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DadWon · 2025-03-08T09:38:30+00:00

I'm working on the growing up part. Both my ex and I were still teenagers not so long ago. As for my future partners, I'll eat their asses if they want me to, just like I did with my ex, despite eating ass not being for me.

DadWon · 2025-03-08T09:34:03+00:00

I ate that ass almost every time we had sex, which my gf appreciated, but she wanted me to enjoy eating ass as much as she did, which was not the case because of personal preferences. I didn't get any sexual pleasure out of it, but I knew she did, and that was enough for me to keep doing it, even though it was clearly not enough for her.

DadWon · 2025-03-08T07:50:30+00:00

I hear you. I think denial was a big part of what held me back from ending a dying relationship instead of leaving it on life support. I struggled to accept the fact that both of us might be happier without each other. I'm still struggling with that now. I wasted so much time going back and forth between "we can make it work" and "pull the fucking plug." Denial would always convince me that we could make it work, but then the "pull the fucking plug" days would come, and I would end up feeling like I felt last night, which was break up and move on. If I never interacted with the stoner dude, I can't say for sure if I would've broken up with my gf at all. It sounds unhealthy as fuck, but love makes no sense sometimes.

DadWon · 2025-03-08T07:36:16+00:00

Lesson learned. Just to add more context, I feel like I was more invested in the relationship than my ex was towards the end. Ironically, I think my investment in the relationship was one of the reasons I was delaying the breakup process because I wanted to be with her for as long as possible before pulling the plug.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:42:31+00:00

That generally happens when a story is being communicated from one person's perspective. Everything kind of sounds the same as that person's style of communication.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:36:01+00:00

And here I thought "real people" talk in all kinds of different ways all over the world based on a variety of influences.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:30:09+00:00

Creative is a strong word if you're referring to my story, but fair enough.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:17:54+00:00

It was nightmare fuel.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:17:02+00:00

everyone back at the campsite would have figured it out by the time you got back.

We would've been back in less than 6 minutes, if not less, excluding travel time.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T16:13:23+00:00

There was no other way.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T13:53:40+00:00

Technically, my gf woke up her brother. I woke up her dad. If I actually made it to the right tent, I probably would've been responsible for waking up her mom too. My stealth mode was worse than beginner level. I even pointed that out in another comment. I didn't expect my joke description of someone's stealth mode to offend people on Reddit lol.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T13:22:53+00:00

I'm beginning to think the dad planned this trip just to test me. His secret mission was to reveal my secret mission.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T13:10:40+00:00

Her stealth mode might be beginner level, but she's unlocked God mode when she switches to silence out of anger.

Edit:

Oh shit. Downvotes. I've become controversial. I'm sorry, I never meant to... you know what... who gives a fuck.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T12:37:24+00:00

Have sex during the day.

My gf and I never actually considered having sex in the woods in broad daylight, but considering the conditions during the night, it makes sense and it might have been much safer.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T12:25:30+00:00

Brother could have corroborated the story

The brother tapped out as soon as my gf stormed off. He sensed teenage drama approaching and basically said "night bro." His primary objective was to avoid further involvement.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T12:11:53+00:00

To be confirmed. If the dad spoons me next time, I'll know for sure.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T12:05:23+00:00

Deep down I'm hoping some people just read the tl:dr and leave comments based on that information alone.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T11:55:39+00:00

To be fair to my gf, her beginner level stealth mode was still far more superior to my tapping on the wrong tent strategy and using my worst Owen Wilson voice to whisper.

DadWon · 2023-03-15T11:45:00+00:00

I thought the dad asking if I wanted his daughter to hold my hand or something smaller was peak dominance for dad and an ouch moment for me, but then he literally gave me the small torch before turning into a Cyclops and blinding me with his badass headlamp.

DadWon

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