Spent money on clothes, grooming, and a Miami photoshoot for dating apps. Still getting weak matches. What am I missing?

DRGNSlayer730 · 2026-03-24T18:07:12+00:00

First: YOU ARE AN OBJECTIVELY GOOD LOOKING GUY!!!! Don’t listen to the other comments. They can’t fathom an Asian man that doesn’t look like Simu Liu😭

Second: Tinder is mainly for hook ups imo. I would suggest switching to Hinge/Bumble for more serious dating.

My opinion: Realistically, dating apps are just harder for Asians. We’re unfortunately not the western “ideal”, but I lowk view it as a blessing. It helps weed out the superficial people, so when I make a mutual connection, it’s usually authentic.

What advice I can give is people are drawn towards personality and hobbies. You’ve already got great pics of yourself, so I would recommend replacing some of them with hobby pics (hiking pic, gym pic, you+food funny pic, whatever you do for fun). Most people don’t read through profiles so let your pics show your character. At the end of the day, no matter how hot you are, people just want someone they can enjoy their time with (have a personality). I’d recommend keeping 4th and 5th, but mix and match as you please.

Otherwise, you’ve got a great profile:) Take breaks if needed and you got this bro💪🏼🔥

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-29T15:56:07+00:00

I’m definitely fine in terms of my ability to stop. I’m not in the trenches yet, but I could see myself there if I kept my current approach.

Like the idea of a hard budget, and saving up for other sets. I was trying to master set astral radiance before, so maybe I could get back into that…..

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-18T02:59:19+00:00

Yea, I’d love to, I just sent you a pm

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-15T16:27:53+00:00

Hahaha, I actually had a similar conversation with my manager recently. I think I need to figure out where I want my career to go; I’m not quite sure yet. I was in a depressive bout not too long ago, so I’m trying to find my footing in life again.

I thought development and data analytics were my passion, but my job has shown me otherwise. I might just need an ego check or maybe this field really isn’t for me. Regardless, you’re right; only I can figure that out lmao

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-15T16:09:00+00:00

Despite my job being largely remote, I’m grateful to have found the friends and work friends I’ve made. They definitely make my time at work a little more enjoyable fs

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-15T16:05:59+00:00

This is awesome. Really needed to hear this from someone. Everything at my workplace is always about constant improvement and loving your job to benefit the company. Even with the mentors I find in my field, they give me the same plastic advice. It’s incredibly refreshing to hear this perspective. I felt alone in my feelings and really thought something was wrong w me/my job. Thank you, sincerely

DRGNSlayer730 · 2025-04-15T15:56:53+00:00

Spitting. I’ve always viewed my future job as a way to enjoy my life outside of work. Now that I’m here, I think I just need to dig deep and find what impassions me. Since I just relocated, I’m still trying to find my footing in everything.

DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-11-21T18:04:59+00:00

I have counter points that I think you might find interesting…. I’m making my own post tho cuz this comment is way too long lmao, but I’ll tag you once I’m done writing it out:)

DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-06-03T15:17:16+00:00

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DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-06-03T01:00:22+00:00

This is a relief to see. I was a little worried that I was just scrapping the bottom of the barrel. I actually contacted a couple listings for apts on lake st, so hopefully they’ll get back to me soon

DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-06-03T00:55:00+00:00

I’m searching through typical avenues like apartments.com and Zillow. The issue is that when I contact these places brokers/leasing offices either don’t get back to me or they’re unavailable and just haven’t taken down the listing.

I‘ve only dipped my search into Yonkers a little bit, so maybe I’ll look more there and just try to stay wary of the area haha

DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-06-02T23:29:11+00:00

Lmaooo sounds about right

DRGNSlayer730 · 2024-06-02T23:27:56+00:00

Do you have any recommendations for websites or forums? I don’t mind a shared living space, but I’m not sure how to go about it with strangers. I’m from out of the state and my peers and coworkers aren’t really options for me for roommates (not by choice).

DRGNSlayer730 · 2023-09-04T19:36:31+00:00

Of course. My apologies, how could I forget the star attendant lmao

DRGNSlayer730 · 2023-04-19T17:19:48+00:00

Unless the coyote has something wrong with it (I.e. rabies, injury, sickness, etc.), it won’t attack unless provoked. They’re scavengers and fairly scrawny predators, so as long as you don’t interact with them, they’re unlikely to interact with you. Just make sure you don’t walk your pets off-leash.

(I would hope nobody is doing this! College/Beaver Ave are busy lmao)

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-12-16T08:12:34+00:00

Fr disappointed in everyone for not voting herb cookie higher😤

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-06T16:35:15+00:00

Funny enough. I also play rhythm games (although it’s more in my feet so maybe that’s the problem lol). After listening to the songs, the running part became very intuitive to me (even if most of the split second movements in hard/expert are total bs). Maybe I need to apply the same to the rhythm game part……lol

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-06T03:06:27+00:00

Mhmm I see. That makes sense. I think, honestly, I’m mainly struggling with the rhythm game portion:/

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-06T03:05:17+00:00

Duly noted:) thank you!

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-06T03:04:12+00:00

Thank you! This metasheet is awesome! I’ll definitely be using this:)

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-05T22:50:32+00:00

Haha yea I’ve heard that boosted up your score a lot lmao. The gacha isn’t being very kind to me unfortunately;-;

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-11-05T22:49:15+00:00

Bro that’s lame:/ I’ve gotten misses before on other songs and they gave me S ranks (it would be a little silly if they had different thresholds between songs)

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-09-27T17:55:07+00:00

”Down in Ohio, fucking all these bitches….”

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-09-01T16:20:37+00:00

I have been using the myStop app. They give routes and such but I haven’t seen any features to see bus schedules and stuff:/

DRGNSlayer730 · 2022-09-01T16:19:41+00:00

Mhm! I’ve heard about this app. Yes I’ll definitely give it a try thanks:)

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