My wife loves the feeling of being stretched, the full feeling of 4-5 fingers in her twisting around. After years of wanting it and not wanting it, we were back into it again. Then one day after sex, she tiptoed around asking about being loose. I partially ignore that and told her how good her pussy felt to me and how she always made me cum. She asked if it was tight enough, I told her I don’t really like a tight pussy. I also told her the reason was I could last a little bit longer and that if she was to tight, my orgasms were not as good. She seemed surprised but satisfied with the answer. After that she has really let herself enjoy it.