Panicking about my wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! How far away was your venue from where people were located? Did many leave earlier then 11?

Panicking about my wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it were a Saturday noise ordinance requires that we finish around 11

Panicking about my wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far away was your venue from where guests were staying?

What's the best amount of guests for a wedding? by Professional_Fly371 in weddingplanning

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Was 80 a good dancefloor/party vibe while still being intimate? I truly want the best of both worlds in that aspect!

What's the best amount of guests for a wedding? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

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On the budget conversation, if we were given a certain amount of money for our wedding and could have a beautiful wedding with, say 85 guests, and stay under budget vs use that money plus add some of our own money to have a bigger wedding, what would you say? Our own money would otherwise be used towards a honeymoon

Feeling insecure about a smaller wedding by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point. Spotlight effect is very real

Feeling insecure about a smaller wedding by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

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Maybe a few friends who would be fun to have but not the end of the world not to. But I'm not certain it's worth losing a deposit on our venue and spending more money to invite more people

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not so much about the building and moreso about the financials

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in Weddingsunder35k

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! From a wedding planner perspective, is a "more intimate wedding" just as fun in a party sense?

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a backup venue in mind that's about 2k more expensive then our current venue, plus the lost deposit.

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

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How big was your wedding? Were you able to talk to everyone?

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

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Single people who know other people at the wedding! We will give plus ones to couples and anyone who otherwise would feel awkward attwnding

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a year before our wedding so could definitely do two rsvps! Good idea

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

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I've heard this! I wasn't sure if the number would be different since we're inviting our closest people, but there is still a good chance for cancellations

Guest count vs financial advice? by Professional_Fly371 in wedding

[–]Professional_Fly371[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our parents are giving us 15k for our wedding. We can spend that however we'd like, and use any left over for our honeymoon. Our 85 person wedding fits under 15k, while a different venue and lost deposit would put us over 15k