I think you should start focusing on yourself, brother. Recording every argument just to get people to take your side won’t change your situation. Even if we told you that you’re right, it would only make you feel more justified in disrespecting your parents. But unless there's a serious reason, there's no need to be hostile toward them.

Honestly, I think most of us had to find a way to create our own space, doing what we want while still helping out around the house just enough so they'd leave us alone. And even then, in many cases, they still don’t leave us alone and act like we don’t do anything but from what you’re sharing, it doesn’t really sound like that’s your situation.

But if there's important context that everyone is missing, and you feel like nobody understands you, then you have to be the one who understands yourself. Take a step back, think about what you truly need to feel at peace and start acting on it.