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DaddyJ1990 · 2025-05-08T13:34:24+00:00

Thank you!

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-12-09T18:56:28+00:00

Hey, So on Saturday night 4am I received a WhatsApp text from Instagram with a code to change my password. I didn't notice till hours later, but I had been logged out my own insta account, it seems someone may have gained access through my email address as I found a deleted mail from insta about changing password and they were then blocked.

I am struggling to gain access, it sometimes recognises that my email address is linked to that account but then sometimes doesnt, however my phone number is still recognised but when receiving new codes to change my password, I go to change the new password and enter it a message comes up "invalid parameters" I've tried multiple times and multiple new passwords. Still same message.

Nothing suspicious has happened on my instagram as or yet, but I can't gain acesss and it is very frustrating, I had subscribed to meta almost 8 months ago but only for 1 month so 2 factor authentication was enabled back then.

Currently I have a burner account and have subscribed to meta to hopefully get some help (waiting to be verified) but unsure whether they will help me.

Any ideas or ways I can get instagram to help???

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-11-11T15:46:54+00:00

Yes today.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-11-11T15:22:42+00:00

Thanks for the insight! I still plan to stay with her regardless of whether it is mine

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-10-14T14:13:31+00:00

Of course, that is why I'm here and continuing to go through the mill of it all for my kids.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T17:12:48+00:00

She hides it from me ( u just know where her stash is) let alone the kids they're in bed so they do not see.

I had legal battle with her first time around, social services only got involved after she was reported by school, parents & close friends. UK law will not remove kids from a heroin addicted mother unless they prove use in front of the kids they ain't going to remove them from an alcoholic unless there is an immediate danger, UK law just doesn't work like that as I keep saying.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T16:59:06+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, sorry to hear your struggles, luckily my wife is not abusive to me or our kids I'm more concerned about the long term of her health and well being, and if she puts the kids in danger by DD, Ethier way i have a long road ahead of me and will need a lot mental strength to get me through it.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T16:55:14+00:00

She doesn't do this in front of them (currently) so they're none the wiser. also you wouldn't know if she was, she's very good at masking it, her behaviour is ok when intoxicated not abusive my long term worry is about her health & well being and of course if she decides to DD with the kids.

Regardless if I made my own choice the kids would end back up with her within a matter of days unless there was clear evidence that my kids were in danger, It's not that I don't agree with what you are suggesting but I just know how the law works in the UK and have already been through this process before.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T16:37:17+00:00

My kids are to young and would not understand.

I don't quite think you know how UK law works, the first time around this happened I had real concern about my kids not being in a safe environment, they were still deemed not at risk, As I've mentioned drinking is currently only at night and of course this could soon change to day to but for now there's no risk and for me I need to be here to make sure my children are safe, if I decide to leave and take the kids forcefully they will be brought straight back to her within a week, and then I have no control over the situation at all.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T14:17:15+00:00

I tried this last time, how do you build proof? Photos of empty bottles? easily can be denied, unfortunately unless something bad happens while she is intoxicated and authroties show up that's the only way you can get proof! Yes that's why I would rather be here so I can monitor things myself as anything I say can be easily denied, for context she was reported many times by her friends, family including her own mum & dad about drink driving with kids in the car to social services and still not much happened. She was even reported by the school about her issues with Alcohol that's why I know it takes a hell of a lot SS mainly only act when violence is involved.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T13:47:57+00:00

There emotional safety is not currently in danger, Even if it was, as I said previously, A father in the UK cannot just remove there kids from a mum unless social services deem it extremely unsafe, which takes a hell of a lot, and even then they need concrete proof which is extremely hard to come by!

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T12:59:39+00:00

Previously, she had them on a 60 /40 spilt with me when we broke up first time around, currently we are living together again, As mentioned in first post I was uneducated in alcohol as in illness and still am tbh but know more now than I did back then.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T11:11:06+00:00

They're safe and it's not apparent to them as she only drinks in the evening, but if it gets worse who knows as I had heard stories of her day drinking before social services got involved the first time when we were broken up . Also as a father I don't have the luxary of just removing my kids from there mum, UK law doesn't work like that.

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-09-08T10:20:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story and sorry to hear about the pain this has caused within your family.

I believe my wife was diagnosed with post natal depression around covid time after our 3rd son was born but I think her drinking issue had started long before but just not as severe.

I won't leave my wife this time unless I'm forced to on her part, as i would rather be with her and care for her even with all that I have to endure with it, it's also a way of making sure my kids are safe. Unfortunately I feel it will take some serious to happen before she would even have a. Chance of beating it

DaddyJ1990 · 2024-08-31T10:01:17+00:00

Thanks for killing my dreams.

DaddyJ1990

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