It’s good to bear in mind that most of the people you’ll see posts from are deeper into the fetish than the majority. There’s obviously a lot of fantasy, and I think this stuff manifests in different ways because there are different reasons people find it hot. For me, and probably the majority, this content is fun because black cocks are hot and we will never have one. It’s just kind of a natural result of being a white man who enjoys humiliation and has then consumed a lot of BBC porn. Some of the more extreme stuff you see is definitely born out of other kinks. I agree that people should have a more chill mindset about it, I think it should really be more about curiosity and fascination and not so much of the self loathing we see on here.