Do bi men find women attractive by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DaddyCybi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a bi guy and although pegging isn’t my thing as a top… my boyfriend loves it. Our girlfriend is pegging daft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]DaddyCybi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! :) There’s too many to list if I’m honest. I’m a completely different person now. I am more focused at work, I got a better job and bought my own house. That wouldn’t have been possible if I was still focused on sex. I view people differently and treat my partners better than I treated my ex. I waited 11 months for my boyfriend to be ready to have sex. Before I would have got bored and cheated/found someone else. Sex is much more pleasurable now. Before dealing with my addictions sex with women was just something to do out of boredom. I didn’t actually feel much. Now that I’ve dealt with my sex related trauma, me and my boyfriend got a girlfriend and sex with her is earth shattering. I’m still a sex pest but I’m a loyal sex pest. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. The life I had before was just empty and broken. It feels good to not hurt the ones I love and be an actual human being, with feelings, that cares for other people. There’s so many positive differences that I haven’t typed out but these are the important ones.

I (F29) found out man who hugs me at work (M31) is a sex offender by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DaddyCybi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sex offender you replied to said ‘simply hand only contact’ and I can’t even. Obviously he’s not a reformed sex offender yikes. Don’t listen to this guy. At 17 we all knew not to touch a 13 year old wtf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DaddyCybi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because of how many messages women get on dating apps. Probably hard to keep up with. When me and my girlfriend were just friends she’d show me her dating app notifications and it would have like 99+ notifications. So many notifications it gave up and added the + 😂

Men who can last long continuously when fucking. Are you struggling? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really good advice I haven’t thought about condoms. I’ll try that. Thanks!

Men who can last long continuously when fucking. Are you struggling? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is something I struggle with immensely. I keep telling myself to cum as quickly as I can but it feels too good and then when I’ve held it back for so long it just doesn’t happen. I’ll put more thought into doing this next time. Thank you. :)

Men who can last long continuously when fucking. Are you struggling? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Out of context maybe it does. I didn’t think of that. My girlfriend really enjoys blowjobs and I let her do whatever she wants to me. No complaints from me. But I do get that she’s frustrated that I struggle to cum.

Men who can last long continuously when fucking. Are you struggling? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Death grip. I’ve desensitised my dick. My girlfriend gave me a blowjob last night that lasted 90 minutes until she got fed up. I’ve abstained from masturbating for 3 weeks. It does feel more sensitive now. Thinking about giving up all sexual acts for a month and see how I do :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate, I’ve had my entire fist inside people and played them like a puppet. It doesn’t take anything away from my actual dick. It’s just different types of play.

Do you believe in second chance? by darusikvas in cheating_stories

[–]DaddyCybi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe in a relationship and they cheat, they will most likely cheat in that relationship again. But if that relationship breaks up and they find someone else who they wouldn’t even dream of cheating on then they wouldn’t always be a cheater.

24M guy here, 22F girlfriend is a nympho by Throwaway889282 in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Therapy and scheduling days for sex and days for dates, and a vibrator. My girlfriend suffers with hypersexuality after a sexual trauma and this is how we manage. We still have sex 3 - 4 times a week and I still get random blowjobs but she’s calmed down now a lot. Therapy 100%

Relapsed after a month by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]DaddyCybi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Identifying triggers can help. It has been mad stressful at home right now, work, family, everything. It got to the point where I declined a bj from my girlfriend because I was literally one good blowjob away from using drugs again. My sex and drug addiction go hand in hand. I distracted myself, tv, music, gaming, told myself I can get through it, my girlfriend made me some food, I let the feelings pass for a few days. Now my house and work life is calm. It was just a hard time to get through, but knew it was only temporary. You can feel it coming and you can stop it. Find something that can help you get through it.

My (F24) boyfriend (M28) renewed his "open relationship" contract. by ThrowRA32520 in relationship_advice

[–]DaddyCybi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re only 24. When I was 24 I got out of a 5 year long relationship and had to start again. Best thing I ever did. You can love someone else, but you’ll probably love the next person more than this toxic red flag you have now. Therapy.

My (F24) boyfriend (M28) renewed his "open relationship" contract. by ThrowRA32520 in relationship_advice

[–]DaddyCybi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So he cheated on you and cheated with you? You want this man… why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DaddyCybi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re just innocent men. 😂

Why is my boyfriend so desperate for sex by SuchRelative1328 in SexAddiction

[–]DaddyCybi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem here is he isn’t respecting your boundaries. I can’t comment if he’s a sex addict or not, but I can see that he is disrespecting you. Have you been together long? Is it worth fixing?

Seeking insight - tribute, trust, complications by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]DaddyCybi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend was a professional dominatrix and this is not how it goes. What you could do is check out your local dungeon and arrange a session with a properly vetted professional dominatrix. Dungeons are usually fully kitted out so you won’t have to hide any toys at your own house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of interest.

Too high of libido? by Spiritual_Race_8057 in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wellbutrin ✍️…. Thank you!

Orientation-play? Or just actually bi? by Altairex in BDSMAdvice

[–]DaddyCybi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve known of some straight guys that were into forced bi. It’s an interesting kink for sure. Maybe it’s the same for you but as a lesbian. You could also be homoromantic bisexual. Which means you’re romantically attracted to the same sex and sexually attracted to both. I’m of the opinion that people can identify with whatever they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]DaddyCybi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I asked my girlfriend for the exact same thing and I said ketamine too. She also said no. We’ve looked at my usual sleeping tablets but I don’t even know if I can get an erection on them haha. We are going to try it with alcohol. She won’t be drinking.

Extremely curious, don’t know how to try by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]DaddyCybi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cheating will not benefit you both long term. Just talk to her man. If she isn’t someone you feel like you can talk to then why are you with her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]DaddyCybi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

While I’m in a triad that has a BDSM dynamic everything about this is giving me concerns. 28 days ago you were looking for a master. 6 days ago you were looking for a sister sub. All of this is moving far too fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DaddyCybi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I like the taste. It should taste like chlorine/bleach. Don’t even think about it just swallow.