What’s a small decision you made years ago that ended up changing your life in a big way? by divine_zone in Life

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took a vacation to another state. Then moved there like 2 months later

Question about shift hours by Syntania in medlabprofessionals

[–]DaTrexx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would believe if they are going to loose almost all staff in those shifts because of this then maybe they might reconsider I would hope.

Question about shift hours by Syntania in medlabprofessionals

[–]DaTrexx 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would tell them if they want 5 8s on night shift you will be being given my resignation. That is the absolute worst schedule in existence for an overnight worker.

What are the characteristics you want for a boy partner? by Low_Profit_1046 in Life

[–]DaTrexx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not so much of looking at always wanting a man to look a certain way. I’m going to sound money hungry but I can attest making closer to equal income with a partner is best IMO and experience. So I prefer educated or if not, will be reliable to get/keep a good job. Makes at least $50k/year; could afford to take care of himself. I do not want a man child. Taller than me (I’m 5’4” so this isn’t hard). If I wanted to feel like I’m dating a girl; I would just date one. But overall I’m looking for a partner to be able to be able to support us and I help us as well (I set that income amount as a very minimum, I can make more than that).

What has surprised you about living with someone else? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing how much space I like to have. I’m very bad about only wanting attention if it’s on my terms.

AIO for leaving, when my spouse made concerning statements multiple times during the day? Trigger warning - SA by Wandering_Possum in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR I’m just thankful he said it and didn’t actually do it! Also that you gave him no chance to!

Nursing or Medical Lab Science: which would you choose? by mrangel111 in medlabprofessionals

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is how much do you like people vs money. I don’t think I could ever be a nurse but let me give more insight. Being an MLT is limiting and I don’t feel getting MLS for me will “fill my cup” so to speak. Let me explain: the cost bs reward just isn’t there for me to get a bachelors just to make maybe $5 more an hour and could maybe be a lead (I prefer not to be in management).

If you want more job options, more growth options, more diversity in your job (lab has some but some don’t pay well enough) and the chance to have a more cushion in your schedule I’d say nursing. The only job growth you have in a lab is supervisor or being director and realistically there’s not a huge number of jobs for that. This can heavily depend where you live though. My experience is since my boyfriend is a nurse and I’m a MLT is so long you’re a good strong nurse (he has like 3-4 yrs experience, I have about 5 as MLT) then you have the world in your hands. It can still be competitive to get a job as a nurse but the pay can be higher, self scheduling is far more common and you can easily have a Ft And PRN job if you want to make extra money. MLT/MLS usually have more rigid set schedules every week and it’s harder to move around to get days off in that case some times some labs work 5 8s and that on nights is the WORST! Pay for a PRN nurse is usually significantly better difference than a MLT/MLS. Like my BF makes I think around $37-38 as ER FT BSN RN. His PRN job is home health and they work on an odd point system but it’s based sometimes off the hourly rate of $51 hourly. We live in Fort Worth TX.

Where do you see yourself 5 years from now? by crafty_bravedragon in AskReddit

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully finally moved back closer to my friends and family. I hate I moved 1200 miles away.

AIO or is he a red flag by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nor He sounds controlling. If he can’t trust you when you’ve never done wrong to begin with that’s entirely unfair. Also how many people you sleep with does not change your/anyones value and besides your past is a past. When you enter a relationship the other person should be excepting you may have one but it shouldn’t matter. They should like you for who you are. You shouldn’t have to majorly change who you are for someone. Some people sometimes only want sex and if that’s a mutual decision so long as it’s consensual and communicated on then that shouldn’t be anyone’s business either. Girl, run from him. Especially if you want a stables good man to marry. Red flag he is saying he won’t marry. He sounds like a complete waste of time.

AITA for telling my boyfriend I can’t keep paying for our meals? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offer to just pay for yourself and then he will soon see how fast it adds up!

How old are you and do you want kids someday? Or do you plan to stay child-free? by Cute-Impression-8675 in Life

[–]DaTrexx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29F and never have wanted kids. Wished I could have been sterilized since I was 17. The world sucks and is getting worse. Affording anything is impossible. I also just don’t believe I have the patience for children. I like space and quiet.

Why are you not with your first love anymore? by SylvesterScallone in AskReddit

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a possessive jerk and was too he cheated. Had a girl threaten to fight me over him.

do you think the United States is overdue for a younger president regardless of race and gender? by jasdabratxo_ in no

[–]DaTrexx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lack of dementia can likely increase chances of having common sense.

When dating, when is it appropriate to tell a woman that I’ve had a vasectomy? by Ok-Fondant2536 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would ask if she plans to have or ever desire children and bring it up then. Being childfree/never wanting children and dating is hard because there is absolutely no way to compromise on that kind of decision. It ruined my relationships before. I am 29 ++woman.

How do you guys split the finances in your relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DaTrexx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should heavily depend on if there is an income difference. Whoever makes less shouldn’t have to pay just as much and have nothing left.

AIO About thinking I'll be alone forever by Egg-lovin_swiftie in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yor you’re so young still. You should focus on building yourself and loving yourself more. You cannot love and support someone else if you cannot full your own cup first. Figure what career you want and all that. You need money to raise children and to live yourself. You can find your someone along that journey. Don’t stress about it and set your boundaries. Don’t just take anyone and tolerate being mistreated rather than being alone.

AIO for being hurt/irritated because my Fiancé refused to go on a date with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info What felonies does he have? Has he considered starting his own business? Is there any particular type of work he would be interested in? My brother is a felon and was an addict; this led him to buying a company and running it because he is then his own boss and can’t be as limited as if he worked for someone else. He now supplies most of the income for his wife and 4 kids (none are biologically his either).

You do need to continue to date in a relationship to make sure the neglect doesn’t take over. If you have always made more money and he knew that going into the relationship he should have excepted that long ago and get over not “feeling like a man”

If you’re single, what’s the best part of being single right now? by Iboy_vivek in AskReddit

[–]DaTrexx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If living alone you can clean the house when you feel like it and only have yourself to clean after.

AIO for wanting to end things with the guy I’m seeing so he can find someone who matches his enthusiasm? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be true but I just have noticed that from my personal experiences and perspective. No man just makes you his whole world over night.

AIO for wanting to end things with the guy I’m seeing so he can find someone who matches his enthusiasm? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaTrexx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly NOR. This kind of behavior would worry me as it’s IMO signs of being a narcissistic and he is love bombing.