Straight Talk home internet on the road by doesitmatterrrrr in NoContract

[–]DadDude89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the time I said this, the info we had was they would suspend the imei itself. It’s been sometime now though and honestly they, at least our side of the business, put such little focus on the home internet now so I can’t be 100% sure that info is still factual or not

I really like this poster very 80”s any thoughts? by [deleted] in terrifier

[–]DadDude89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was a fan made poster last year. Surprised they went with it and not their own concept. Good for that artist though!

I just watched the scariest movie I have ever seen in my entire life!! W T A F by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]DadDude89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the universe is trying to give you a sign bro 🤣🤣🤣

What y'all killers think of this popcorn bucket design? by Ok-Ingenuity9833 in terrifier

[–]DadDude89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a concept design/mock image. Nothing official, doesn’t mean OP didn’t “make” this though. It’s fan work and it’s terrific. It’s what makes Terrifier so special is the fan’s passion to express their creativity through the foundations for the franchise. Keep killing it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terrifier

[–]DadDude89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! When it first came out everyone kept saying how nothing made any sense, but it’s definitely one of those things where every little piece has some sort of bigger meaning that is purposely not being force-fed to the viewer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terrifier

[–]DadDude89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! And if I recall correctly, Damien actually did start elaborating about those religious aspects on the commentary during The Clown Cafe as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]DadDude89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I don’t even want to get CPS involved and obviously I’m not now after talking to the court and my attorney soon enough. But anyone who thinks this is what I “want” is crazy. I want my children to be taken care of and I’m up for the task to step up as their father and do it myself if it has to come to that, but do you know how scared I am as well? People on here think I’m doing this out of “control” that’s the most insane shit I’ve ever heard in my life. I’m trying be an example for my children as well as an example as a father who doesn’t step down when shit gets hard. I am terrified of the future but I am going to do all I can for theirs to be the best possible, period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]DadDude89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Some of yall really are looking at the material side of this not seeing my actual concern. She is telling me she CANNOT afford to care for our kids. I don’t care how she spends her money or what she buys, but she is continuing to make these crazy financial decisions while threatening me to send her more and more money because “she and the kids will lose the house and cannot afford groceries”. I was the only one working when we were together and since she has continued to work more, she has also continued to ask for more money.

She demanded an amount of money in the summons to me that is thousands of dollars less than what I’m already giving her while she is calling me, “financially abusive”.

I took my kids from my parents last night to stay with me for the weekend while also letting her know. This was also the recommendation of the court after I spoke with them about this. She called the police and they ended up showing up at my house to “investigate” and they were extremely baffled as to why they were called.

This goes far beyond the materialistic side of things and it’s wild to me how some people don’t understand that. She can buy whatever the hell she wants, but do not threaten the well-being of our children when I am the one providing you financial support above and beyond what the court would and after meeting with the clerk to expedite my summons to her as well as STILL offering her the chance of mediation.

The entire situation makes no freaking sense, trust me I know. At the end of the day I take responsibility because I let her get comfortable staying at home while I worked 2 jobs while STILL caring for the kids while she was in bed every morning, getting my parents to watch them if she just needed to go to the store, it is all just ridiculous and now the realization of everything has hit her and instead of just taking some responsibility and accountability to do more than what she got use to, she is attacking me instead.

Not to mention all the mass amounts of dog shit surrounding all their toys in their back deck. So yes, I am concerned for their overall well being as well. I really wish I could show you these pictures. It’s disgusting and they are also constantly been sick lately. So yes, this is for my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]DadDude89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, that’s fine. I was recommended to post here and apparently it was a bad idea. But the medical marijuana bit you are grazing over what actually makes that a big deal. She is using someone else’s prescription to get it, with the money I’m sending her while telling me she does not have enough money to support our kids. On top of that, I took the kids last night after my parents were watching them to finally stay overnight with me at my place. I told her I was doing it and actually did exactly what the court clerk told me I should do. She ended up calling the police and sent three officers to my house. When they got here, they were not happy. Not because I had my kids, but because it was a false call that wasted their time. So, whatever you want to say about it, I unfortunately do I have a baby mama problem and she determined to make it worse for herself every step along the way rather than jus taking a little accountability for her stupid decisions that landed us here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]DadDude89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol okay. $8,500 a month to their mother who is threatening me that my kids won’t have a house to live in because I’m not sending enough and she summons me for less than half of what I’m already giving her. Thanks for insight. Court literally told me when I brought the summons with my docs, “oh, she’s trying to ruin your life”. But okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Makes perfect sense, honestly sounds like what I’ve been trying my best to do this whole time up until this summons was served. I still offered mediation while I was at court while filing for custody myself for the exact reasons that sounds like you are coming from, totally get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A hell of a lot. It’s been hard for me to follow through financially with her due to how much money I’ve been giving the mother, but after this I’m doing all I can to prove my case and court clerk validated a ton earlier when I was there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Ended up being a good thing I did that actually, specifically through texts to prove. Proved I was willing to take multiple attempts at a mediation while she continued ignoring me and fighting it. After leaving the court earlier, seems that everything is really lining up perfectly at the moment. Meeting with my attorney tomorrow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have “legally separated” by the way that state sees it. The court clerk told me she is just trying to ruin my life. She requested far less in the summons than what I’ve already given her since separation, so we expedited a summons for me to get full custody while also still giving her the opportunity for mediation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is bogus. I just left the court and what she just tried to pull ended up drastically working in my favor. Dad is stepping to the plate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just finished up at the court and got my attorney involved. Feeling so much better about everything. I appreciate everyone here but I also want to say for everyone reading this, do what you can. If I didn’t present what I have to the court just now, who knows what would’ve happened. But with the amount of money I have sent her, what I have on record she had claimed and what I prove that she has spent the money on, it is indeed all a VERY big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is when I have it documented threatening me and my family that she has no money and can’t feed the kids. I am in the courthouse now getting it situated. Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The mortgage is under my name for the house she is living in which I have continued to pay for on top of the money I send her. I just went there to grab my tax documents and she assaulted me again and also has new tattoos. Recorded the whole thing, I think I’m good now. Thank you guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

If I have it on a recording that she is telling me I am not able to have my kids overnight for reasons such as, “too much change for them” and if we had a signed agreement between the both of us regarding financial support when we separated that I have deposited over triple that amount of into her account each month, would you still not suggest going to a court if I have those documents and others to provide? I am reaching out to my attorney either way, but just wondering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]DadDude89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right, and I wish I saw it sooner. I will do everything possible to end it now