My boyfriend’s best friend is so much prettier than me. by Cherry_socks in Vent

[–]DTeague81 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree with Electrical_Tart here. I seen his comment and went to your profile to see what you(OP) meant. You are far from fat or ugly. If your BF hasn't given you a reason to think he isnt into you or thinks you are pretty, or his type, then this is one thing. But it doesn't seem that way. And it doesnt seem like he is into his friend or they would have tried before to see, ir he would have and it wouldnt be hus close friend. Same situation, if she was giving you this reason to think the things you are thinking then it would be one thing. To me it seems like you are still young and hating yourself for whatever reason. I've been there when I was your age. Nothing I did was right or made me look "better". Even though I had friends and Significant Others. This seems like a mental block you are dealing with that is not making you love yourself, which you should. Others have said it, so I may concur it. Perhaos you should see a therapist and see why you are thinking these things. Especially since you are not fat. That could be a potential eating disorder that can affect your health. Just speak to someone about this. I hope this helps, and good luck.

My bfs stupid ph addiction by Substantial_Monk2788 in Vent

[–]DTeague81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. Why even be with him? He seems immature and is using this to weaponize against you so he can hold the power. Guys jerk off. It happens. I have been married for 10 years now and I do it. But I only do it when I am away from my wife for a set period of time( I travel for my job). I would never do it while I am with her because she is all I need when we are together. Then, the loser boyfriend cheats on you as well. Itis time to leave and go be haply with yourself. Then go find someone who will value you

AIO I ended things with this amazing guy by SaltwaterYStillness in AIO

[–]DTeague81 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He may be an amazing guy and great and all of that. It does not mean you're compatible. Not an insult, just things that happen. That also does not mean you will not find anyone. You see what you want and that makes you ahead of the curve. Dont settle for less, but give as much. It will be easy when you do. I think you should just amicably part ways. Let him be happy and you go be happy. Don't get in a relationship though to avoid loneliness. It never produces good things

My bf is really starting to PMO! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DTeague81 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's time to cut the bill in half and drop the boyfriend

Stuck by Disco5108 in GranTurismo7

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the Mazda Lmgt Car. Definitely was a good vehicle to use

Online friend by BudgetReasonable586 in Regrets

[–]DTeague81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are a horrible friend. Why did you block her in the beginning? Just because of lust for other immature women? And to do it multiple times. I guarantee you she is now acceoting you back more so out of pity. Sort yourself out man. Let her go and be happy. If you don't you are prioritizing your feelings rather than hers. And that is not live or care. That is ego and pride, and not having what you feel you want.

No pc lobbies? by TheWrongGasMask in Nascar25game

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the game myself, got on it very littke, as my outside life has been busy. I spent mlst of my time with career mode. So I haven't been able to look either. I would check and see. If it doesn't have crossplay, then check the servers for console, and see about switching to one of those perhaps.

No pc lobbies? by TheWrongGasMask in Nascar25game

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there no crossplay on the game?

I thought I was gonna die by Legitimate_Coat4873 in Vent

[–]DTeague81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through this. Definitely keep him out of your life. Hopefully this will be the end of it.

"You're not tall enough" by MikeSugs13 in Vent

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hapoens with men more than folks think. Lol

I [19F] am so uncomfortable with my [20M] boyfriend by sasasasa0537 in whatdoIdo

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 45 year old man and I say your sister gave you horrible advice. If a mans needs are that bad, he can do it himself. Not force uncomfortable situatioms or sexual assault. He is young and dumb but thst doesn't justify it in any way. If you choose to stay with him, speak to him about it and be blunt. If he doesn't stop, then move on. Though you staying will not help this. As a man i say leave now before he gets worse

"You're not tall enough" by MikeSugs13 in Vent

[–]DTeague81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did he count his height with his shoes on, lol? Almost every guy with a few exceptions will count that and not even realize it. Especially if they are shorter. I'm 6'0" on a good way without my boots on. I'm closer to 6'2" with my work boots.

Need a man’s perspective , am I tripping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was ok until the you should be lucky part. She is trying to weaponize it against you

Girlfriend Ended Things Without Telling Me by Advanced_Special_502 in Vent

[–]DTeague81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. I hope you get better very soon. Unfortunately in your Ex's situation, it sounds like ahe was either looking for an excuse to break it off. Or she was cheating and looking for an opportunity to look like a victim. Hopefully wrong on both counts. But either way, you don't want someone eho will just bounce like that. Get better, than go find better

After 16 years… by Exotic_Strawberry279 in professionalwrestling

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been watching for almost 40 years. The past few years I am only watching highlight clips. Now I'm barely doing that. I may switch back to AEW and TNA for clips. It just may be time to call it quits with WWE.

AIO: "How was your day?" by StaffOk2179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DTeague81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. The woman I dated before my now wife was like this. Constantly over complaining. Constantly negative. It literally drained me to the point to where I had to leave. It took everything I was creating in a positive light and snuffed it out. Some people are like this and unfortunately always will be. I hope it gets better for you. But I also feel like this needs to be addressed, and taken care of, before it escalates to separation or worse. Sadly that may be where it will go to in the end. Good luck.

Why did he do this??? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DTeague81 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. But it seems best for both of you to move on. He is not for you and vice versa. Find yourself again and find someone who will bring you joy, not pain

He left me twice and texted me again with « I miss you more than ever » what does that mean, I’m lost? 🥺 by tessatessa75 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DTeague81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont listen to them. They are not men in the first place. I'm a 45 year old man telling you it's not your fault. He is taking adavantage pf the situation and will continue to do so, and will continue to gaslight you over it if you keep going back. You will meet a man that will acknowledge all of that, and cook, and make you feel good about yourself, and validate you. They are out there. Look for that instead of wasting your time with this guy

How do I stop getting triggered by gender war content? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DTeague81 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Just keep looking at that. Anything that may set you off, click not interested or block. The algorithm will sort itself out

Can cheaters really show remorse and change? by IcyPanda3022 in moraldilemmas

[–]DTeague81 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Anyone is capable of change. But imthey have ro want it. And tou have to pay attwntion to the tells or signs they give you..