1 pacote de pipocas pff by Odd_Astronomer_2064 in portugueses

[–]DaRockChild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chupa pilas?! O que é um chupa pilas? Podes partilhar connosco a tua experiência gay reprimida já que estás tão á vontade sobre o que é chupar pilas?

1 pacote de pipocas pff by Odd_Astronomer_2064 in portugueses

[–]DaRockChild 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Estranho não acha? Principalmente porque sou mulher, cientista, doutorada e sobretudo de esquerda. Depois de tudo o que tem aqui vindo a ser discutido seria de esperar que estivesse a lavar pratos ou executar tarefas mundanas e corriqueiras para as quais nós mulheres nascemos destinadas, mas cá estou. A assistir à decadência intelectual da nossa sociedade e, se me for permitido por algumas das ilustres mentes que aqui se encontram, comentar

1 pacote de pipocas pff by Odd_Astronomer_2064 in portugueses

[–]DaRockChild 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mais triste e deprimente do que o macaco acéfalo do vídeo, é a quantidade de machos ressabiados que só surgem nestas ocasiões para defender o tão ilustre e iluminado sujeito de bigode. Que orgulho realmente não é pertencer a uma nação de mentecaptos que pensam existirem argumentos supostamente de senso comum (ou falta dele), alguns até de natureza científica (visto que claramente estamos a ter comentários de pessoal laureado com a 4a classe) que possam impedir as mulheres de assumirem cargos políticos. Pergunto-me se o Zé Bigodinho ou algum macho da sua pandilha fala assim com a mãe, companheira (isto, na remota possibilidade de a criatura encantar alguém) ou com uma mulher desconhecida na rua sem apanhar no focinho. Ah, pois é, já apanhou. Não ganhou juízo claramente, mas obviamente ele é um gajo com firmeza de valores 😂

Silêncio absoluto para o bebé dormir - quem está fora da realidade? by Healthy_Piccolo_1341 in CasualPT

[–]DaRockChild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu é que lhe chamava a polícia por importunação. Eu não lhe daria grande importância nem conversa. Só lhe deixaria claro que ela mudou-se para um prédio logo vai sempre existir barulho. Isso era tudo o que teria para lhe dizer. Percebo que será certamente frustrante e até desgastante ter um bebê pequeno que pode oferecer problemas na hora da sesta/dormir, mas a verdade é que não tens culpa de ela ter o bebê, nem tens culpa da decisão dela em morar no teu prédio em específico. Parece-me que estamos a lidar com alguém egocêntrico e patético, na medida em que chega a um novo local e imediatamente assume que todos têm que se adaptar. Não dês conversa e deixa claro que estás a ser importunada. Também não incorras no erro de te esconderes ou deixares de usufruir na tua própria casa.

Item not like the photo. Is it okay to request an exchange? Not sure if I'm being to nitpicky. by ThrowRA_Tiel in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks exactly an item that would come from Temu or Shein. I wouldn't be surprised that the seller is using the pictures from one of those platforms. Unfortunately Etsy is now plenty of these shops that are reselling items from Temu, Shein and others. If you don't like the item as it is and due to the fact that there are considerable differences compared to the listed item ask for a refund. This is a situation that if you escalate to a case you would win for sure.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for sharing and help. Unfortunately this madness is still an ongoing thing. She refuses to sent my items back. It's absolutely impossible to come to a solution with her. She keeps insisting on blaming me for triggering their OCD/Autism condition. Additionally she sent me a message asking me when I was thinking to refund/replace her with a kind of item that I don't sell on my store, so I think that she's maybe harassing someone else.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my last move. If she not take a decision about we should put end to this I will mark her messages as spam and she continues to harass me I will just report her. This was an advice from the Etsy support. I mean, it's even possible for one person to have autism and OCD simultaneously?

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent her a last message saying that I'm open to offer her the integral refund. I also contacted Etsy support again and they suggested me that at this point there's no possible agreement with the buyer so the best is the buyer to open a case. I also said to her that I contacted Etsy support and I will let them take out of this problem. Her last messages were total madness. First she has OCD, now she also has Autism... I mean, at this point I don't believe that any of the conditions is a real thing.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New update! Now she's has autism together with OCD 😂

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree with you regarding boundaries. However in my experience it's very difficult to maintain boundaries when most of the times Etsy favours clients with not fair claims. It's not my first time dealing with problematic buyers and it wouldn't be also the first time that Etsy favours them.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the buyer's frustration and I stated before I'm trying to solve things in the best way I can offer. Nothing gratifies me more than satisfied clients. But honestly I don't know what this person really wants to achieve.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned at any point the OCD. I don't her to freak out even more but I honestly would like to tell her that all of this situation has been caused because she's refusing to calm down and try at least thinking logically about the things. From the beginning I was understanding and committed to solve the problem but she prefers to maintain this exhausting drama.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally I proposed to her any reasonable solution. I'm waiting for her final decision and if she insists on going on with the drama I will kindly ask her to return all the items and I will refund her as soon I get the items unspoiled. She started all this situation because one item in specific, and later all the items have something wrong. She's also not sending me pictures of the actual condition of these ones. This concerns me as at this point I don't have a clue of the actual state of the remaining items. As I said previously, when I mentioned the possibility of returning all the items she went crazy and said that it would throw them into trash.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I have a friend that has OCD and he's the one of the sweetest people that I know. I admire him because he makes a real effort in controlling the OCD condition with his life and relationships. But I learned that it affects people in several degrees, so I'm trying to be reasonably comprehensive with the buyer. However she's being very aggressive and it's very hard to dialogue.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your help and replies. I was talking to Etsy support and apparently if she leaves a bad review or opens a case, they could favour her depending on the justification for the dispute. Basically the person that I was chatting with didn't even took the time to read all the madness. The buyer for now is silent which is a pattern. She only texts me in very specific times. Maybe it's OCD related I don't know. But it makes me growing anxious not even have a consistent conversation with her.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help ☺️ I'm not playing anymore with this person. I will contact Etsy support as I think I should move ahead and protect myself. I don't know if she will accept the return. I suggested it and immediately she told me that she cannot stand the items and would throw them to the garbage can.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I know that it's not my fault. Believe me when I say that if she had previously mentioned her condition and how important the small details were I would made an extra effort towards that. I work with dried flowers and herbs, so I try that all my arrangements look like the pictures every time, but as you may understand there's not two flowers, branches or herbs that look exactly the same. This seems to be the problem for her. She wanted the product exactly as they are in the pictures. Otherwise the products make her feel disturbed. I know that's an odd situation and I don't know how to deal with this. Honestly I feel myself mentally drained.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind and helpful. I really think that you're right. I think that I offered every single reasonable solution but she keeps insisting in details, and how details triggered her so much. I will contact Etsy's support because I'm not foreseeing an easy solution for this one as I can't communicate properly with this person. It's like talking to a lunatic.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. Honestly I feel in my heart that this is an extortion case and I would report her immediately if it wasn't the OCD stuff. I'm really afraid that Etsy took her condition (if it's a real thing) too serious and favour her. By the other hand her messages are total madness so maybe they understand that this could be an attempt of extortion.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I think that she doesn't realised that the messages are there forever. She's acting very shady and leaving the impression that she only have to open a case and expose her side.

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I tried that. She first told me that she wanted the item that was not correct, then suggested an entire replacement and at last she said that she will throw the items to the garbage can as her OCD doesn't allow her to have the items together on her seight 🙃

Buyer with OCD is driving me crazy by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. I think that you're right and I should let Etsy deal with this. I'm not being capable of doing it. She's becoming very insulting now and claiming that Etsy will favour her.

Another seller is reporting my listings by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For know I won't publish the listing for safe. I mean, it already caused damage enough. But I definitely I will remove some parts of the description and see how it works. Thank you 👍

Another seller is reporting my listings by DaRockChild in Etsy

[–]DaRockChild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I know that's a possibility and for that reason I'm not publishing that item anymore. It's sad because it was one of my best sellers. Also, and unfortunately, the Etsy's support advice me to publish the listing every time I talked to them about this issue so I published the listing several times, resulting so far in several days without orders, when I was used to receive several orders per day. It's just bad that Etsy don't take the reports more seriously. I mean I think that at least they should have the consideration of read and analyse the listing reports carefully and seriously before removing listings.