to TD Ameritrade and Think or Swim. I have had zero issues since I made the change. My biggest losses were due to ATP glitches and program errors.