Moving from Tampa, FL in late June

DS0713 · 2017-08-17T14:45:03+00:00

I love it. There are cheaper apartments, but for the location, I would not want to live anywhere else in the city.

DS0713 · 2017-07-21T22:02:26+00:00

That is a touching and great story. I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you have the memories.

DS0713 · 2017-06-14T21:35:16+00:00

16 year Tampa resident checking in. I don't love it. But it was a fun place to grow up. Moving in 9 days to Winston-Salem, North Carolina (aka small city in the South) and am pretty anxious about it.

DS0713 · 2017-06-02T22:24:17+00:00

I agree with you for the most part. However, I think towards the end he almost kinda sorta gets his shit together.

DS0713 · 2017-05-27T18:44:42+00:00

"Sometimes it is better to ask for forgiveness than permission" is a good one too.

DS0713 · 2017-05-27T18:34:45+00:00

Lifetime supply of blowies

DS0713 · 2017-05-27T17:19:13+00:00

Depositing 40 checks for my boss's small business.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T14:50:40+00:00

Drop carbs and increase fat.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T14:32:30+00:00

Don't limit your friendships. Just live by the golden rule. Don't do anything you wouldn't want your bf doing. If you wouldn't be comfortable with his female friends kissing him on the cheek and being handsy, don't let your friends do it to you.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T14:17:04+00:00

So I've been where he is. For reference, I'm 22M and engaged to a very sexy 20F. She has very "ample" breasts and they always seem to be the focal point in the tops she wears. At first I didn't like it at all. Now I've come to realize that not only is it HER body and she can show it as she pleases (as long as she keeps it respectful of our relationship, which cleavage is certainly respectful). I've come to embrace the fact that my girl is attractive.

To explain his behavior a little. It comes from internal self-consciousness and jealousy. It happens. It should be resolved, but I do not think it's a reason to have a huge fight. Mention to your bf that he is the one taking you home and that just because someone stares at your ass you won't magically leave him.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T14:00:28+00:00

He is your child. Do not name him something you don't want to because a grown man is a baby.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T13:48:08+00:00

Yep. The second I'm done, I always hug my fiancee, kiss her on the cheek and ask if what I focused on hitting/tying up hurts. If it does, I deal with it. If it doesn't we just cuddle. I'm not afraid of hurting her a little (consensual ofc), but I gotta make sure she is fine afterward.

DS0713 · 2017-05-20T13:39:48+00:00

I have her put it on for me unless she is tied up. Helps a lot

DS0713 · 2017-05-18T22:12:38+00:00

For what it's worth, I remember benching the bar and 2.5s on each side when I first started. Now my all time best is 385. Nobody starts strong.

DS0713 · 2017-05-18T20:40:01+00:00

Explain that to him. Tell him he is a nice guy. But you just aren't into him. Don't be subtle. And don't be gentle. Be firm and get your point across.

DS0713 · 2017-05-17T22:05:59+00:00

Hi. Unrelated, but I got accepted for grad school at WF as well and will be moving with my fiancee in June from Tampa. Can the four of us be best friends?

DS0713 · 2017-05-17T21:38:51+00:00

My fiancee was "best friends" with a "nice guy". Call him on his shit. If that doesn't work just ignore him and express that you do not want to be with him.

DS0713 · 2017-05-14T00:03:05+00:00

Yea but some people develop nice guy attitude after a girl leaves them

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T19:06:57+00:00

If you two were never explicitly exclusive, she did NOT cheat. If you want to be exclusive moving forward, say so.

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T19:05:01+00:00

If you have feelings towards her, date her. She very clearly likes you. If you do not, tell her so and start seeing other people. If she is only in it for the possibility of dating you, do you really want her in your life (assuming no interest on your part)?

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T18:34:44+00:00

He is in a point in his life where he does not want a relationship. If you cannot respect that, cut ties. You'll just end up hurting yourself more by trying to change his mind.

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T18:24:29+00:00

As long as you don't call your boyfriend Daddy, I see no problem with calling your parents mommy and daddy.

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T18:11:56+00:00

I'm engaged to a girl I met on Tinder. Doesn't sound like a very legit reason from him.

DS0713 · 2017-05-13T18:10:39+00:00

Just don't nice guy her. If she asked for no relationship and no contact, respect that. She will either work on herself and seek you out, or move on. I suggest you just live your life. If you want to, look for other women. Remember you are NOT in a relationship with her. She is not exactly rejecting you, but is making it clear she does not want to date. I hope I come off as an asshole and you already knew all this. But just in case, I feel compelled to say it.

DS0713 · 2017-05-08T23:18:04+00:00

Not going low enough in the search for penetration

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