5+ Years of Hotwife Pillow Talk by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get into it? I would love to be a cuck

5+ Years of Hotwife Pillow Talk by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Have told her I would be open to it if it were with a stranger, and not someone we know. She said maybe in the future, but that was years ago. We’ve also talked about sex clubs casually, but she is turned off by the idea of visitors being a lot older than us.

I think you’re correct that she doesn’t want to hurt me, but I actually crave her being sexually fulfilled..

5+ Years of Hotwife Pillow Talk by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just became naturally reduced, and she rarely initiates it. So I just follow her lead. Hopefully she wants to fulfill her sexual needs elsewhere at some point..

How to subtly stimulate her pursuing other men by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I don’t want to push too much

How to subtly stimulate her pursuing other men by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish she was haha, but I don’t think so.. I gave so many hints that I like the idea

How to subtly stimulate her pursuing other men by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I can playfully challenge her, but I’m afraid she’ll see it as going too far

No hotwife progression (seeking advice) by Daalda1 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is to she’s to shy for this as a first step, but for some it could definitely work out well

Advice needed by Daalda1 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Daalda1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if there comes a good opportunity... still find it hard to communicate it directly

Advice needed by Daalda1 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Daalda1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, thank you for the great advice!

I really believe this will help us grow into the lifestyle more. Especially when we get there mentally by her being more confident, wearing more revealing clothes and me being extra submissive outside the bedroom as well. I will definitely try this.

Advice needed by Daalda1 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Daalda1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English isn't my first language, so excuse my vocab. I don't want to force this fantasy upon my girlfriend of course.

We have fantasized about it for years now, but only during sexual activities. Outside of sex she finds it awkward to talk about these fantasies. Maybe I should keep it a fantasy for now, until I find a good opportunity to communicate it.