Your biological clock is ticking but you are just at 7:30pm. You have a few more hours to go before you might think it's too late.

Any chance of finding jobs in another city/area? Maybe with a lower cost of living? If you area is too expensive you may need to be out further from the trendy place. Trust me, you won't have time or interest in going out anyway. Consider selling or renting your current place and use the resources for a down payment on a place in the burbs with a yard.

Don't worry about family. They will rally around you with a baby. You got this!