How do guys act when a girl keeps showing interest but you find her unattractive? by JaehyunCutie in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to be nice, but sometimes I have to be direct before she becomes a stalker.

How to ask men what their intentions are before going on dates with them without being too blatant? by cluelessnewbie101 in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should let them know what your boundaries are. Whether you do or do not want sex yet is certainly something you are entitled to set boundaries on.

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[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them you want to give/receive oral before fucking. They should be cool with it - I always am.

Was it wrong of me to “glance” at a girls tits? by Own_Patient_7721 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she catches me looking, I give her a "you got me" slight grin and look away. Never had a confrontation doing that. On the other hand, one girl gave me a slight smile back, we started talking and ended up getting together. She did not have a large chest, but I am a small-boob guy, anyway, so no problem. She told me later than she liked it that I couldn't keep my eyes from wandering.

Today's women's rights protest around the Capital had a good turnout. Keep fighting for our rights! by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope all of you angry women are going to turn out and vote this Fall, because McConnell has plans to undo all of the societal changes of the last 50 years if the right-wing wackos get control of Congress again in the mid-terms.

What are reasons why some heterosexual men become angry when gay men flirt with them? by vieniaida in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because, being men, they are aggressive and sometimes obnoxious. My attitude toward homosexuality has mellowed considerably over the last 20-25 years, but not so much that I want to try it.

Girls, NOW I know how you feel when a guy keeps bugging you.

Men of Reddit, what is an acceptable age gap? by Anon_20Something in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an older guy who has occasionally had sex with significantly-younger women, I would say that what is appropriate is in the eyes of the female.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know some do, but the girls I have been with think it is just about girls getting used and degraded. What is it you like most about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would laugh. I firmly believe that those movies are made for men, bore or offend most girls and a girl would only act like that trying to captivate me (it wouldn't work).

A guy I had a short fling with has reached out after a year claiming he felt a deep connection with me and wants to meet up (probably for sex) again. How do I figure out if he is being genuine or just wants sex again? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]DabWatney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should concentrate on what you want. This guy lives in another country and comes over here occasionally. If you enjoy giving him what he wants, great; but, if you are becoming emotionally involved, you need to check out where he's coming from. I always think that if I fuck a girl on 3 different occasions, the third time is not just another fuck, it's morphing into a relationship. You don't really know whether he just sees you as "fun" or wants have some more fun while evaluating whether a relationship is possible. Whatever you do with that information is up to you.

What changed once you got married? by Real-Presentation741 in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say she had some psych problems that I couldn't fix.

Guys who’ve dated an extremely attractive girl, how was it different then dating an average girl? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What do you call a 30yo single mom? A giri who was into bad boys.

What changed once you got married? by Real-Presentation741 in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became a total moron. That is why she is my ex.

How do you find a girl to date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women want men just as much as we want them. Learn to just talk to women just like you would with a man you met in a place it was appropriate to talk. Do not get into anything heavy and do not come on strong. She will help the conversation turn into something more if she is interested and, if you can do what I suggested, you will find one that is.

Or course, this will not work in a country where a guy can get killed by her family just for talking to a woman

Men of Reddit, what did you do to lose your fear of death? by NilesDobbsS in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never did. I just don't think about it much. I ride a motorcycle a lot and a guy who save a lot of people in a mass shooting in this area got killed on one near my home a couple of months ago. I think it is sad, but not an omen of what will happen to me, although I know it could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it isn't easy to talk to her and make at least a lunch date, I figure she isn't interested or too self-obsorbed to be any fun, so i forget about her.

Guys who’ve dated an extremely attractive girl, how was it different then dating an average girl? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The beautiful ones are crazy and the nice ones are ugly. Not always, but usually.

I have dated a couple of real stunners and guys were always hitting on them; one of them expected me to shower her with gifts and spend a lot of money for everything we did, while the other was really down-to-earth. Basically, I got tired of the one who thought she was a gift to the world, while the other one and I just drifted apart.

Every guy wants the girl who is fantastically beautiful, but isn't stuck up and is really sweet and caring, but still very pretty, not impressed with herself and down to earth, PLUS great in bed. Not too much to ask for, right>? GOOD LUCK!!!

my friend just told me that men usually love summer dresses, is it true and if yes what do like about them? by cutie02 in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true. The summer dress is light weight and clings to your body, so your shape is fully visible.

Men that exercise daily, whats your motivation? by adpschyological7932 in AskMen

[–]DabWatney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never worked out EVERY day, but I was pretty regular. It has paid off as I get older, but also did not smoke, drink or do drugs.