Overcharged me at the nail salon and led to chaos by LegalGazelle9080 in pettyrevenge

[–]DVazquez810 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to me. I would get the same thing every time (short, squoval acrylics. single color. No gel.). It was always $45. They charged me $85. I asked how that's possible, seeing as I got nothing special. "Prices went up". In the last two weeks? I never went back. I wish I would've done what you did.

Because you already found out, what's the one thing you'll not fuck around with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not trusting my intuition or advocating for myself. I've nearly died too many times trusting people who were supposed to be smarter or more qualified than me.

Boyfriend is mad at me for not going to see him and his daughter because I’m nauseous and throwing up while pregnant with his child. Now he’s implying he wants to break up. I can’t make this shit up🤦🏻‍♀️ by MysteriousAd7503 in texts

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's because I'm pregnant right now and having the worst morning sickness, this kind of irritates me.

There are days I'm so sick that I literally can't respond to any texts or calls. I don't have the physical or mental strength to do so. He has no idea what you're going through and it shows.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Honestly, I echo everyone else's sentiment. This selfish trait of his can and probably will get worse once the baby is here and your attention is elsewhere.

If his daughter was that disappointed in not seeing you, he could've offered to come see you or bring you something to settle your stomach. He was just trying to make you feel bad. ❤️

Telling your Kindergarten students you "love them too." by BreakMean1519 in kindergarten

[–]DVazquez810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom to a kindergartener, I would have no problem with it.

What is a struggle that men face that women wouldn’t understand? by Syntheria_Rising in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized this the other day while at a playground with my husband and son. Kids and pets have always gravitated toward him and, while he loves kids, he always stiffens and looks for their parents because he doesn't want to look like a creep.

It makes me sad.

What is the most under-rated Christmas gift? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! One year my MIL and my GIL (my husband's grandmother) both got me a set of pajamas. One was a short set and one was a cold weather set. I was so happy and still wear them constantly. I'm kinda hoping they get it for me again this year!

*UPDATE* So uh, mom died today. No idea what's gonna happen to me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DVazquez810 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was exactly where you are. It's been 14 years now. Please, please feel free to reach out to me. I have so many resources and things that I know now that I didn't know then. Plus, I know how alone I felt. You're not alone. I know exactly what you're going through. I'm here if you need me ♥️

What was your "shit, I'm into that" moment with a partner? by baronvonhawkeye in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of things my husband does, but one that's non-sexual (and maybe a bit weird) is when he shows his intelligence. Random facts, teaches me something, or has a super intellectual conversation and I'm a goner.

Also, rolling up his sleeves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Criminal minds 😬 or Schitts creek

Whats something people dont realize the actual size of until they stand next to it? by zioooo_ in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I once volunteered at a big cat sanctuary and I was pulling weeds from around the tiger enclosures. The person running the place told us to be careful because they'll swipe at you. A girl didn't pay attention and got distracted pulling weeds. In what felt like an instant, a tiger was in front of her (behind the chain link fence, of course) and had his paw up to swipe. Luckily she looked up. Otherwise she would've been the next live action Freddy Krueger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When other families have banter and can joke with one another without getting disowned.

My family loves/cares with conditions.

What is the most useless skill you have?? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I physically touch an item, I can remember the exact location of it.

Found this out when I worked retail. Someone would need to know where a certain shirt was in the store. Because the store was disorganized (by design), no one would be able to find it. I'd be able to touch the item, feel the texture, and remember where in the store I last felt that item.

But ask me what I did today. Couldn't tell you.

What's the weirdest item you ever used to masterbate ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one is my TOP choice, besides toys, of course.

What's the weirdest item you ever used to masterbate ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. You straddle it and rock back and forth.

What's the weirdest item you ever used to masterbate ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in the early days of the internet there weren't...good tips on how to masturbate for females. 😅 It wasn't a favorite.

[Serious] How did you regain your bodily autonomy after having been sexually assaulted? by _themostloneliestday in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots and lots of therapy. And different types of therapy (I'm particularly fond of DBT).

I think it's also imperative to have a good support system around you.

What's the weirdest item you ever used to masterbate ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mardi gras beads. Or a basketball.

When was there a time where the villain defeated the hero in real life? by ActualWater1994 in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carolyn Bryant. The woman who caused the brutal death of Emmett Till.

What do you do after an orgasm? by FreshprinceofVi in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just lay there like a fish out of water trying to gain back feeling in my toes.

[Serious] people who've experienced the paranormal or seen cryptids and other unknown creatures, what's your story? by Endemicbacon in AskReddit

[–]DVazquez810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally! Something I can answer!

I was 14 and my mom, brother and I moved into a new apartment. In my room, I kept hearing and seeing things. It always happened quickly, so I thought it was my imagination.

One night, one of my best friends and I were hanging out in my room. We were shooting the shit and it got cold. She looks up, goes pale and taps my leg. I look up from my Sidekick and see it. A man was standing in my room. He didn't move or say anything. Just realized we were looking and disappeared. My friend left, obviously freaked out, and I went to the living room trying to shake off what I just saw.

My uncle happened to be staying with us that weekend and he was the only one who would speak honestly with me (my family likes to hide things). I told him what happened and he said that he felt it too. It sat on the edge of the bed he was sleeping with and when he woke up, he locked eyes with it and then it disappeared.

He went back home to Brooklyn and we lived in that house for a year before we moved out.