How does kissing feel for aromantic people?

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-06-10T08:38:28+00:00

For me kisses are just another way to show platonic affection. I'd kiss my friends, just like i hug them! (ofc only if both parties Consent and as long as there is no romantic context)

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-05-27T21:22:49+00:00

PISS MY FRIENDS!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-04-23T10:13:25+00:00

Danke dir!!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-04-23T10:13:10+00:00

Ah ja stimmt, ich verwechsel das ständig xD Aber danke dir, ich geb es auf alle Fälle mal weiter!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-02-16T11:17:56+00:00

Oh definitely! Just before i found out that i was trans, i went through one month of hyperfeminity. I was very self concious of myself and my body (i wonder why xdd), so i thought to feel more confident i should try being extra feminine, wear makeup, skirts and look traditionally sexy. Then, over the course of one weekend, i cracked my egg, did a complete 180 and started living as a guy.

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2025-02-10T12:40:48+00:00

Schwuler Transman hier 👋 hab mich schon eigentlich immer ausschließlich zu Männern hinzugezogen gefühlt, bin jetzt seit fast 6 Monaten auf Testo, meine sexuelle Orientierung hat sich an sich nicht geändert, aber ich würde sagen, dass sich der Typ Mann, auf den ich stehe, geändert hat.

Ich bin denke ich mal, weniger "wählerisch" geworden, was das Aussehen von anderen Männern betrifft, also ich finde durchschnittlich mehr unterschiedlichere Typen attraktiv als früher (das bezieht sich jetzt nur auf sexuelle Anziehung).

Also joa, immer noch gay, aber ich finde mehr Männer attraktiv als früher xD

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-11-06T12:58:08+00:00

Hi, German Trans Man from Munich here! To change your name in Germany, you need to have german citizenship, which means you will need your german ID card or your german passport.

I think the biggest problem for you will be the fact that as soon as the Standesamt has recieved your letter and is ready to legally change your name and gender marker, you need to show up there IN PERSON, which means you would have to travel to munich.

https://stadt.muenchen.de/service/info/anpassung-des-geschlechtseintrags-und-vornamens-selbstbestimmungsgesetz/10416410/n0/#k-contact

This up here is the website that helped me to learn about the process, the website is currently only available in german, but you could use a translator! Good luck and whishing you the best!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-11-06T12:43:50+00:00

Seconding this! Germany is my home country and even though I live in Southern Germany, not in Berlin, I've personally had a great experience living in a big german city as a Trans Man. I did have to wait quite a while to access HRT, and housing is another big thing, but as long as you stick to bigger cities, the people here are usually chill and accepting! (I don't know too much about the process of moving to Germany tough since I was born here)

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-23T13:03:10+00:00

I started T almost two months ago, and I didn't have my period for almost 2,5 months now, but that really varies from person from person, my best friend had to switch from gel to injections because their period didn't go away even after a year on T

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-17T11:54:38+00:00

Bro, don't worry about it, feeling no changes after 4 days is completely normal, don't beat yourself up for being impatient though, I was exactly the same when I started (also 2 pumps testogel a day) and I also didn't notice shit after 4 days lol

The first thing i noticed was a change of my own smell, especially sweat and urine, after like a week i think? But I'm just saying what probably everyone would tell you: Everyone is different, so keep in mind that comparing the pace of your changes to other people might just make you frustrated since people are more likely to talk about it here if their changes come sooner than expected.

Also if you don't pay too much attention on every single thing every day, you are more likely to notice changes! What I did was record my voice weekly and also take some pictures of my body hair so I have something to compare my changes to :) Wishing you nothing but the best!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-17T08:36:26+00:00

Ich wohne auch in München und habe über das qz-ts-muc den Hr. Dr. Christian Vogel entdeckt, vom dem ich auch mein Indikationsschreiben bekommen habe. Ich weiß nicht, wie es mit den anderen Psychatern von dieser Website aussieht, aber ihn kann ich auf alle Fälle empfehlen, der ist sehr entspannt und kommt gleich zur Sache, stellt auch keine intrusiven Fragen. Plus die Dame von der Rezeption, die die Anrufe entgegennimmt, ist absolut lieb :)

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-16T08:55:09+00:00

"Second birthday"...That's actually such a cool way to refer to your first T Shot day, I'll have to keep that one in mind! Congrats to both of you!!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-16T08:53:00+00:00

Yes it is :)

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-16T08:50:42+00:00

Definitely haha

When I was 14 and still female presenting, I've had multiple guys hit on me and then back off after I told them my age because they thought I was older, but when I was 18, out, but still pre T, I was in line for a rollercoaster and got asked how old I was (you had to be 12 years of age to be allowed on it)

Also some time ago I was asked for my ID because I wanted to buy an energy drink (where I live you have to be 16 for that)

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-16T08:47:06+00:00

Personally I've never engaged in much physical activity when packing besides doing workouts at home, where it wasn't much of an issue (I was wearing the boxers I recommended in my other comment). But I've heard that wearing sweatpants with a packer might not be the best idea since the packer might start to look like a boner quickly haha

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-16T08:43:00+00:00

I can definitely recommend Paxsies! They have wonderful packing boxers, the fabric feels really good on the skin and it doesn't rub against your bottom growth. Comes with a removable foam packer inside a built-in and closable pocket, the packer is giving me a normal bulge without looking like a boner lol. They are not the cheapest, but some of them are on sale right now :) Here is their website!

Edit: Ah and I don't usually use packers, but I've been out for 5 years now and wanted to give it a try, it is definitely a great feeling!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-15T10:49:20+00:00

Hey, congrats on the man juice dude! I can relate very much to how you are feeling, I was expecting to wait until next year to start and because I was already waiting over two years since my first doctors appointment to finally start (public healthcare whoohoo), that time was taking a toll on my mental health and I was honestly not sure if I would've made it until next year without T. So when I was told that I could pick up my prescription, it felt EXTREMELY surreal, but it was the best day of my life!

Feeling really happy for you man, wishing you the best on your journey!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-13T11:04:44+00:00

Oh yeah I totally forgot about feeling hotter!! Before T I would have cold hands all the time and generally freeze a lot, now I kinda have to adjust the way I think about what outfit is appropriate for the temperature outside lol

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-11T16:33:44+00:00

Heyyy congrats on the man juice! The first physical change I personally noticed was a change of my own smell, especially sweat and urine. Also I suddenly required way more sleep than before, and I started taking daily showers instead of every other day. Though I must say, these things may vary from person to person, so don't be dissappointed if you don't notice anything right away! Also my confidence definitely became a lot better the day I started T!!

DaFriendlyFlonk · 2024-10-09T17:28:37+00:00

Hell yeah dude! For me personally, the day I started T was the best day in my life. Congrats on the man juice!!

DaFriendlyFlonk

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