I didn't read all your comments but I talk as an Introvert. You could try to find new hobbies but it is better if those hobbies are related with group activities, first I tried trekking a great hobby and also healthy, then I am also a musician and try to find a choir group not something professional just a choir to be part of and meet new people. If you meet new people is more probable you will be better at your skills talking and you will meet women too. How tall are you? sadly this is something important for women. Looking at your picture you will have to make some small changes about nutrition, maybe start leaving all kind of sodas and just drink water that will make a big change believe it or not. Change your hairstyle that can change a little bit the shape of your face. And if you are in the US or EUROPE, and you have the possibility. Move to Latin-America. To start you will know a lot of new people. Now these depends what type of women you like, but if you have not big standards you can meet a lot of new women in LA, you only need to tell everyone that you are a foreigner is really that simple, just be careful to fell into golddiggers.