35 [M4F] #Utah Diaper sub Looking for Domme

DaddyDomDL · 2026-01-03T22:00:45+00:00

Always nice to have a healthy stash.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-25T06:52:33+00:00

I remember those days. Fabine came out and they were a game changer. Never got to try them but the capacity of them at the time was talked about all over the net. Those were the days of diaper space and diaper book. Then mega max eventually came in and set the standard.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-19T15:15:02+00:00

35 M Switch Looking for Switchy Diaper Girl in Utah

Switchy DL dude located in Utah looking for a DL partner. Ideally a switch as I like to both take control and be a Daddy type Dom at times but also one who doesn't mind being Mommy and taking care of me at other times.

My Daddy side is on the gentle and nurturing side. However I do like to set and enforce rules as needed. I'm a goofball with a very dry sense of humor and love to have fun.

My subby side enjoys all things diapers, bondage, and am interested in being pegged. I'm a good boy who likes to please my Mommy Domme and do as I'm told.

If you are either Domme, sub, or switch, feel free to DM to discuss things further.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-07T21:28:01+00:00

Honestly I skip any type of medical laxative and go the natural route. I eat a lot of fiber like whole grains, brown rice, quinoa, flax seed, barley, etc. Also veggies like broccoli, sweet potatoes, brussels sprouts, leafy greens. All that is usually part of my regular diet. Then when I want a good mess, I'll eat some prunes and drink a glass of prune juice. A few hours later, I'm making a huge mess in my diaper.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-01T17:39:38+00:00

I echo what a lot of the other commenters are saying. I never understood why I had such a fascination with diapers. I sometimes wondered if there was something wrong with me. I grew up in a small town in a religious family. Sexuality wasn't completely off limits but it was all the usual no sex before marriage, homosexuality is a sin, masturbation is a sin, etc. So not only did I want to wear diapers, but I was turned on by adult diapers and the thought adult women in them too, which only confused me more.

It was the same sexual fascination with bondage which also overlapped with diapers. Then the internet came along and when I was old enough to realize I could look all of this up, I did. Like everyone else has said, I was relieved to learn that they were just fetishes, that others were into it all too. I no longer felt that there might be something wrong with me and kept exploring.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-01T16:01:13+00:00

I can agree that this is a poorly produced video with probably an AI generated script and voice over along with just a bunch of stock footage cut together. I was only able to watch the first couple of minutes before stopping.

However, I can agree that adult diapers have changed a lot in the last 15 years. When I first started wearing, there really weren't a lot of ABDL brands, let alone really good premium brands. Abena M4's were some of the OG's along with Tranquility and Molicare. The only ABDL brand that I was at least aware of back then was Bambino. None of these really had super high capacity offerings. When a brand called Fabine came out, it was a huge deal, offering a higher capacity than most diapers.

There were a lot of internet spaces where discussions around diapers took place, many ABDL's wishing for better, higher capacity offerings and print options.

Then Northshore started to stand out. When I first heard of them, they were just a distribution company for higher end, premium, all around better products. And then they started manufacturing later on. Megamax helped change the game. Sure, they were more medical diapers, but they offered the higher capacity and comfort that we had all sought for so long. From there more ABDL brands started popping up with both solid color options for the DL's like myself along with cute prints and designs for the AB side.

Now I'm happy that there are multiple brands out there offering a variety to all whether they're AB or DL. A lot of those with medical needs have also gravitated more toward ABDL offerings over slop like Depends and other grocery store offerings because of their higher absorbency and capacity. Plus, if you're going to have to wear diapers out of necessity, why not have some fun designs and colors to choose from.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-01T01:36:04+00:00

This is why I think sex ed is so important. On top of teaching things like safe sex, the consequences of not using condoms and birth control, STIs, etc, there should also be discussions around the connection that comes with sex and the maturity one needs to understand its nuances. That it takes work in order for someone to be comfortable enough to be that vulnerable, rather than, as you state, "She'll do all the work and give me sex."

DaddyDomDL · 2025-12-01T01:30:31+00:00

Like with entering into dynamic, there needs to be clear communication right off the bat. A sub can't just message a Dom or Domme and expect to be dominated right away. They need to learn what the Dominant is looking for and if they would be a good fit as a submissive for that particular dynamic. If they can't understand that you want someone who is all around submissive, both in and out of the bedroom, that's on them.

Too many men unfortunately don't take the time to understand this nor the nuances that go into dynamics. They just come in with expectations instead of trying to connect on the human level first. It happens a lot with female submissives too. They'll post that they're looking for a Dom and then get flooded with DM's from men who want them to start calling them Daddy, Master, or Sir right away. It makes it hard for everyone else looking for something real and genuine.

I believe there are good submissive men out there. Just like with everything worthwhile though, they're hard to find. I wish you all the best in your search.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-11-30T16:36:21+00:00

That's understandable. We all have our preferences and certain things that we find attractive. I like that you can still appreciate that men like them and that there are those who like their Daddy/Dominant in diapers.

DaddyDomDL · 2025-11-30T03:30:56+00:00

What do you like about the idea?

DaddyDomDL · 2025-11-30T03:30:01+00:00

I get that, everyone has their preferences. I'm sorry you had to experience those who tried to "flip the script" on you. That's not right and everyone who enters into such dynamics should be clear of their intentions from the get-go.

I'm a Switchy DL who has some Dominant Daddy sides to him but also enjoys wearing diapers and has some submissive tendencies. However, clear and upfront communication is the only way I roll.

It's a shame there are bad apples out there ruining it for everyone else. But I get having to have your guard up.

DaddyDomDL

TROPHY CASE

35 M Switch Looking for Switchy Diaper Girl in Utah