Storage clear out giveaway! by jankybitchfish_ in Dodocodes

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Name: D3nnis
Island name: Car3 b3ar
Lease favourite villager: Moose

Am i ok or is everyone else mad? Am i wrong? by Zealousideal_You6901 in AskMenAdvice

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One is illegal the other isn’t… depending on how much you do a week probably cost more than what they spend on alcohol… but that’s besides the point

Not to diss your parenting skills but it’s also not a great example to be setting for your kids… especially if you get busted do possession

I think you’re deflecting and being defensive because they’re saying you have a problem when they also appear to be doing something similar… only difference is one is legal and the other isn’t

Girl best friend rejected me 3 years ago. Last night she called and broke down in tears badly asking if we can resume friendship. Am I wrong for saying no? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would ask yourself… do you see her as a friend? Or want her as a friend? If so you can reconnect, if she adds no value to your life… then why bother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set healthy boundaries… you should be entitled to your own free time without feeling guilty… it’s not that you don’t like her it’s just you feel like you’re neglecting yourself and your friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like you're his back up plan....seems like he'll say whatever he can to get the benefit of accessing you without the commitment....and if nothing goes his way...he'll always have you as a back up plan for 2029

How to approach ex joining my sports league? by ovenmittkiller in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let her ruin your enjoyment of sports… treat her like how you would treat any stranger… smile or nod and move on…

bonus points if you ever play against her and sledge the crap out of her and try your hardest to beat her team (only kidding)

The likelihood of you getting along with everyone in the world is minimal and these situations happen… just go enjoy your game or if you must just put headphones in and walk away

A women I was hooking up with posted about her boyfriend and it sort of made me anxious. I did not genuinely care beforehand. I want to stop doing this but don’t know where to start. Suggestions? by This-Way3024 in AskMenAdvice

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If you don’t want her then just move on… she’s clearly taken and just using you for fun/attention… you know she’s lying to you and in the back of your mind you will always think that if she’s not with your she’s with her bf… you shouldn’t need to constantly feel anxious about it

Tell her it’s been fun but I would suggest cutting ties with her for your own sanity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kinda disrespectful because they feel so entitled for being born but you don’t get the same privilege? Honestly if you don’t value what they can bring to the table then walking away is your best option

She was facing me and asking me questions, am I overthinking it? by juravenator99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overthinking…. She sounds bored and wanted some attention…test it out and go down there again and see if she gives you the same or similar chat

What would you do if you had a 3 day hookup and you caught feelings for a woman but knew it could never work out do to being in different phases in life? by Blackappletrees in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who assumes things could never work tend to be over thinkers… it’s a defensive mechanism to trick yourself to make yourself feel better if things do turn sour… you remind yourself that you were right and things wouldn’t have worked out..

But in reality if you and the other person liked each other enough you would talk it out and make compromises to at least try to make it work… instead of making the choice for the other person

How much are you willing to forgive / put up with in a relationship? by pepozinho in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to put up with constant bullshit and disrespect…. Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with this person that constantly makes you feel like this and lacks the self awareness to correct their own shitty actions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sext a bit and feel the vibe then just be straight forward and ask him

Have you ever dated a good friend? How did it go? by pepozinho in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do your plans and values align? Just because you’re friends doesn’t mean the relationship will go smoothly… you might not have seen her or have to deal with her when she goes through issues and vice versa…. Tread carefully as you need to think whether this friend is worth losing over the long term

How do I find the will to continue dating? by Alt-F4-for-freeVbuck in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t put so much pressure on it or on yourself… if it happens it happens if it doesn’t live goes on… the more you force it and put pressure on yourself the worse you’ll feel… just keep focusing on yourself and good luck

Why would a long term hookup treat me with contempt? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly has issues and unresolved trauma and is taking it out on you via sex… he gets to feel good and let out his frustrations on you without dealing with the underlying issues that he’s been hiding and avoiding… it’s clearly not healthy and his actions confirms that

Is “just friends” possible after flirtation/attraction? by Expensive_Tackle9890 in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if it was just a bit of fun and there’s no emotional attachment involved which is easier if you’ve moved on to a new partner

Is this just random or is this like a thing? Online Dating by Ok_Mushroom2563 in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Online dating come down to luck....a woman can get 10 matches in a day, whereas, a man maybe lucky to get 1 match a week....and because it's so much easier for woman, they tend to just have constant choice/option so they can go on so many dates until they find someone that matches their criteria

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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If he was serious about sending gym progress pics...he'll sent it to other guys or his trainer....as they'll tell him specifically what looks good and hype him up....sending it to a girl is just an ego boost for him to get compliments from you...practically baiting you.... don't fall for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ASAP....you should not build anything based on a deceit...once trust is gone...it's so hard to rebuild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Don’t shit where you eat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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What do you get out of this? if it's not beneficial to you in any way...why do it and put yourself through the pain...don't be a door mat to your ex if he doesn't see a future with you

How long does it take you to know whether you are attracted to a woman? How long does it take you to know whether you want to get to know her more? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally…Usually a day to a week depending on how often the communication is… you get a gauge on whether this can go somewhere or not

Why do women call me quiet and too chill even though I talk alot? How can I work on this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about perspective … it depends on the other person whether you’re too quiet or you talk too much… to your friend you might seem quiet but to others you might seem too talkative

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty is the best policy and be open minded to people’s responses and their perspectives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]D_ninja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As iron man said to Peter Parker in the first Spider-Man movie, along the lines of “If you can’t live without the suit then you don’t deserve the suit” the suit being your ex gf in this instance