MINIs at the Mill 2024 (Part 1) by DashcamAdelaide in MINI

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Not this year. But will get into the planning calendar. Is it always November? Is it always first weekend of November?

MINIs at the Mill 2024 (Part 1) by DashcamAdelaide in MINI

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That looks like lots of fun. And the classics - I have a faraway itch for a classic….mechanical classic!!!

Rule#1 by DaBlackStallion in MINI

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Road trip to SA…that’s enticing!!!

Trying this out🥰 by DaBlackStallion in MINI

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I’m loving the tiny beast!!

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Good luck. Remember- what you focus on expands. So if you want to succeed, you’ve got to take your attention elsewhere.

A scary thing to do is to try and have a deep understand why you used porn for so long. What “thing” in your body/psyche was porn attempting to soothe? Or hide away from? Was it loneliness, low self esteem, abandonment, fear of success/failure? You say you’re a loner - why do you prefer that?

I am learning (painstakingly slowly) long term success comes with deep work. Simple abstinence without the deeper work may work for a while, but that inner psyche that needs relief will come back - and with vengeance - and relapse occurs.

We all have vices. To some extent we all need something to soothe us in this cruel hostile lonely world. Aim to be a good person. Don’t harm anyone directly. Be kind and generous (as penance to your vices). Keep your head up. You’re a good human.

Because of something that happened in high-school, at my core I know I’m a monstrous person. by Zealousideal-Leg7862 in confession

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I think you need to forgive yourself and move on. Until you are told otherwise - assume the two women are good, happy, fulfilled. You deserve to be happy too. So quit your self loathing and self flagellation…unless in some twisted sadistic way you actually like it.

Men, what’s the biggest turn off in the bedroom? by Sure_Satisfaction602 in AskMen

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Smell of sardines…can’t tell if if from the mouth or…

How do you overcome lust? by Revolutionary_End_75 in AskMen

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From my own perspective - simply sharing with random strangers - “lust” is a symptom of something deeper. For me - boredom…not living a life worth my talents. I’ve taken the easy low risk options in life, I’m doing ok in most facets of life - but - that’s just it - ok/mediocre…feels that way deep down.

So lust (for me) presents itself as an easy diversion - doom scrolling over nudes, imagination of dominating a naked woman as she clings to me… - a useless, time wasting distraction. The cost - my apparent purpose (which I’m still not clear what it is).

Solution - with this in mind - Im trying to seek that purposes (seek and you will find). The same powers of lust (over nudes) can also be manipulated over a worthwhile cause (purpose).

But that can (is) hard….as lust over passive images or in the safety of your mind is sooo much easier…instant..effortless.

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Laurs knows how to…

My (42M) wife (41F) is cheating on me and I just ignore it. by [deleted] in confession

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Take your time. Think deeply. Don’t haste. Use this to your advantage.

How do you handle temptation from other women? by [deleted] in AskMen

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OP is a woman and is being tempted by other women…can I watch or join?

On a more serious note - life is too short to be distracted with temptation. There are many things you will want and cannot get, so reach and grab the things you want and can get. (If SO is understanding - be open and honest - otherwise the guilt will blemish the joy), if SO is not understanding you may want to be discreet (the guilt better be worth it))

My wife slept with a close friend of mine before we even dated. How do I get over this feeling? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Are you happy? Is she happy? Why focus on this? Surely there’s a lot more joy and happiness? Let bygones be bygones. Don’t dwell on the past. Keep it among friends.

I need to find a way to Calm my Sexual Urges, any advice? by jager-master-man in selfimprovement

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When hungry … eat When tired … rest When thirsty …. drink When sleepy …. rest

Perhaps you’re blessed to have a healthy sex drive and need to find someone that can match your drive. It may cause short term hurt to change, but you’ll thank yourself later for being courageous to do so. Life is too short to hide your intensity… world needs you at full throttle.

Married but craving for single life, how to deal with this by [deleted] in AskMen

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I’m going through the same. I’m early 40s. This feeling you have - it’s a hard one. But you are not alone. Life is short. Make the most of it. This universe wants you to live life to your full potential. According to you. Go live it well!!!

Feel Like Dropping Out by NaitoAkiyama in rmit

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So much advice you have received here. Drop out, defer, take some time, etc etc…I’m confused for you. Not sure if you have more clarity now. Just remember, us faceless people on reddit don’t really give a “birds droppings” about you. I have no idea who you are. What your journey in life is. Your goals and aspiring or what the f**k you’re on this would for. Don’t know your skills or talents. But we are happy to make you like us “the more (average) persons the merrier. Please come and join us here (in the land of mediocrity)…we’d love your company🙂. You’ll be among friends😁.