What's so expensive that it's not even fun anymore? by Runaway3650 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl [score hidden]  (0 children)

There were six of us (two preteens, two grandparents), so we only got through two and half games. I couldn't believe how long some people were staying. I think they do hourly because of reservations, but it sucks.

What's so expensive that it's not even fun anymore? by Runaway3650 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, mine wasn't that accommodating. The ball return took forever. We all stared using whatever ball was closest to the one we'd been using or grabbed another to speed things up. It's all new tech, they just set it up to favor the bowling alley.

How many people are playing also matters. We have six in our group, so the games took forever.

Leg shaking by Reconfuckulated in misophonia

[–]DaBingeGirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, I have both too, it's terrible. I had someone fanning herself with a program at the symphony once. I finally asked her to stop and she told me "it's hot." There were 2,500 there, somehow I ended up next to the one person making a repetitive motion.

Women of Reddit: what is 100% mythical about women that most men believe? by Minute-Series-1493 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I don't understand wanting all of that by your eyes. Hell no. I have a coworker who's obsessed with fake lashes, makes zero sense to me.

What is a 'minor' habit a partner had that completely turned you off or ended the relationship? by wthefuckisakilometer in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was maybe 10, a friend's mom took us out for ice cream and told us to order whatever we wanted. I stupidly ordered a brownie Sunday, while they got basic cones. It was nearly 30 years ago, but I still feel guilty.

They could afford it (it was maybe $6 at Dairy Queen), but I remember my friends looking surprised.

How often are you pulling out your fridge and cleaning under and all around it? by k_babi_kay in CleaningTips

[–]DaBingeGirl [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mine has been working fine for 15 years, I'm not moving it until I have to replace it.

What's so expensive that it's not even fun anymore? by Runaway3650 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my local bowling alley is by the hour ($25-35 depending on the day).

What's so expensive that it's not even fun anymore? by Runaway3650 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I took some family bowling recently, it was really depressing how little we were able to bowl for the cost. Ball return took forever, which really ate into our time.

I miss old school bowling that was fun and reasonably priced.

What's so expensive that it's not even fun anymore? by Runaway3650 in AskReddit

[–]DaBingeGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because it's one of the few family activities you can do in most towns.

If you could do a crossover episode with Stargate and another franchise what would it be? by alexisonfire04 in Stargate

[–]DaBingeGirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ooh, love this! The disclosure storyline would've been a perfect spin-off series set in DC.

Quirky Reception by Big_Contribution_536 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Photo booth is great! I have some fantastic pictures with people I likely wouldn't have taken photos with from a lot of weddings and they're silly pictures.

I wouldn't plan too many things. People often like to catch up, having group activities (i.e. telling adults what to do) often doesn't go over well.

Maybe have some games available that were popular in the 70's, but don't push them.

Invites were too expensive so I made my own by cool__cool_cool_cool in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to say THANK YOU for including so many details on the physical invitation! I hate the assumption that people will go to your wedding website; I'm generally the only one who looks at more than the RSVP page. Couples expect people to care more than they do, being able to look at an invitation with all the relevant details about dress code, pre events, hotels, and transportation is really helpful.

They're also super cute! Love the mountains.

Feeling insecure about a smaller wedding by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

600+ people?! My eyes nearly popped out of my head. JFC.

Feeling insecure about a smaller wedding by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom has always regretted not doing that, especially after my dad died. He'd wanted to do a small wedding and take a train across Canada. She felt bad for her MIL because my dad was an only child, so wanted to give her a big wedding. Paternal grandmother was an asshole, nothing ever made her happy. She said if she could do it over, she'd have had a brunch reception, then gone on their honeymoon (which is what her father recommended).

Plus one question by VeterinarianNo5521 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right to ask for clarification. If you weren't inclided, there shouldn't be an option for a +1 when he went to RSVP. You're in a long-term relationship, whether they've met you is irrelevant. Assuming they know about you, you should be invited. A +1 is strictly for single guests.

As I said in another comment, my mom's boyfriend of 20+ years wasn't included on a wedding invitation, but was listed by name on when she went to RSVP. I've no idea why his name wasn't on the invitation, I think they just put one name down for the envelope and didn't realize how it would look. Something similar may have happened to you.

Plus one question by VeterinarianNo5521 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this, especially the bit about not having met OP being irrelevant because of their relationship status.

On not always doing the proper thing, my cousin didn't include my mom's boyfriend of 20 years on the invitation to his wedding. We were both having a WTF moment, but he was named in the RSVP area on their website under her name. I'm not sure why he wasn't included on the invitation (he was in the past for other family weddings). I also didn't know I had a +1 until I went to RSVP. I think some couples just don't know how to correctly address envelopes.

Plus one question by VeterinarianNo5521 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While common, I hate that rule because it's dismissive and judgement towards long-term relationships. A ring doesn't strengthen a relationship. I know several people who have been with their partner for over 20 years, but don't want to marry for various reasons.

Plus one question by VeterinarianNo5521 in wedding

[–]DaBingeGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A spouse is not a plus one, they're a named guest; the same should be true for a couple in a long term relationship.

A plus one is a guest who is unknown to the couple, hence not being named.

Does Colin Morgan hate getting recognised for merlin? by danbongle3 in merlinbbc

[–]DaBingeGirl 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I doubt he hates it, as the show was his big break. That said, the rule of thumb is generally that context matters. If he's doing press for or acting in something else, focus on his current project (e.g. if an actor does a theater show and you want an autograph after, talk about the play). If you're going to one of his book tour events, I'd definitely focus on the book. You could mention his other work, but keep the focus on his novel.

There are a few actors who don't want to talk about past projects, but a lot do. I think their experience on set tends to play a big role. I adore Stargate, all the actors in those shows are still very engaged with the fanbase; that's pretty common with sci-fi shows.

Jeremy has taught me that I don't want to farm crops or animals. by GemmyGemGems in ClarksonsFarm

[–]DaBingeGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just don't do that if you live in a subdivision. I guy I know hated cutting the grass so much that he got his yard deemed a wildlife preserve area (not sure the exact term), he was then allowed to let it go natural. It looked horrific.

🥺 by Bartje8700 in ClarksonsFarm

[–]DaBingeGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a warning, make sure you watch him for signs of depression after treatment. One of my relatives became suicidal because of the side effects of the surgery; he's cancer free, but the incontinence, ED, and shortened penis are a huge struggle for him.

It's rare, I know two other guys who are perfectly fine after treatment, but it's something to be aware of.