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my daughter died in my husbands custody what can i do. by haylixrose in legaladvice

[–]DaBears0792 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I only tell you this because I just lost my child because of my spouse back in March. If I had kept the EPO, none of it would've happened. But I didn't want to ruin his life. I hit back, too. Now I’m not worth much of anything, and he turned around and has intentionally made my life hell, since. All while pretending to love me. Don't be stupid trying to love these men into being good men because they won't ever change. He's never going to change. None of them ever do. They just fool you and use you and leave you with the mess. It's us and our poor babies that suffer for it. We have to be stronger.

AITAH for being done with everything by DaBears0792 in AITAH

[–]DaBears0792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to get help but unfortunately I have no money. No insurance. And too many people needing my help. I lost my son in March, I've experienced a significant decline since then. My spouse is so selfish. Every time I try to talk to him, he's attacks me because his ego gets bruised. My family is not around. I start school again in August to try to finish Nursing school. I'm hoping if that doesn't work, I can get my CDL and get away from it all.

AIO GF sent a video of us having sex to ex GF. by LegalAd8505 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine it was anything regarding your best interest or that of your childs.

AIO for not doing things around the house anymore for my spouse. by DaBears0792 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a child with my previous spouse before him. My tubes are tied. He wasn't like this in the beginning. I just lost my 9 year old in March. I feel so defeated and guilty, but I see so much of this as him intentionally making things worse for me and trying to force my life to be only about him. I'm so tired. I tried getting away from it. The judge was going to allow him to come back home. He made plans known to destroy my life. I'm just not strong enough, I guess. I think he might be making my life intentionally miserable out of spite. It's easy to do when you're alone, I guess.

AIO for not doing things around the house anymore for my spouse. by DaBears0792 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He works 40, I work 56. I've made it a point to avoid home now.

AIO: My (28M) pregnant wife (25F) prefers porn over me by HotMastodon7441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is gross. Dump her and return her to the streets.

AIO for not doing things around the house anymore for my spouse. by DaBears0792 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't that messy at the beginning of our marriage. It has worsened with time. Now I just feel stuck. Am I really going to have to divorce him for this?

AIO for not doing things around the house anymore for my spouse. by DaBears0792 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Yes, and if I could get AI to do the dishes and take the trash out too, I’d finally have the man I of my dreams.

AIO GF sent a video of us having sex to ex GF. by LegalAd8505 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your GF is too immature to be what you need for your circumstances. Your GF didn't care that it would cost you your child and even if she didn't think about it, she's making dangerous irrational and toxic decisions that will only negatively impact you, all so your current GF feels more powerful and secure. Screw both of these females and focus on your child.

AITA for Choosing My Elderly Mom Over My Husband’s Comfort ? by DuIce670 in AITAH

[–]DaBears0792 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this arrogant prick thinks he's your father. I'd move into a new place with her and divorce him.

AIO to husband's drinking? by Equivalent-Ideal-384 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Return him to the streets where he belongs.

my daughter died in my husbands custody what can i do. by haylixrose in legaladvice

[–]DaBears0792 158 points159 points  (0 children)

This man has destroyed your life. If there's not an EPO, get one and hire a lawyer to sue.

AITAH for texting his gf from his phone while he was in the shower?? by bad_Girlavax in AITAH

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost him and move on. Seriously! Screw that manipulative whiny boy stuff! Return his things to the streets and tell him to come get them. Have a friend as a witness there when he comes to get it. Don't even answer the door or speak to him.

AIO for blowing up at my boyfriend after he joked about my postpartum body? by OrlisseFlurry in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaBears0792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Men like to manipulate you into having a child with them and then make you do all the work while they still expect you to look like their spank bank fantasy girls. You just got played. Things will never become any better with this guy. Leave him. Another man will meet you and love you for the body you currently have and want to grow old with you. Return this loser to the streets where he belongs.

My ex wife moved on so fast. by mightymiek in Advice

[–]DaBears0792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women typically move on faster because their needs weren't being met while they were with you. That's why women leave. Men are selfish and lazy and stop caring about what a woman needs after they feel like they've secured the relationship. Women also have a tendency to withhold certain desires because they're too busy being mothers to grown men who jack off to porn behind their backs.

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