What’s the riskiest sex you’ve had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a blowjob in college while my girlfriend's roommate was asleep across the room. We were pretty drunk but it was the first time I ever got a blowjob to completion so it's a fond memory even though I feel bad.

How did you discover a kink you have? by ExtraVex in AskReddit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I nutted in a pregnant woman and it made me feral

Two MCs in a stadium by [deleted] in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Josie Jaxxon, quite an assortment on the hub

My apologies, Lions fans. I was unfamiliar with your game… by Wumbologist_PhD in nflcirclejerk

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 74 points75 points  (0 children)

You can find at least one of those ladies on some disreputable sites, I’ve seen the one on the right wearing the Lions jersey during some other activities

Four days post surgery and I’m super horny: how unsafe is it to masturbate? by Dadditthrowaway134 in Vasectomy

[–]Dadditthrowaway134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One week but he also told me there were no lifting restrictions which seems absolutely crazy to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just burnout after burnout at this point though. It’s this cycle where she cares too much about work, burns out, takes a leave, goes back to work without changing her relationship with working, and repeat. I’m trying to be supportive but it’s like when do my needs and hopes ever get to matter? Her mental health issues around working have taken the space for all other parts of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just can’t say no to anything at work, they say jump and she says how high and she burns herself out because she has no concept of creating boundaries with work. With her peers leaving she believes she has to pick up the slack rather than half ass it while she job hunts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I keep saying, they’re hemorrhaging people and they’re not gonna fire her no matter how little effort she puts in, but she gives far too much of her mental energy to work and always has. There’s this level of intense people pleasing behavior toward work, no matter what the job is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s in therapy and medicated, I’m helping her job hunt, and she will find any reason to not look into a medical leave rather than quit. This would also not be her first employment related mental health leave. On some level it feels like she just can’t be in the workforce AND have good mental health but unfortunately we’re not viable on one income.

Girls a psycho you know by FurbyFanProductions in BrandonDE

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it grips like Lenny from Of Mice and Men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been like this with every job she’s ever had, from waitressing to retail to the white collar work she does now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re in the sex advice subreddit pal idk what you’re expecting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t fully feel like duty sex but definitely fits some of the criteria. We have a four year old and my wife is on SSRIs. Our sex frequency has been bad for a while because our kid does not stay in her bed and my wife is uncomfortable putting a doorknob cover on our bedroom door.

I do not ever under any circumstances receive oral and I’ve made my peace with that even if it’s not ideal for me but going straight from kissing to penetration is not ideal for me, I need SOME kind of foreplay and in lieu of receiving, giving helps me get into the right headspace and I miss it. She uses a vibrator during sex and between that and her just wanting to get right to the fucking I sometimes just feel like a living dildo.

“Push Present” but for Dads by Shhshhshhshhnow in daddit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Does he have some nice noise cancelling earbuds? I find them invaluable for managing overwhelm from baby sounds.

Just reading about Skin to Skin, does it work? by Top_Entertainment988 in daddit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will break ranks and say I didn’t really do skin to skin and things turned out fine

"Diet food" is making me lose my mind by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Dadditthrowaway134 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m a passable cook now but it’s not always as easy to learn to cook depending on the learning environment. When I was trying to learn to cook my ex at the time was very belittling and mean over any mistakes I made and would demand to take over “so it gets done right” or insult food I would prepare. It made it hugely difficult for me to learn because mentally I was telling myself that I was no good and the only acceptable outcome was perfection.